What kind of experience is it to get married far away?

In addition to courage, money and inner strength, we have to get married far away. What difficulties will you encounter?

First of all, if it is the adaptation of living habits, if there are great regional differences, there are many problems to get used to, such as weather, diet, culture and so on. These problems are caused by different cities or regions, and only need enough time to get used to them.

Secondly, it is more difficult to adapt to loneliness, because the relatives and friends who are married far away are not around, and it is much more difficult to make friends at this age. It's hard to make such good friends as people who grew up together. When you are in trouble, sad and helpless, you can only call when you want to share, and you can't hydrolyze when you quench your thirst. Many times you may feel lonely and helpless. Although you have a lover around you, your lover is not the only one in your life. I will also miss my family, worry about whether my parents are doing well when they are far away from home, worry that my parents suddenly fall ill and can't accompany and take care of them in time, and it is inevitable that I will miss a lot of time with my parents and feel guilty.

Finally, when there are contradictions, when there are problems in marriage, I don't know where to go. The city is so big, but there is no escape harbor. This requires a strong inner world. When a person faces difficulties, he also needs to be financially independent enough not to rely on his husband. If one day he is homeless because of contradictions, he can't even afford a plane ticket home. Many things are unknown, and he will feel insecure because of the unknown. If her husband doesn't have enough love and care,

Far marriage is a matter that needs serious consideration. To ensure that you are strong enough to face unknown difficulties, it takes independent courage to get married far away, and don't make plans for getting married far away because of temporary emotions.