Li: 18 He has cancer, and his neck is festering, which is very painful. His wife's actions refreshed him.

200 1 May, Li's TV series "China Tracking" is in full swing.

The crew is as busy as a bee.

But on this day, Li, who loves drama, suddenly "missed work".

However, it was also in a very reluctant situation that his wife Yu Haidan was forced to leave the cast.

It turned out that Li was suffering from cancer at that time. Because he didn't want to delay filming, he chose to run at both ends of the crew and the hospital.

In the treatment days when life was worse than death, the grief-stricken wife accompanied Li to fight cancer with tears in her eyes.

"My wife would rather give her life to save my life."

When saying this sentence, Li, who has always been unable to express his feelings, choked several times.

When Li couldn't stand the pain and wanted to give up,

It is his wife, Yu Haidan, who has been silently accompanying and encouraging him.

This gave Li the courage to fight the disease and the strength to persist.

Husband and wife have been married for 38 years, and the difficulties and hardships faced by * * * have turned into deep affection on the road of life …

The origin of Li's name is appropriate.

He was born in the winter of 1954, and it was snowing all over the sky outside.

Besides, Li's parents want their son to be healthy all his life, so they named him "".

When Li 1 1 was years old, he followed his father to Guizhou to support the construction.

/kloc-When he was 0/6 years old, he had no choice but to drop out of school and work for the sake of his family.

/kloc-at the age of 0/9, Li became an army engineer and began to repair bridges and roads.

I loved art since I was a child, and I worked as an actor in a literary propaganda team in the army.

I often perform my own unique skills such as dancing, chorus, Shandong Kuaishu, etc. for my brothers in the army.

Drama performance is also his strong point.

Because he vividly played "Mu Renzhi" in the drama "White-haired Girl",

It is affectionately called "Komi Renzhi" by everyone.

1976, Beijing Second Artillery Art Troupe held a national performance, in which Li had the honor to participate.

In view of Li's outstanding performance, the regiment decided to keep him.

Li hurried back to Guizhou to tell his family the good news.

It was a great good thing to join the League at that time.

At that time, all the neighbors knew, and everyone envied the Li family.

But things are unpredictable. When Li returned to Beijing to report to the Central Committee of the Communist Youth League,

But someone told me that the regiment is downsizing and he is not needed for the time being.

Li, who has a strong self-esteem, is ashamed to go home and face his parents who have high hopes for him.

A man stood at the gate of the Second Artillery Art Troupe and wept bitterly.

Fortunately, an old head of the regiment is good at picking pearls.

Through his personal relationship, he gave Li an opportunity to participate in the assessment of the Air Administration Cultural and Art Troupe.

Li lived up to expectations and succeeded in one fell swoop, becoming a member of the Air Administration Art Troupe.

But Li's physical condition is not good enough, so he can only play a supporting role in the group.

In order to seize this hard-won opportunity, I rushed to do all the dirty work of Li.

Won the commendation of the group twice and gained a firm foothold in the group.

There is no difference in size between roles. In the drama "Chen Yishan" of the troupe,

Li decorated with four corners. Although they are all small roles, he will take them seriously.

Learn acting skills from young actors Pu Cunxin and Wang Xueyin at that time.

These three people benefited a lot and later became famous actors.

In the Air Administration Art Troupe, Li not only realized his dream as an actor, but also met his true love.

Yu Haidan is also an actor in the Air Force Art Troupe.

Before Li knew her, she had heard that there was a low-key, kind and enterprising colleague in the group.

After asking about it, I realized that this person was Li, and their fate quietly took root at this moment.

Out of curiosity, I took a keen interest in Li.

Under the intentional or unintentional observation, I found that Li was kind and lovely.

When I saw the crew sweating from the heat,

He will bring his own electric fan to everyone, and the result is too hot.

This honest and kind side is also reflected in getting along with Yu Haidan.

When he finds Yu Haidan extremely hot, he will prepare mung bean soup for her.

This concern and attention captured Yu Haidan's heart.

So the story of women chasing men began to be staged on Li.

On the eve of the Spring Festival, Li didn't get a ticket to go home, so he had to stay in the group.

