Ma Bao, how much does your husband give you for living a month?

I feel that I have never worked because I don't have my own salary. For more than ten years, I got married and had children as soon as I graduated. The eldest is twelve, the second is eight, and the eldest is thirty-eight months. From the day I was with my husband, I kept all the money my husband earned. Because we are in small business, I didn't work with my husband until my second child went to kindergarten at the age of two. I won't do it again when I have a third child. I am in charge of all the money I earn. He only needs the capital to purchase goods, and other things he wants to do and spend money are all given to him through me. My husband doesn't know how much money he has saved for more than ten years, so I have as much as he earns.

I don't want to say anything, as if I had slandered my husband.

It's nonsense to call him generous.

The current situation is basically as follows:

1, don't give me a penny.

2, he pays the training fee for the children, and the boss pays about 5,000 yuan a month. And school meals cost 2000 yuan a year. The second child is still young, and the kindergarten tuition is 10 thousand a year.

3, the hydropower and coal grid of the big house. The net of a small house.

His mobile phone number has two sub-numbers, one is my son's and the other is mine.

5. Give me red envelopes on all festivals. Either 13 14 or 520.

6. He pays for eating out. He ordered takeout at home.

He bought rice, oil, vinegar and the like.

8. If you travel, he pays.

9. He also often buys clothes and shoes for children.

10, my own gas fee, help me refuel occasionally.

1 1, two-car maintenance insurance.

12, my skin care products and his own skin care products. I use Lancome and he uses Dabao.

13, he pays by the hour when he is at home.

In this way, he paid a lot of money Just didn't give me money. So I can't find too many problems, but I'm not very happy.

Mainly the second item, I often hand it in, ask him for it, and then drag it out. He also said that learning is useless and fruitless.

My expenses are roughly like this:

1, the gas cost of my own car.

2. Water and electricity in small houses.

When he is not at home, I order takeout. I deliver my own goods at work.

4. Rent a house at the workplace.

5, the second child's milk and diapers are not wet.

6.my own clothes.

7. Daily necessities in the rental house.

8. There are toilet paper wipes, big houses, small houses and rental houses in the places where you live.

9. Cosmetics. I use cheap flowers.

10, Taobao JD.COM buys all kinds of useless garbage.

1 1, I pay the hourly fee when he is not at home.

12, I buy toys for my children.

That's it. Basically, I raise myself with a small penis.

He supports his family, not me very much.

I just resigned for a month and started working at the age of 20. Four years later, I met my husband and I got married. 12 years, I gave 21,000 yuan as a wedding gift, and I brought back a dime after marriage. I have been working since I got married, and I got pregnant in the middle. I quit my job at home for a year, and my morning sickness was serious. My husband took his salary card. I used to live by savings when I was working, never asking for money and having children. He still holds a salary of 2000 yuan a month, but he can only force the child to take it to his mother-in-law. My father-in-law asked me to give her 1000 living expenses a month, and I paid for the children when the milk powder was not wet. I have no balance every month, too, and live like a dog. After a year or so, by chance, my relatives opened a shop for me to go to, and finally I was forced to leave my hometown and go to other places. The economic situation is much better. About 17, my husband's salary card also gave me more than 3000 a month. Last year, due to investment mistakes, he lost 50,000 to 60,000 yuan. I didn't say anything. Last year, I bought a small house for my children to go to school in the city, and this year I will give them primary school. On second thought, I resigned, so I haven't taken his money since I got married, and I have posted a lot. I have to work when my children go to school smoothly, and sometimes I

Earn your own money, not living expenses. In fact, they are all the same, husband and wife can't be separated, and * * * all work hard for family happiness!

At present, Dabao is over four years old, her husband has an annual salary of more than 200,000 yuan, two children and a car loan of 3,000 yuan. He never took the initiative to pay a penny, and he used his own credit card for online shopping or consumption. He's still, it's estimated that it's less than 2,000 yuan a month, but every time the repayment period is up, he tries his best to please him for fear that he won't pay back the money.

