What are those people in school who fight every day, smoke, drink and pick up girls and have sex with people in society, who are called "awesome people"?

When mixing in society, you must remember these words

1. Don’t underestimate anyone.

2. You don’t have that many viewers, so don’t be so tired.

3. Be gentle with people and things. Don't lose your temper randomly, no one owes you anything.

4. It’s very painful now, but when you look back after a while, you will find that it was actually nothing.

5. Cut off friendships with people who are malicious to you. Only when people break up with each other can they have close friends.

6. Learn to be tolerant of people who hurt you, because they are very pitiful, everyone has their own difficulties, and it is not easy for everyone.

7. Learn to give up. The tighter you pull, the more painful you will be.

8. Keep a low profile, and there must be gains and losses when making trade-offs.

9. Don’t try to make any excuses for yourself. No one likes to hear those excuses when faced with mistakes.

10. Be careful when speaking, be independent, and learn to compromise while also adhering to your most basic principles.

11. Effort does not necessarily lead to results. Persistence may lead to more losses.

12. You can not forget the past, but you must let it go.

13. Live easy and make the best plan and the worst plan for everything.

14. Be a simple person, down-to-earth and pragmatic. Don't indulge in fantasies. Don't bother yourself.

15. Don’t lie, because one day you will be exposed.

16. There may be too much unknown pain behind other people’s glory

17. Try to enrich yourself. Don't stop learning. No matter what you learn, language, cooking, various skills.

18. Pay attention to your own cultivation. You are your child's first teacher.

19. Be filial to your parents. Not just words, but even a few more phone calls would be good.

20. Love your parents, because they gave you life, and they are also the most selfless people who love you.

21. Sometimes you have to be realistic and hypocritical, because if you don’t do that, it will be difficult to get along.

22. Control your temper, and occasionally be deliberately silent, because impulsiveness will make you do things that are irreversible.

23. No matter what you do, think about it.

24. Never give a friend who has betrayed you a chance to betray him a second time.

25. No matter who you are, you have your own limits. Especially trust.

26. Know how to listen to other people’s advice.

27. Keep what others say in your head, but keep what you say in your heart.

28. Try not to gossip about colleagues and friends.

29. Believe in Buddhism and cause and effect. In the face of real cause and effect, human power is insignificant.

30. Accept the gifts that life gives you calmly, whether they are good or bad.

31. To truly understand the meaning of impermanence, when you are in pain, you have to think that the pain is not eternal, and when you are happy, you have to think that the happiness is not eternal either.

32. Be happy, cheerful, tough, warm, and sincere to others.

33. Read when you are empty and bored, but you must have your own life goals and plans.

34. Have a clear understanding of the weaknesses of human nature, but you must believe in sincere love and always have a pure yearning for love.

35. Don’t rely too much on people other than yourself, because you are the only one who will not abandon yourself.

36. Always be full of hope in life, and face difficulties and tribulations with a smile.

37. Read more books and read good books.

38. Eat less and eat well.

39. Gu Long said that girls who love to laugh will not have bad luck.

40. Make more friends and make good friends. Women must have besties.

41. Please remember that the definition of a good friend is: if you do well, she is happy for you from the bottom of her heart; if you do not do well, she is sincerely anxious for you.

42. Have a dream, even if it is far away.

43. Try to love someone. If you pay, you may not get anything; if you don’t pay, you won’t get anything. Don’t expect miracles.

44. Promise is a beautiful thing, but beautiful things often do not become reality.

45. Everyone has their own distinct opinions and personalities. Don’t try to change others. Likewise, don’t be changed by others. If you change, you will no longer be yourself.

46. There is no perfect thing and no perfect person. The key is to know what you want. To get what you want, you will definitely lose another part. If you want everything, you will get nothing.

47. The most fragile thing in this world is life. Good health is very important.

48. God is fair to everyone.

49. Don’t try to control others, don’t ask others to understand you

50. Live in the present, don’t waste your present life by missing the past or looking forward to the future

51. Don’t forget your roots, at any time, for anything

52. Be sincere, be calm, be generous, be tolerant, and have a normal mind

53. Learn to forget, Forgetfulness is a good thing

54. Be optimistic, be positive, smile more, and look in the mirror more

55. Believe what he says, but don't take it seriously.

56. You have to be careful in everything.

57. Don’t be smart.

58. Make your own decisions. Then be prepared to face the consequences. Remind yourself from the beginning that there is no such thing as regret medicine.

59. If you don't like someone, you can respond with a silent smile; if you like someone, just do whatever you want, because your love will be revealed unstoppably.

60. Believe in karma! Believe in reincarnation!

61. Learn to be patient and persistent!

62 There is no true love in this world... time can dilute everything

63. Don’t be a hedgehog. If you can’t make enemies with others, you won’t make enemies with others. You won’t be with anyone for the rest of your life. , there are some things that you don’t need to keep in mind

64. Sometimes you have to learn to listen to the opinions of people around you, and more often this way you will not get hurt.

65. Only by forgetting the past can we have a new beginning.

66. The world is very unfair.

67. Don’t rely too much on your friends. Human nature basically has a bad side.

68. Love is beautiful, believe in love. If you don’t even believe in love, wouldn’t life be too miserable?

69. If you want to get one thing, you will definitely lose another thing.

70. Pain makes people grow. It is an opportunity and a challenge for you to make progress. Don't be afraid of painful things, it has a positive side.

71. People are lonely, and the only way to alleviate the pain it brings is to accept it calmly.

72. Those who have not experienced it will never understand these principles, but it is good to listen.

73. You don’t have to be beautiful, you don’t have to be cute, you don’t have to be gentle, but you have to be honest and kind.

74. Love all beautiful things, praise and enjoy the beauty they bring.

75. When difficulties come, face them with a smile and solve them with wisdom.

76. Be brave enough to admit your mistakes and bear the responsibilities they bring.

77. Love your family, friends, partner, and children, but you must truly live for yourself.

78. Never worry about what has happened and what has not happened. Worrying about a fait accompli that has already happened will not help. If something has not happened, you can only rely on subjective assumptions and cannot deduce the direction of things, which only adds to worries.

79. Don’t always tell others about your difficulties and expose your vulnerability.

80. Don’t think about relying on others, but have goals and pursuits. This has nothing to do with age.

81. Be a simple person, down-to-earth and pragmatic. Don't indulge in fantasies. Don't bother yourself.

82. Learn to think, have a clear mind, understand your own insignificance, and avoid being narcissistic. Don't force yourself to be the best in everything, because you are not as strong as you think!

83. Everyone is an independent individual. It is true that no one can live without the other!

84. Don’t overestimate your power in the group, because when you choose to leave, you will find that the sun still rises even without you!

85. Society is hierarchical, and many things are unfair. Don't complain because it's useless.