What kind of psychology is it to visit relatives and let others send things themselves without sending them?

First, be considerate of your economic conditions, save money for you, and send less or not;

The second is not to compare with you and pull you into the water, but to do what you can;

The third is to show off your sincerity, ability and skills. In this case, relatives generally don't. This special situation will only appear when giving gifts to leaders, and it is a black-box operation.

Actually, I think too much. He gave it to him and you gave it to you. There is no need to be at his mercy. At the same time, who gives how many gifts depends on his mood, ability and feelings, and has nothing to do with anyone.

If you have a correct attitude, your mood will be open and comfortable.

This is a typical self-esteem psychology. That is to win the respect of relatives and gain the vanity envied by others.

I remember the centenary banquet for my niece and children. I asked my sisters-in-law in my hometown how to prepare gifts for my children in advance. Because I really don't know how my family treats others. Sister-in-law said,' One red envelope, one brown sugar, one vermicelli and one twist. Let's count the red envelopes. "Okay, I get it," I promised.

As a result, somehow, maybe your sister-in-law is in the countryside, and I am at least in the city, not too rustic. I just want a red envelope, a box of pure milk, two boxes of earth eggs and a pack of brown sugar (for pregnant women only).

It happened that two sisters-in-law came out to meet me that day. When they saw this, they called me' too sincere' and didn't know whether to praise me or criticize me. I felt very strange after listening to it, but I still walked quickly with a gift in my hand and walked to my niece's house with a smile.

Then I thought about it. What psychology is at work? Broke the rules of sister-in-law It is because you have lived in the city for a long time, occupied the feeling of the market, gained respect from each other, and had a good self-awareness. How can it be so empty?

Does anyone feel the same way as me? Please leave a message to pay attention