My husband wants me to be more relaxed when I have sex … how can I be more relaxed … depressed.

You just got married, and the process of making love needs to be adjusted slowly. Since your husband told you his wish, you should work together to improve it.

In fact, your husband's idea is normal as a man. You should tell him that you are embarrassed and don't know what to do. Guide each other slowly in the future, don't force it, it will get better gradually.

As long as you don't make it, my husband has been complaining that you are not open enough and you can't make it. That's too bad.

In a word, you are husband and wife, and love is your private affair and your sweet thing. As long as there is business and quantity, there will always be improvement.