Yu Haidan knew this, and he felt it was time to show his mind.

So she bought a movie ticket and gave it to Li.

This is something that Li never expected.

You know, Yu Haidan is not only the number one girl in the group,

He also starred in many masterpieces such as Summer Experience and Warm Current.

Family conditions are much better than Li's.

Aunt Yulan is a famous performing artist.

My cousin is also a talented and famous director, Tian Zhuangzhuang.

Li never thought that a goddess like this would be happy with him.

After all, I'm just an unknown actor.

In the face of the goddess' active pursuit, it is hard for Li not to be moved.

So the two gradually opened their hearts and began to associate.

Yes, a man, Li, immersed in the sweetness of love, also ushered in a turning point in his career.

1980, Li began to develop as a TV actor and starred in "A Journey to Tianshan Mountain";

At the same time, he has not forgotten his old job. In the same year, he starred in the drama "September 13th Incident".

And won the "Plum Blossom Award" for his superb acting skills.

65438+August 1, 0983, that is, August 1st Army Day,

Li He's relationship turned into a positive result and entered the marriage hall.

Their good friend, Wang Peigong, wrote a banner for them to celebrate "See you in the plum blossom and snow, the Dan of the Coral Sea".

Two years later, my son Li Gen was born.

In order to let her husband concentrate on his acting career, Yu Haidan resolutely chose to retreat behind the scenes and shift his focus from the stage to his family.

After returning home, Yu Haidan not only managed the family affairs in order,

He also provided great help in Li's work.

With his good resources and unique vision, Yu Haidan has a unique view on the choice of scripts.

Li gave many useful suggestions when choosing a script.

When Li performs on the stage, he will watch it in person.

After returning home, I will also ponder acting skills with my husband and strive for perfection.

Li also attaches great importance to his wife's ideas, saying that her is the first audience in each of his works.

With the growing affection between husband and wife, Li's career has also ushered in a stage of vigorous development.

From 65438 to 0990, the role played by Li in Desire entered the audience's field of vision and received enthusiastic response.

Li Qingchun's kind character and superb acting skills have vividly interpreted the simple and honest.

So that there was a saying circulating all over the country that year:

"The whole country mourns, the whole country scolds the king and everyone sighs."

Later, he won the Golden Rooster Award and the Hundred Flowers Award for Gioyuru.

Being able to win two heavyweight awards at a time is not unrelated to his deep excavation of this role.

In order to play Jiao well, Li not only delved into the script,

I also asked my wife to borrow all the materials related to Jiao from the library.

Seriously analyze and try to figure out the personality characteristics of the characters, and actively discuss and share their feelings with the director.

Before turning on the computer, Li also went to Jiao's home to truly feel his previous life and increase his control over the role from the details of life.

Jiao Youlu's wife Xu Junya warmly invited Jiaozi to receive them.

However, when it comes to movies, Xu Junya bluntly said that Li and Jiao are very different in appearance.

Li is short, but his figure is relatively large and his skin color is not tanned.

After this trip, Li knew that his appearance must be highly consistent with his role.

Because the Jiao he plays is a unique and great image in people's minds,

It is disrespectful to play such a person who has no fighting spirit.

So Li started his own weight loss blackening plan.

Only drink cabbage soup 20 days before starting the machine, and bask in the skin whenever you have time.

This effort made him lose more than 20 kilograms as soon as he turned on the phone, and his skin became dark.

The changed image made Xu Junya feel distressed when he came to visit the class: "Don't starve the child to death."

Many things happen. After the film Gioyuru was released, it caused a sensation in the whole country.

It set a record for the number of copies of new films in the first round.

From then on, Li became famous and invited constantly.

When Zhang Shaolin, a famous director, cast for his new film "Water Margin",

I have never found a suitable actor to play the role of "Song Jiang".

Until he saw Li's works, he immediately decided that Li was the best person to play Song Jiang.

I immediately found Li and sent him an invitation to action. Li hesitated.

Because he is worried that playing the "capitulator" Song Jiang will make the audience with clear love and hate criticize him.

But later, he also learned that there is no good or bad role.

