What would life be like if I hadn't met you?

If I hadn't met you, where would I be?

How's life? Do you want to cherish life?

Maybe know someone and live an ordinary life.

I wonder if there will be love as sweet as honey.

Time flies, I only care about you.

Willing to infect your breath

Life geometry can get a bosom friend.

It is not a pity to lose the power of life.

So I beg you, don't let me leave you.

Except for you, I don't feel the slightest affection.

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I especially like the first two sentences in this song "I only care about you": If I didn't meet you, where would I be? How's life? Do you want to cherish life?

People are destined to meet many people in their life, but most of them are just passers-by. After a brief intersection, they separated, but there was always a moment when fate recruited a new person for you with a genius's trick, and let him occupy your heart and become the only one in your life.

Everything about you will change because of him from now on.

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When he came to my house, I still saw him in front of my eyes. He is thin, with long legs, light steps and quick movements. It seems that there is nothing special about him, but he still attracts my attention. He has something that his eyes cannot see. I can't tell you exactly what it is.

Frida Lawrence wrote about her first meeting with Lawrence in her memoir "Not Me, It's the Wind".

At that time, Frida was 3 1 year-old, the mother of three children, and her husband was a university professor. The family lived a very good life in traditional English society.

One day, a young man named Lawrence knocked on Frida's door. He came to the professor to write a recommendation letter. It happened that the professor was not at home that day, and it was the professor's wife Frida who opened the door.

At the moment of opening the door, 23-year-old Lawrence saw Frida, and the sunshine filled his eyes instantly. When he came back, he couldn't wait to write a letter to the woman who brought sunshine. In the letter, he said: She is the most beautiful woman in England.

Later, they eloped because this love was not accepted by society. Only by relying on each other and supporting each other can we continue our lives. Relying on literature and creation, they finally established a life and achievement that belonged to two people and never thought of.

Life is short, but it becomes beautiful because of love. Before meeting love, the definition of a good life may be to have a good job, earn a lot of money, live in a big house, drive a luxury car, and get social recognition and affirmation from others; But when you have love, you will find that the meaning of life has been redefined.

At this point, all you want is: three meals for two people in one room, four seasons.

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Just like Shen Fu recorded himself and Chen Yun in Six Chapters of a Floating Life, ordinary trivial days are just a simple meal and four seasons without beautification and ceremony, but every day is so real and warm.

Anyone who has read this book is deeply moved by the attitude of this secular couple who seriously loved each other and worked hard more than 200 years ago.

13 years old, Shen Fu first met her cousin Yunniang, who is 10 months older than Shen Fu. Father Shen said to his mother, "I will never marry a virgin." . It can be said that it was love at first sight, and the two decided to live a lifetime.

17 years old, two people got married, and their married life was very dull, just like most of us ordinary people. Usually, Shen Fu goes out as a staff officer, and the bride does needlework at home. When she is not at work, they drink, write poems and arrange flowers.

For example, Shen Fu recorded the process of homemade scented tea in summer, and he wrote:

Xia Yue lotus blooms in the evening, except when it is released. Yun wraps a little tea in a small gauze, puts it in the flower heart, takes it out tomorrow morning and cooks it in natural spring water, which is particularly fragrant.

It is said that Shen Fu likes garlic, but the bride doesn't. After a long time, my mother was "smoked" by Shen Fu's garlic smell and ate garlic. In this way, when they are intimate, they will not dislike each other's tone.

Mother loves to eat fermented bean curd pickles, so let Shen Fu try it. Shen Fu suspected that fermented bean curd smelled bad, and Shen Fu compared eating fermented bean curd to "dogs eat shit". Mother was angry: "I followed you to eat rotten garlic, but you didn't accompany me to eat fermented bean curd and called me a dog."

Unable to stand his wife's complaint, Shen Fu crustily skin of head "became a dog". After the entrance, the salty and spicy taste of fermented bean curd made him feel relieved. It smells bad and tastes great.

On normal days, even eating garlic and fermented bean curd can be so gentle and affectionate. No wonder everyone loves Shen Fu and his mothers.

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Some people say that when Shen Fu met Chen Yun, he achieved love, himself and six chapters of a floating life.

In fact, Shen Shi and his wife live a poor and vagrant life. Many times, they have to work hard to survive, and finally it is difficult to sustain. At the age of 46, Shen Fu died.

But before that, in the long marriage life, Shen Fu was able to live a charming and even warm and gentle life, except for the glory of a mother.

When you meet the right person, you can write a poem and sing a song no matter how hard and tired you are. Therefore, it is the luck of Shen Fu's life to meet his mother.

This kind of love has traveled through time and space, and it is still fresh and beautiful in the hearts of future generations. This kind of love is what we yearn for! Simple and pure, nothing but feelings. Get married and start a family when you are in love. After that, you will protect each other's love in your ordinary life.

A couple, known for 24 years, married 12 years. According to the hostess, after the first class in senior one, she looked up and the man turned back. In an instant, a light shot in. ...

Many years later, when the hostess looked through her diary, she finally realized: It turned out that it was called walking through thousands of waters in Qian Shan. You crossed the clouds, and I came here in the wind. In the vast sea of people, through everyone's eyes, just to find you.

No car, no house, no money. On a rainy day in April, they got married naked. Time flies 12 years, the secular world is busy, ignoring a lot and forgetting a lot, but the feelings buried in the deep heart have never changed: mutual fulfillment and mutual encouragement.

Liang Yong 'an, a master tutor in Fudan University, said: Loving someone is the most important thing in your heart. You love and like a person intuitively. When I was young, I loved the most thoroughly. Only in middle age can we fight against the dull fleeting time, and in old age can we join hands and live up to this life.

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Now the social environment is complicated. Many people are still young and are already old drivers on the road to love. They have experienced more love and have a framework in their hearts. They began to choose love rationally.

When a person no longer puts all his enthusiasm into love, but chooses love with a purpose, the chosen person is doomed to be a disaster.

These days, Shi reported that Chen Jun, the former general manager of Greenland Group's marketing department, took advantage of his position to have an affair with his wife, and once boarded a hot search in Weibo.

Throughout the history and communication, in the past four years, we have been exposed to famous brand clothes, bags, jewelry and cosmetics. If Shi didn't study and work in Australia, he couldn't afford luxury goods and millions of living expenses, would the post-95 generation marry him?

I don't think so. After all, in the eyes of these beautiful Zhang Yuting girls, they have put a price tag on themselves and their love. Find a person who loves himself and can support himself. Get married first and find yourself a safety card.

If I hadn't met Chen Jun in power, I could still continue Xiu Xiu's love in Shi's arms. But when she met Chen Junshi who could give her a job, buy her a designer bag and easily reimburse her expenses, all cities had houses, divorced her ex-wife by 5 million yuan, plus two luxury houses.

Everything has changed. So what if you're almost 50? What about baldness? 30 million is enough to offset all discomfort. Through this comparison, the young stone is obviously not as rich as an old man. So, he fell in love with Chen and was pregnant with each other's children for two months.

After learning the truth, Shi chose to be calm and keep the evidence, exposing the ambiguous relationship between men and women to the sun. Shi, who was disappointed by love, wrote in Weibo: If I didn't know you at the beginning, if I could keep my distance at the beginning, there would be no ending today!

Love is an instant thing, and the feelings it brings, such as excitement, joy, sweetness, sadness and disappointment, come together like a stream, which is a real life that can be touched by your fingertips.