My girlfriend said I was emotional. What should I say?

The simple word "emotion" will make you doubt yourself if you say it more than twice. Am I really unstable? Am I really sensitive as a big man?

Because your topic is too simple, it doesn't explain under what circumstances and what happened that she would say that about you, not to mention what kind of personality your girlfriend and you are. So, from a boy's point of view, sharing three answering skills may skillfully resolve the small-scale problems with your "emotional" girlfriend, use them flexibly, and then never quarrel again ~

Answer skills 1: "When you say the word emotion, does it mean that you are knowledgeable?" Do you know the definition of emotionality? You don't understand, and you just want to scare me with these three words? Play academic debate with me? "

Answer Tip 2: "My current state is not emotional. My name is that I produced thyroid hormone and adrenaline, because your inappropriate remarks hurt me. "

The above two kinds of replies suggest that your girlfriend is a kind of intellectual and anti-frustration personality, so as to receive your "tough" reply. For example, work ability, work income, or learning ability, a girlfriend with good social relations is suitable for such a similar answer. Also, pay attention to your tone, after all, it's your girlfriend, don't be too fierce, be gentle, it's not a big problem! !

If these two answers are not suitable, you can refer to the third answer I experienced personally below.

Before my girlfriend became my girlfriend, I lived with her best friend and raised a dog (pet) together. Come and live with me when you become my girlfriend. But she didn't tell me that if her best friend needs anything, or if the dog has any problems, such as illness, she will go over and solve the problems with her best friend, hoping I can support her.

Of course I said no problem, because I don't think her best friend or that dog needs anything once every three days, but at most three or two times a year, that's no problem. But later, I found that her best friend lived far away from me. Every month when I have my period, I look for a girlfriend. I went there for two or three days and lived far away. Although I live in the same city, I have to go back and forth for half a day. There is also the dog that often runs out, and I have to go to help find it together, saying that I can't bear to take care of it together. Oh, my God. ....

After this situation increased, I made a comment and my girlfriend called me "emotional". At first, I endured it. Later, I couldn't bear it. I said, "honey, I promised to help you when necessary, because I wanted to be with you so much that I thought I could accept anything." This is because I like it, so I decided to be tolerant. Now that we have been together for a long time, my feelings for you have gradually deepened. I don't just like it, so I worry that I will be afraid and make words and deeds that make you feel emotional. It is because I am emotional that I can keenly perceive your emotional changes. How can I make you sad? Do you think so? "

After I gave her a good ending, she seemed to think that my emotionality was actually not a big problem. So since then, she has also reduced her miscellaneous visits to her girlfriends, not saying that I am emotional.

In short, from the perspective of boys, I think boys are rarely emotional, maybe they want to protect their girlfriends too much, so some words and deeds that are not emotional enough make their girlfriends misunderstand. At this time, tell her beloved what she really thinks, and the problem will basically be solved. Everyone, if you think what I said is reasonable, please give me a compliment ~ ~