Daughter-in-law must look at her mother-in-law's heart.

I see many daughter-in-law posts here, most of which are about how bad her mother-in-law is and how to fight with her mother-in-law. But there are few posts that my mother-in-law says my daughter-in-law is not good.

Daughters-in-law may say that her mother-in-law can't type and her mother-in-law can't use a computer. But wives, please think about it. Now it's 20 10, and young mothers-in-law are everywhere. Girls in their twenties marry boys, and their mother-in-law is usually in her fifties, and some are in her forties. At this age, many mother-in-law can use computers. For example, I am 56 years old and have used computers for more than ten years. I can type 50 to 60 words a minute, sometimes more. But I would never say that my wife is not good here. Why?

I think my mother-in-law is more tolerant:

1, specific gravity:

When I was young, I liked freedom very much, and I didn't like the old people taking care of themselves. Then, your mother-in-law doesn't care how her son and daughter-in-law are doing. Let them live as they want, as long as they are happy.

2. Tolerance:

There are many only children now. If the mother-in-law has only one son, she can take her daughter-in-law as her daughter's pet. Of course it's hard to do, but at least it's understandable and tolerant. Sometimes I don't like it. I just thought that if she were my daughter, I would be very tolerant, so I figured it out. Didn't you say long live understanding? It shouldn't be hard to understand.

I think there must be many reasons why my mother-in-law doesn't say that her daughter-in-law is not good here, but there is no doubt that her mother-in-law wants her son to be happy. Sometimes when I read those extreme posts, I am really speechless, and I don't even bother to reply, because some daughters-in-law here are really out of line.

Maybe this post of mine will arouse the dissatisfaction of my daughters-in-law, but I saw a post about slapping my mother-in-law, and I was complacent. There are many responses to support this behavior. So I couldn't help writing this paragraph. I really want to ask the shopkeeper, what would you do if your sister-in-law slapped your mother?

Different opinions can be discussed, but please don't abuse them here. Respect for others means respect for yourself.

I think the average mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are willing to live in harmony at first, but their living habits and ways of seeing things are different. So, try to be tolerant and understanding. Under the same roof, there can be no contradiction. Try to downplay it.

I believe that the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law nowadays (especially in the city) are more sensible. As long as everyone is more tolerant and patient, I believe the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law will be improved.