How can a girl be elegant, quiet and lovely? People say I am quiet and lovely, but in fact I am too shy. People say I am shy.

Read more books, cultivate your temperament, and then you won't feel too bad;

Smile in front of the mirror every day, say I'm fine to encourage myself, and just give psychological hints.

No one is perfect, what kind of person you want to be is your own pursuit, and you don't need to care too much about other people's eyes, because when you have some experience, you will find that others don't look at you at all, everyone has their own things to do, and so do you. So just be yourself and try to surpass yourself in the past. Progress comes step by step. I wish you become that ideal self as soon as possible. Come on!