Tell me about your loss experience that benefited you for life.

But when you step into the society, you will feel that there is no real "loss". When I was in college, I took a part-time job as a takeaway and bought a second-hand electric car. On holidays, electric cars are ridden by roommates. At this time, I vaguely "felt" that I had suffered: I was responsible for the loss of the car and the electricity bill. If this roommate doesn't give me any financial or spiritual compensation in the future, then "suffering is a blessing" will not be established. But as a normal person, I won't let this happen: when I go home for the New Year and return to my original city, it was this roommate who let me live in the house he rented for free. This is "Fu". This also shows that there is no free lunch in the world. Loss is not a real loss. When you help others, they will certainly give you the same help or even more at some point in the future, and you will win friendship or other feelings that bring you spiritual pleasure, so losing is really a blessing. Don't be afraid of losing. The old man's old saying has been verified by practice.