On life's perception of life reality

First, life will inevitably suffer some grievances and injuries. It's better to be calm than unhappy. Only by experiencing the baptism of wind and rain can we practice calm and calm.

Second, sand is waste and cement is waste, but they are mixed with concrete, which is no problem; Rice is a fine product, and gasoline is also a fine product, but it is waste when mixed together. It doesn't matter whether it's a boutique or a waste, what matters is who you mix with!

Third, ungrateful people regard your kindness as dry food and enjoy it endlessly; People who push their luck treat your accommodation as fat and plunder it unscrupulously. Whether the snake is warm or not, and whether the wolf is strange, people will never understand.

Fourth, people will encounter unpleasant things and people who are not pleasing to the eye in their lives. If you don't learn to forgive, you will live a painful and tired life. Forgiveness is a kind of grace, a kind of feeling, it is like an umbrella to help you walk in the rainy season. Learn to forgive and learn to be happy.

Five, life is like a trip, all the way hard, all the way scenery. What you can see is your realm of life. Always seeing people who are better than yourself shows that you are going uphill; Always seeing people who are not as good as yourself means that you are going downhill.

One day you will understand that people can't be too kind. If everything is too generous and tolerant, others will not appreciate you, but will intensify. People should have a little temper. Being too kind will make you lose value and dignity. Being too kind is also stupid. Remember one sentence: people are good at being bullied, and horses are good at being ridden. Everything is enough, and if you are too kind, you will lack your mind; Excessive humility will make you weak.

Seven, sometimes people are like this. When something big happens, they will endure, and they will endure. When they hear a word of comfort from people around them, they will be defeated in an instant. Later, I learned that what I was afraid of was not indifference, but sudden tenderness, not suffering alone, but that people around me felt sorry for you, not loneliness, but disappointment.