Why do mothers return to the workplace after their children go to school?

A stable income with temperature can fulfill the love for children.

Three or four years later, "buy! Buy! Buy! " On my birthday, I began to love money from the bottom of my heart. One can of milk powder every few days and two boxes of diapers, it is really hard for mom to pretend that she doesn't care about money.

If you think imported milk powder and diapers are expensive, you will find that milk powder and diapers are really cheap when your children go to school!

After children study, tuition fees, tuition fees, interest, this also costs money, and that also costs money, which is really unbearable!

Children are small money shredders before school and big money shredders after school. A little visual observation shows that this situation will continue until they graduate from college.

I gradually understand that all love needs support. Work may be tiring, but at least children will not be short of money when they need it. I am not a giant, I just want my children to stand on my shoulders and go further and further.

Wilde said, I thought money was very important when I was young, but now I am old and find that sentence is true. At the age when you can still make money, only by maintaining the desire to make money can you have better guidance and better life.

02

I have the confidence to say to my husband, honey, don't be afraid, I still have everything.

A few days ago, when I was brushing the news, I saw a middle-level management cadre of a subsidiary of ZTE Group jump off a building in Shenzhen, ending his life at the age of 42.

Men, especially the old people in this world and the young people in this world, prefer to keep the pressure in their hearts silently, because in their eyes, they all depend on themselves. Every attempt can only be put all your eggs in one basket, only success and no failure.

Think about being a full-time mother in recent years, and the economic expenses at home are all on my husband. He works overtime every day, and even after years of vacation, he doesn't want to rest. In fact, this does not mean that he is not tired, but that he dare not shout tired. Even if you are lonely, you will bear it silently.

I gradually understand that I can't let my husband become such a helpless man. So, no matter what, I will try to find a decent job. In this way, when he is tired, he can catch his breath and have a support. Although I can't be his "backer", I can at least be his "retreat".

03

Parents get old much faster than we thought. Being rich is a sign of filial piety.

My friend's father, at work, accidentally fell off a shelf more than one meter high, and his stomach ached for several days, accompanied by a low fever.

Hearing the news, my friend came with his father and his four-year-old child, who looked crazy. She believes that with excellent medical resources and first-class doctors, everything will be fine.

She was dumbfounded when the test results came out. Liver cancer is in the middle and advanced stage. The doctor said that if you don't treat it, it will take four months at most.

My friend, secretly crying his tears dry, smiled hard in front of his father and comforted him that he had a serious fall and had some bleeding on his liver and needed to be hospitalized for some time.

But her father saw thousands of dollars a day, thinking that only the son-in-law could earn money to support his family and raise children, and asked to leave the hospital every day.

When my friend told me, I was in tears.

Look at our weak friends and think about their parents. Even if nothing happens, they are getting old. They are aging much faster than we thought. Hypertension, insufficient blood supply to the brain, and any disease are not small expenses. If I have a job, I can let my parents rest in the hospital.

I gradually understand that money is sometimes a kind of filial piety. If we had enough money, we wouldn't be powerless to our parents.

04

I hope I won't struggle with anxiety and depression in the future.

When children are young, it is our responsibility to take care of their food and drink, accompany them to grow up and give them enough sense of security. This is the nutrition that children need to grow up, and we give it in time.

Once children go to school and start to build their own circles, the care we put into them will constrain their growth. Children really need you when they need you, but they also want to see a hard-working mother when they don't need you.

Maslow once said that everyone has a need to belong. Finding a job will give us a sense of belonging and increase our sense of value.

I gradually understand that children will have their own friends when they go to primary school, middle school and university. If we are still child-centered, we will inevitably feel anxious and depressed, and we may also feel sad because our children ignore us. Choosing a job at this time can alleviate our anxiety about the future.

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Half-hearted marriage is the best time for you to re-enter the workplace.

After years of intense and busy parenting, our marriage has gradually become calm. No longer arguing about right and wrong, under the big goal of "for the healthy growth of the baby", our concepts gradually converge.

Knowing that you can't achieve it, you will no longer be delusional and will not give in to what you think you can achieve. We will become less delusional and humble, and our marriage will be harmonious and not distorted.

I gradually understand that in marriage, we don't need to try our best to please each other, and we don't need to worry about each other's circle of friends. Our marriage, which is half family and half love, has become more stable and particularly secure. This time is the best time for us to leave home and re-enter the workplace.

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