As an actor, it is my duty to play every role well.

So at the director's repeated invitation, he decided to play Li.

Li was born for drama, and he vividly interpreted the personality characteristics of "Song Jiang", which was treacherous, cowardly and ignorant.

Gao Qiu killed Lin Chong's wife, and Song Jiang released Gao Qiu for the so-called woo.

When meeting the people in the imperial court to bow down, Li also specially added the details of "Song Jiang's ass sticking up".

Vividly and vividly highlights the ignorant side of "Song Jiang" attached to the imperial power.

It is said that after the water margin was broadcast,

A Hunan audience was furious when they saw a series of behaviors of Song Jiang courting the court in Water Margin.

Directly smashed the 20-inch TV at home. At that time, TV set was an expensive household appliance.

This news was reported in the newspaper, and CCTV bought a 29-inch TV set to appease the audience.

Not only the audience in Hunan, but also the villagers in Li's hometown of Shandong are angry.

Li was afraid to go back to his hometown in Shandong after filming.

In order to prevent one thousand, his wife Yu Haidan advised him:

"Don't go back for a while, there are many people waiting to rob you in my hometown, ready to beat you.

Let's hide outside and go back when the limelight is over. "

I have to say that Li's textbook-level acting is deeply rooted in the hearts of the people.

Originally, I thought that Mr. Li was good at acting and enterprising, and would develop smoothly all his life.

Unexpectedly, it backfired.

200 1 When filming China Orbit, I found a red pimple on Li's neck.

I want to go to the hospital with him for a good check-up.

Li thinks it may just be a bag bitten by mosquitoes, and it is not worth the trouble.

Yu Haidan also thought about this problem. After all, it was summer, and it was really easy to be bitten by mosquitoes, so he didn't care too much.

I just got some anti-inflammatory drugs for Li.

Later, halfway through the filming, I suddenly felt a foreign body growing in Li's nose.

My throat is itchy and painful. I didn't know I had nasopharyngeal carcinoma in the middle until I went to the hospital for examination.

Yu Haidan was very anxious after learning the news, and immediately rushed to her husband from Beijing.

Li is not afraid of this, thinking, "I can eat and sleep, but this disease can't beat myself."

Therefore, after a meeting, the crew decided to let Mr. Li be hospitalized immediately. When the filming was suspended, Li was flatly rejected.

In his view, the drama is getting bigger and bigger, and stopping shooting at this time will bring immeasurable losses to the crew.

He would rather delay treatment than make sacrifices for himself.

Yu Haidan know the principle of her husband, she said to the crew:

"I know Lao Li, let's respect him. We won't have surgery for the time being, let him do some conservative treatment while filming. "

Since then, Li began to run at both ends of the crew and the hospital.

In the morning, he filmed in the crew. In the afternoon, his wife accompanied him to the hospital for treatment.

Yu Haidan looked at her emaciated husband and blamed herself.

I think, if she had insisted that her husband check the red envelope around his neck, she would not have let her husband's condition develop to the present.

When filming the last scene, Li was in poor health. After a few words, I fainted directly to the ground.

Yu Haidan and the staff present were in tears and rushed him to the hospital.

The condition is threatening, and it is only one month before cancer is discovered.

Li dropped rapidly, lost weight, prominent cheekbones and sunken eyes.

The doctor said after giving Li a comprehensive examination:

"Teacher Li is too weak for surgery, otherwise there will be sequelae."

Therefore, Li can only choose chemotherapy.

The side effects of chemotherapy are unimaginable.

Miss Li's hair has all fallen off, and the blood vessels on her body surface have changed color, leaving only skin and bones on her legs.

Oral ulcers, inability to speak, and difficulty in drinking water can only be found in bed.

In June 2002, Li, who was weak, couldn't stand the pain and couldn't help saying to his wife:

"It's too painful to live. I think life is worse than death. If I leave, you should take good care of your son. "

Yu Haidan cried and said to her husband:

"You this is irresponsible idea, if you have any accident, my son and I? What about the parents on both sides? "

"I don't care so much," Li responded painfully.

After speaking, both of them cried into tears.