I am tired of taking care of my children. Every time I say that I am lazy, I have done nothing well. I'm thinking, just hire a cleaner and the nanny will pay me every month. I'm his wife. I've had two caesarean sections. My back hurts and I have a baby. It is more difficult to get money than to ascend to heaven. Every time I get angry, I will give him 1000 or so.

At present, I only have more than 10 thousand private money. At present, renting a house really wants to have its own house and home. When it comes to buying a house, I say: no money.

I have never been happy since I got married, but he loves his two babies very much, which is very gratifying!

In my mother's house before, I never cooked or washed dishes. When I married him, I was proficient in everything, sweeping the floor, cooking, washing dishes and taking care of the baby. I was always beaten for not doing well.

In his opinion, every penny I spend with him is to take advantage of him. Once is really unbearable. I slandered him. I gave birth to two babies and didn't die on the operating table. I will be angry with you all my life! He said go to hell! I said I'm a ghost when I die, and I won't let your family go!

I think I should be the worst stay-at-home mom!

Now that Bauer is over one year old, even if he can't bear it, he should try to give it to his grandmother and make money by himself. At present, there is no hope!

Let's start with my friend a. Is there anything wrong with her lifestyle? I use the first person:

I stayed at home for 36 months after giving birth to a baby, and my husband didn't give me any money.

How can I put it? My husband and I got married late and had a bad emotional foundation. After marriage, we also slowly cultivate feelings.

One advantage of late marriage is economic independence. I won't ask him how much money he has saved over the years, nor will he ask me about my financial accounts.

He has a stable job, provident fund plus salary, various benefits, about100000 a year.

Before I got married, I also had a regular job. Although my income is not as high as his, I still have some savings.

My husband is a very Mu Na person. I don't know if he likes me enough or is really stingy.

When I was just pregnant, I was working in a different place and he was studying in a different place. He seldom comes to see me, and he won't say, give me some money so that I can buy some good things to make up for it and add some nutrition. But every two weeks, we will make an appointment to go back to our hometown together, and he will accompany me to have a checkup. /kloc-He will be pregnant in October, so he will stay with me without missing the check-up.

Of course, all the expenses of this birth check-up, including the cost of giving birth, will be borne by him.

After giving birth to the child, I ended my work in a different place and took care of the child at home. My mother-in-law accompanied me and took care of me three times a day.

At home, I have been a full-time mother for 36 months. He has never given me a penny, and I have never tried to ask him for money.

Sometimes I think, if I reach out and ask him for money, will he give it?

Of course, when I find the opportunity, I will tell him jokingly that I have no money to spend, and he will reply to me directly. Aren't you rich?

Yes, I have money. Our family, in a small town in the south, gave more than 200 thousand as a bride price when we got married. My mother-in-law asked me to take it all back to the closet. Mother-in-law gave me a gift when I got married, a red envelope when I gave birth to a child, and a gift for holding wine when my child was one year old. In that case, I will be rich.

Besides, the house I live in now is my husband's pre-marital property. I bought furniture and electrical appliances when I first got married.

After the baby was born, my husband bought milk powder and diapers, and he paid for the utilities at home. I just accidentally bought food for myself, gave it to myself and my baby, and occasionally added some clothes to him.

Now, I have been liberated from my career as a full-time mother and found a new job.

We only have one car, and my husband takes me to and from work every day.

My husband and I discuss to deposit a fixed sum of money in my fixed account every month (we deposit 40% of our salary every month). As a family fund, he agreed. )

Then, our economy is still independent. He said his and I said mine. He bears part of the living expenses, and I am automatically responsible for other living expenses, so our days live like this.

However, the money in the fixed account has been purchased and has not been moved.

My friend's story is over.

I feel that their model is a bit implicit "AA system", but their cultural literacy and quality are very high, and they have a certain understanding in their life.

Therefore, there is no problem with their current living conditions.

From their lives, I come to a conclusion that it doesn't matter how much living expenses my husband gives a month, but we should understand the following points.

