Why don't you chat with me?

"It seems that the first tacit understanding after we met was that I didn't take the initiative and you didn't take the initiative", "fairies have wings, so you flew to see me", "You finally remembered the debt you owed me in your last life, are you ready to pay it back?" and so on.

1. "It seems that the first tacit understanding after we met is that I don't take the initiative and you don't take the initiative (laugh and cry)": If you have just met a girl, the other person is indifferent, but you say you won't go to her. In this case, don't explain, and don't complain about her cold response before. Control your needs and mood swings, and don't let a woman feel that you are influenced by her.

2. "Little fairies have wings, you fly to see me": In the ambiguous stage, girls say "Why don't you come to see me", or they may just say it. Never take it seriously and think that women are ready to see you. In this case, it can further amplify the ambiguous feelings of girls and increase the goodwill of both sides.

3. "You finally remember the debt you owed me in your last life. Are you ready to pay it back?": When a girl says this, we can reply to her by role-playing. Role-playing can effectively reduce your sense of need and make warming up easier and more natural.

"High EQ response" refers to being able to respond to the other person's words or requests in an appropriate, decent and empathetic way in communication, so as to establish and maintain good interpersonal relationships. Such a reply usually has the following characteristics: respect and understanding, positive and clear.