Afraid that her husband Li would do something to hurt himself, she stayed with her husband day and night.

Her words made Li feel like a knife:

"If my life could be yours, I would give everything for you."

The pain caused by long-term chemotherapy made Li feel like meat under the knife, and he could only be slaughtered.

He no longer has the hope of life, passively coping with the disease, and only hopes to die early.

Yu Haidan is helpless for such a husband who doesn't listen to advice and often hides in the bathroom, Lacrimosa.

She turned to her cousin Tian Zhuangzhuang, who is two years older than Li. They are good friends.

Tian Zhuangzhuang severely scolded Li on the phone this time:

"You are a soft egg, lack of man's vigor!

How hard it is when you can only be a little actor. You survived. Is this disease more difficult now than at the beginning? "

Aunt Yu Lan also said:

"I was seriously ill before. I had two kinds of cancers alone and had three operations.

But I survived. I can do it, and I'm sure you can, too. "

In addition to family members, please ask your favorite son Li to encourage his father to fight the disease.

Li Gen is a rabbit. He gave Li a green glass rabbit, which contained his sincere wishes and attached a letter:

"Dad, because I can't accompany you at school to support you in fighting diseases,

You hang this glass rabbit around your neck and let him accompany you instead of me.

When I was a child, you taught me to persist and be strong. Have you forgotten?

You must be strong. Mom and I will cheer for you. "

Li was heartbroken after reading it, and tears wet the letter paper.

With the support of relatives, Li regained his confidence in overcoming the disease.

In September of the same year, she underwent lesion resection in the hospital.

In order not to let his wife cry, Li actively cooperated with the treatment for his own efforts.

Forcing yourself to eat to maintain physical strength, taking medicine and re-examination are the same.

In 2004, Li's cancer was finally relieved and her physical function was basically restored.

However, the huge side effects brought by drugs inevitably made him physically disabled and his hearing was seriously damaged.

Only by wearing a hearing aid can you hear what others say clearly.

The media and audience are deeply saddened by this artist with both ability and political integrity, calling him "the disabled film emperor".

Li was not defeated by his illness, but returned to acting.

It's easy to wear hearing AIDS when acting.

In order to ensure the audience's viewing experience, Mr. Wang resolutely does not wear hearing AIDS to film.

But silently spent several times reciting all the lines of himself and all the actors who want to play opposite him.

After memorizing each other's lines,

Li judged which line the other party was talking about through his mouth.

What kind of lines and expressions should I pick up?

Miss her husband became Li's assistant when he was working, taking care of his food, clothing, housing and transportation in the crew.

20 1 1 Li starred in film and television dramas such as The Beginning of the Great Rejuvenation and A Hundred Years' Love Letter.

20 1 1 was rated as an excellent film contributor.

Since then, Yu Haidan will accompany her husband to the hospital for reexamination every year.

Perhaps it is the curtain of heaven, perhaps it is the strong struggle of Teacher Li, whose health is getting better every year.

The patient who was in the hospital with Mr. Li before has either died or his condition has not improved.

The doctor lamented that Miss Li had created a miracle of life, but Miss Li said emotionally:

"The creator of this miracle is my wife Yu Haidan."

After going back and forth on the door of death several times, Li had a deeper feeling about life and marriage.

In the past, he only thought that growing old together was just talk.

Now he realizes that the true feelings of "growing old together" have long been integrated into daily life.

Now every time he crosses the street with his wife, he will hug each other tightly.

Usually go out for a walk, and when the couple are tired, they will sit on the stools on the side of the road to rest and help each other rub their arms.

It is said that there is no real unswerving feeling in the world, but Li He is deeply affectionate.

Has long been more and more pure in the process of fighting against the disease with * * *.

The hardships of life did not crush them, but made them stronger.

Who can not envy such a tearful feeling?

The way husband and wife help and support each other,

Li and He are the best examples.

Such sincere and firm feelings are precious.

Take the Temple of Qi Mei as an example.

Not only can we live together in peace, but we can also help each other when we go through big storms.

Whether it is a rich life or a stormy life, it is the touchstone of marriage.

Li He undoubtedly passed the test!

—— END ——

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