18 the performance of men who don't love

18 the performance of men who don't love

Someone always asks: "How to judge whether a boy loves me or not?" In fact, love and no love can be felt from getting along. Love a person can't hide, don't love a person can't hide. If a man has the following 18 performance, it means that he doesn't love you at all.

1. My attitude towards you is hot and cold, and I am at arm's length.

When I am with you, I am very sweet. As soon as I turned around, there was no trace, and I rarely contacted you actively. When you call him, he always says that he is busy.

He won't introduce you to relatives and friends.

He will never introduce you to his friends, take you to his party, let alone to his family.

3. Be stingy with your time and money

If a person is always "not available" to you, but has time to get together with friends and play games. And the economic conditions are acceptable, but they always haggle over every ounce.

I won't talk about marriage with you, just muddle along.

If he really loves you, he will definitely plan the future of two people and set a goal to fight for it.

5. Be indifferent to your joys and sorrows.

When you are sad, he just gives a cold answer. Say "drink more hot water" when you are sick. You cry, and the other person doesn't care.

6. His circle of friends is always single.

You have never appeared in the other person's circle of friends, probably to tell other members of the opposite sex and create the illusion that you are "single".

7. Cold violence

No longer have any response to you, like a mute, cold and violent to you, this kind of person, he did not hurt you with a knife, but let you be black and blue invisibly.

Step 8 pass on love

When a boy doesn't love you, he often doesn't tell you directly, but constantly makes it clear that he wants to be separated from you by transferring love. I hope you understand, I hope you are decent, I hope you understand the times.

9. I hate you for no reason

He always laughs at you, accuses you and picks out all kinds of shortcomings with your appearance and behavior intentionally or unintentionally. Then this person is even worse than a stranger, who at least knows how to respect.

10. Make a promise easily, but you can't finish it.

Promises are usually just words, but they are never really put into action.

1 1. Don't help you when you are in trouble.

When you are sick, you can't accompany you. When you take care of your child, he will share joys and sorrows with you no matter what.

12. Being too close to the opposite sex has no sense of boundaries.

After having a partner, if you don't know how to converge when you get along with the opposite sex, it seems that there is no such person, and such a person is somewhat unreliable. The person who really loves you won't make you feel that he has any possibility of crossing the line.

13. Don't defend you in front of others

When you have an argument with someone, he stays out of it, looks on coldly, and even agrees with others to accuse you. People say bad things about you to him, but he doesn't defend you at all, for fear that you will affect their relationship.

14. If I ignore you, I can't read the information back.

A person who really loves you will pay attention to every news of you, because he is afraid that you won't find anyone when you need him. I will tell you in advance no matter how busy I am, for fear that you will worry. On the other hand, a person who doesn't love you, even if he plays games in bed all day, will always say that he has no time and hasn't read the information back.

15. I won't share my heart with you.

The more a boy really loves you, the more he will tell you. If he is too silent in front of you and refuses to tell you his innermost thoughts and thoughts frankly, then you are not so important in his heart.

16. In the future planning, there is no you.

People who really love you will silently plan the future for each other, and every plan will put you in an important position. When to introduce you to his relatives and friends, when to buy a house and a car, when to get married and have children, he has a clear blueprint.

17. I don't understand or tolerate you.

To love someone is to tolerate your shortcomings and accept your emotions. You may often make some small mistakes, but he will never blame you for being useless. It's not that he can't see your shortcomings, but that he embraces everything about you.

18. His kindness to you depends on your loyalty to him.

His attitude towards you depends on his mood and your efforts. When you pay enough, he will weigh the pros and cons and repay you a little.

If you get along with this kind of boy for a long time, you will feel unimportant and unworthy of being loved, thus losing confidence.