How long does it take a man to forget his ex-wife?

Marriage is like a train. In the journey of life, it may come to the end rain or shine. However, maybe it will stop at a small stop in the journey and enter a new track.

There are many happy marriages in the world, and there are not a few broken marriages.

Love that once penetrated into the bone marrow, like a tree root, penetrated into every corner of blood vessels. So, when we are apart, will we really be uprooted and never miss each other again?

Love and marriage are just a part of life. In divorce, some couples are happy when they leave each other. But some couples, in the precipitation of years, miss like a flood, coming again and again.

Let's talk about it today How long does it take a man to forget his ex-wife? These people tell the truth:

@ A Fei, 29 years old, divorced for 2 years.

I stayed with my ex-wife for four years, married for four years and divorced for two years. Even now, I still think of her.

She is a very good wife. She remembers everything about our family clearly and never needs me to worry about it.

Every time I come home from work, the food is already ready. Sometimes I think she is very powerful, like a superwoman. She works during the day and comes home at night to keep her house in order.

However, at that time, I didn't know how to live. I relied too much on her and her parents. I played games every day and sometimes quarreled with her.

Finally, she left me. After the divorce, I was at a loss about everything in my life. No one takes care of my children, no one cooks, no one washes clothes, and even I lack living expenses.

Although I have grown a lot in the past two years, she never wants to look back. Dear, after two years, I still can't forget you. Come back, I will be good to you.

Xia Mo replied: Because of the love of marriage, from girlfriend to wife, women account for almost half of men's youth. This kind of love, like blood, is integrated into a man's life. Deep into the bone marrow, unforgettable. It's better to keep it in your heart.

@ Erjun, 36 years old, divorced 1 year.

I'm 30 years old and she's 27 years old. We got the certificate. Of course, we got married because we love each other, but five years have spent our love.

My married life with my ex-wife can only be described in one word-a chicken flying a dog jumping.

After giving birth to the child, there are more and more contradictions between us, and we always quarrel over little things. Later, when both sides were tired, the relationship ended.

The moment I got the divorce certificate, I felt more relaxed than ever. It was a fine day, and I said goodbye to her calmly at the Civil Affairs Bureau.

To tell the truth, I didn't deliberately think about her after the divorce. To me, she is a nobody. Why should I miss her?

Xia Mo replied: Without the support of love, the relationship between husband and wife will collapse instantly. Marriage is like this. When two people get along for a long time, friction and contradictions increase.

Before marriage, the advantages of the other party were covered up by repeated quarrels. If both parties are tired and exist in name only, it is better to let go of each other, and divorce may be the best choice.

@ Keiko, 32 years old, married 1 year.

It is strange that people always know how to cherish after losing it.

When I divorced my ex-wife, I was either indifferent all day or had a fierce argument. I can't wait to leave her at once. She is as disgusting as a pool of mosquito blood.

Later, I married my present wife. She is a career-oriented woman. She is always busy with her work, seldom caring about her family, and never caring about my feelings, especially disrespecting me.

I began to miss my last marriage. Although my wife is a bit stubborn, she is always there waiting for me when I come home.

She also has a career, but she won't forget this family because of her career. Although she won't make money without my present wife, she used to be very gentle and kind to me.

Now that I think about it, I really shouldn't have quarreled with her at that time, otherwise I wouldn't have separated. She will be in my heart forever.

Xia Mo replied: Many people always wake up after their second unhappy marriage and find the ex-wife's goodness in comparison. Marriage is run by two people, not just two people living together. But there is no regret medicine to sell in the world, so it is better to manage the present day well.

@ Chang 'an, 40 years old, divorced for 6 years.

We divorced when our child was 5 years old, because our personalities were incompatible.

We are all a little angry, don't like communication, and often have a cold war, and the atmosphere will drop to freezing point, and no one will talk to anyone. This kind of life is really sad, so I asked for a divorce, and she readily agreed that the child should be mine.

For the growth of children, there is no shortage of fatherly love and maternal love. We basically take our children to dinner every week, and occasionally she takes them to her place.

Because of the existence of children, although we are not related by blood, we have become "relatives" in a sense. How can we forget her?

In six years, we had the idea of remarriage. It's been six years, and I still can't forget her.

Xia Mo replied: Children are the bond between husband and wife, which closely connects father and mother. It is essential for children to meet. Even after divorce, the relationship between two people is hard to get too far, and it is even harder to forget someone.

@ Feng, 37 years old, married for 3 years.

I broke off all contact with my ex-wife after the divorce. I don't like procrastination. Now that you are divorced, you should sort out your relationship and start a new life, not to mention thinking about her deliberately.

My marriage is very happy now, my wife is very good, and she takes care of and relies on me in all aspects. She is a lovely woman.

Of course, in relationships, I'm afraid no woman can accept that her husband is still thinking about his ex-wife, and she is no exception. She is always particularly sensitive in this respect.

In order to make this marriage last, I don't think I will have any unnecessary intersection with my ex-wife. I am content now, and I hope my ex-wife can live well.

Xia Mo replied: Cherishing the present is a wise man's choice. Loyalty is the secret weapon of a marriage, and women are sensitive, especially the second-married women.

There is nothing wrong with the wife's strict discipline. A man's greatest sense of security for a woman is that she is the only one in his heart. A man after his second marriage should not and should not miss his ex-wife. Only by living in the present can a marriage last.

@ Rollo, 32 years old, divorced 1 year.

Marriage is beautiful, but the marriage that has ended should stay in the past, shouldn't it?

I haven't had any contact with her since the divorce. Now that we are in two cities, it is even more impossible to meet. I think this state is the best after divorce.

Each has his own new life, and occasionally I just laugh at her news. Whether I live well or not has nothing to do with me.

Divorce has taught me that the most important thing is to learn to be perfect and let go of each other in order to have greater happiness.

Xia Mo replied: Let bygones be bygones, and the future life is what needs thinking. Ex-wife is a symbol of the past, just like an old photo album locked in a drawer. It will always be there, never forgotten, and there is no need to keep in touch all the time to add new memories to this album.

Marriage has both happiness and misfortune in this world. For the misfortune in the world, divorce is a choice, just like a sword, cutting off the connection with the past.

After divorce, men and women don't need to be involved in the past, look up, look at the distance, look at the future, and stride forward to make this marriage an exclusive memory.

Couples after divorce don't have to deliberately avoid this marriage relationship. It's best to let nature take its course.

Every marriage is a star in the long river of life. No matter how long it lasts, it will stay in life, shining bright or dark, leaving an indelible mark in the long life.