My mother-in-law wouldn't let me hold a wedding reception when I got married, but she asked me to pay for her birthday half a month later. what do you think?

When I married my husband, his family was poor, and my mother-in-law shouted, "800 yuan for a table is so expensive." It is better to use money to do some small business for your husband and wife and live a good life after marriage, which is stronger than anything else. "

I'm surprised. "If you don't have a wedding banquet, where will you get the money?"

My mother-in-law has her own way, which is really unique. On our wedding day, we borrowed many stools from our neighbors, laid two long rows in the corridor and called all our relatives and friends home. Then everyone sends out a packet of wedding candy and cake, and sends everyone a cup of tea to chat, even if it is over.

Fortunately, there is no caretaker in the old building here. Who else would let her do it?

I didn't know these things until the day I got married. It's embarrassing. My husband is also very stingy and praises my mother-in-law for her shrewdness, so she came up with such a wonderful idea.

Angry and ashamed, I have been hiding in my room and dare not come out. In the meantime, my husband grabbed a handful of peanuts and asked me to eat more. He knew I was pregnant, but he didn't even cook for me, just took money. I have only been married once in my life, and I really don't want to remember it all my life. If it weren't for the children, I'm afraid I would have taken off my wedding dress and gone away.

In the evening, my husband divided the money in half, and he and his mother-in-law divided it in half, leaving me alone. I threw him a high-heeled shoe in a rage and told him not to make his wedding night so smoky.

He is not angry, but he is satisfied with the money. He said to me mercilessly: "What wedding night? Today is just a formality. I want to say that you will be happy if I give you my share. " That's not what I meant at all. I just want to ask him, if he doesn't invite others to dinner but takes money from others, will he dare to visit relatives in the future? But none of them mind. I feel like I jumped into a fire pit.

After marriage, my mother-in-law was generous to herself, but asked me to be frugal. Her own clothes are hundreds of dollars, but she asked me to buy cheap ones. She also said that I was young and didn't have to dress too well to avoid being robbed. She doesn't have a good word in her mouth, but when she opens her mouth, she choked. My husband said she was careless and I was stingy. I put up with all that.

But after half a month, it was my mother-in-law's birthday, and she actually asked me to pay for her birthday, saying that it was impolite to give her a birthday for the first time, and she had to invite her relatives to dinner to be happy. She knew that her husband had put the wedding money with me and wanted to play. She completely forgot that she had agreed to leave the money to us for business.

I refused and said to her, "When I got married, you wouldn't let me have a wedding reception, and now you let me pay for my 50th birthday? Is it possible? "

She was angry and said with a long face, "Birthdays only come once a year. Are you so unfilial? " ? I wouldn't have let you in if I had known ... "

I said, "Your birthday happens every year. I only get married once in my life. Why didn't you think about it for me? I was humiliated on my wedding day? "

We quarreled, and my husband was bored. He raised his hand and hit me in the mouth, scolded me for disrespecting his mother, and then gave all the money to his mother-in-law. He clearly knew that the money might be needed to give birth to a child, but he went his own way and didn't think about me and the child at all.

In this case, divorce! Everyone says, was I blind when I chose such a person?