How to stay in love for a long time?

How to fall in love

So that it can last for a long time?

First: The best way to have a long-term relationship is not to pay too much attention to the matter of love.

Don’t be too enthusiastic all of a sudden when you fall in love. The lasting love in my heart is only 20% passionate and 80% rational. Rationality means that you have your things to be busy with, and I have my things to do, support each other, communicate peacefully, and progress at the same acceleration.

It is also very simple to make: very sticky and high-quality when together, and very thorough when separated.

1. First, let’s talk about “the quality of being together is very high”

When we are together, both parties can fully feel that they are in sweet love and fully communicate. This "love state" is completely different from the usual life state. Instead of each looking at his or her cell phone and chatting about his or her own affairs, just like when you let him go on a date with you, it seems that you are instantly freed from the stressful work state and enter a lively, interesting, and lovely love state.

For example, like the Fairy Qu and Dr. Zhao in "Ode to Joy", the little brother will be obsessed with you easily. This is an important part of female charm. "When he is with you, he can get the benefits of being with others." a state that cannot be possessed at the time".

The female charm here is still the commonly used formula: charm = seductive femininity + innocent childishness.

2. Let’s talk about “the separation is complete”

Everyone’s current living situation must be that they are separated more often. If possible during this period, we should separate completely. , use T00’s energy to focus on managing your work and life well. When you are separated, you can focus more time on the workplace. During the time you are separated, you must allow yourself to become a better person, and you must also allow your boyfriend to use this time to polish his competitiveness.

"Stop working and stay with me" is the language of a little girl. We have grown up and matured, and it is not our partner's responsibility to please us.

Second: Never fall in love against human nature.

Love is a sexy little game between people. Since we are human beings, we all have dark sides, so "that's almost enough" is a very important thinking.

It doesn’t take you 100% to take care of my emotions, it’s almost okay; it doesn’t take 100% of you to be honest with me, it’s almost okay; it doesn’t take 100% of you to be honest with me, it’s almost okay; it doesn’t take 100% for things to go according to the expected plan, it’s almost okay.

Challenging human nature is very dangerous. Only when you are a little more angry can your relationship last longer. If you follow human nature and fall in love, you will get more love than you imagine.

Never fall in love against human nature. We have to try to accept the fact that the other person loves themselves more than they love us, and loves their family more than they love us, and get love on this basis. If we fall in love with human nature in this way, the other person will be more relaxed, and we will be more likely to be happy and less likely to be disappointed.

If you think you are prone to worry about gains and losses, are too possessive, or are overly jealous, you can adjust it in these two ways:

1. Firmly believe that "I am worthy of being loved."

Become more beautiful, become sexy, and make your career more successful... This sense of self-worth can largely eliminate the anxiety caused by lack of confidence and make you less worried about gains and losses.

2． Try asking yourself "Has he really cheated on me?"

Many times, the so-called bad situation has never happened at all, it is all imagined out of thin air. Give yourself and the other party more confidence, and guess that jealousy will not make love better.

Third: Who you are will determine the kind of love you will receive.

Whenever you are in love, you should focus on your own life, and always use 80% of your energy to focus on self-growth, becoming more and more beautiful, more and more charming, more and more radiant, and more and more beautiful. Be happy (happiness is very important). These are the prerequisites for gaining appreciation and love.

It sounds selfish, but it is true that long-term intimate relationships rely on running-in, and even more on "attraction". The feelings of mutual attraction, seduction, mutual respect and appreciation are the most lasting.

The secret to keeping a relationship fresh is to continue to bring your own endless vitality and vitality into the love.

I think the above is the experience that can be summarized in intimate relationships, and the rest are just tips. For example, how to create a sense of freshness and how to maintain a sense of mystery. In fact, when you become a lively, interesting and open-minded individual, you will naturally release a lot of surprises.

Generally speaking, who you are will determine the kind of love you will have.

So, whether you are in love or not, you must have "single power". Regardless of whether you are single or not, you should be full of charm and vitality every day, be open to the future and the unknown, and live a sexy and happy life like a golden bachelorette. Finally, I hope that we all have feelings of equality and common progress.