1. Women want to be economically independent, and economically independent women dare not neglect.

2. Women should not be too selfish, nor should they spend men's money blindly. Most of the time, they must understand and share the responsibility.

3. Women should not be too melodramatic (my friend is actually very confused about the present life, and her husband never celebrates his birthday. Even her mother-in-law has repeatedly reminded her that she always feels that she has received too little attention. Life is just rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea. What kind of love, love, in the end, has become a habitual dependence. As the saying goes, young couples always walk together.

I am a working mother, and my husband gets paid every month. Transfer everything to me except for myself 1000.

This method has both good and bad aspects.

The advantage is that two people's money is planned together, which can better control all kinds of expenses at home.

The financial situation of the family is also open and transparent, and there is no private money.

No matter which side has extra expenses, it will discuss with the other half, so that we can feel mutual trust and respect, and we will not quarrel because of economic problems, let alone because one side has spent a lot of money without the other half knowing.

Besides, it really makes me feel safe. In addition to my salary, some usual benefits and bonuses, my husband will transfer them to me voluntarily. I will feel very down-to-earth and feel his concern and responsibility for me and my family.

Of course, there are also negative aspects.

First of all, I have the money, and I have to consider all the expenses at home.

The salary transferred by my husband will be returned before liberation when I pay off the mortgage, car loan, children's milk powder and household miscellaneous expenses.

Money is just a transit point for me. Gently, it comes, gently, it goes again, and may take more money with it.

Because my salary is here, there are few or no surprises during the holidays.

My husband often says that you have money, and you can buy whatever you want, but I overstock myself, which may be one of the reasons why he is willing to let me take care of the money.

The end result is that after a few festivals, I don't even want to buy myself a gift. It's all my fault. Who let me buckle myself like this?

Now I realize that financial management is particularly important. I can't manage money. Money at home is depreciating. What's the point of holding it?

So it is a headache to start learning financial management. Every day after work, I have to worry about things at home and learn to manage money. It hurts to think about it. No wonder my hair loss is so serious. Really bald.

I think no matter what kind of distribution, it is for the whole family. Only when the whole family is better, all the efforts are worth it.

I have my family's money. My house and car are in my name. I haven't gone out to work for six years. I usually help my son with his homework. Now I only have a second daughter ... I haven't recorded my money, so I can buy anything I need in my life at any time. It is estimated that my family spends about 500 thousand pounds a year ... the cost of living in Beijing is a little higher and life is too tight. I haven't bought luxury accessories!

After eight years of marriage, my husband basically made money. During this period, I opened a shop for a year. Later, because of the problem of children going to school, I closed the store and went to the city to take care of their children. He never said who gave money to whom. When he makes money, he puts it in one place and takes it away from anyone who wants it. Basically, he will tell me everything he wants. I hardly spend money, but I eat the most. Eating fruit is my main expense. I take care of two children all the year round, and it costs at least seven or eight thousand yuan a month at home. I haven't got a mortgage or a car loan, just eating and drinking.

I belong to the kind that seldom spends money on myself. I don't know how to buy many clothes like other girls. I don't have much cosmetics, only basic skin care. My bag is also a small ck or something, but there is no big brand. My thoughts are old-fashioned. I think I should save some money to buy a house. Although there is a house now, children should always be considered when they grow up. I will give as much as my parents can, and I can't help it if I can't. Husband's own hard-earned money, husband's family basically has no money. I can also understand his hard work. If you have money, you can buy a house. When you get old, you have a place to live without children. I can't have sex with others, and neither can my husband. He is also more family-oriented.

Four thousand Hong Kong dollars. If you go out, he will buy anything. My husband doesn't smoke, drink or gamble, and he doesn't even have friends. So he doesn't spend money, his money doesn't need to be managed, and I won't. I just change food for her mother every month and give her living expenses to her daughter to eat milk powder. Besides going to work, he is at home and likes to hold his daughter. I take care of my mother and daughter, and my grandmother cooks. We 10 don't sleep, try to sleep at 9 o'clock. A very good family.