Doing these things well can cultivate children's self-confidence all their lives. Can you talk about it?

"Whoever has confidence will be half successful." Self-confidence is the spiritual core in the process of children's growth, and it is the driving force for children to face difficulties with confidence and strive to fulfill their wishes. Self-confidence is one of the most important psychological qualities of successful people. Parents should do these things well and cultivate their children's self-confidence all their lives. The following things, if parents do well, then children will be confident all their lives.

First, how sure. When the child compares with other children, give him affirmation in time, and never belittle yourself because of face. Children obey others and say no to any negative children. When an acquaintance asks your child for his favorite toy, adults should not force the child to share it. It is more important to respect children's ideas and teach them a sense of boundaries than to force them to share easily.

Second, correct interpretation. When children are teased by others, help them interpret them correctly, and let them feel that they are worthy of being loved, important, strong and capable without being influenced by malicious comments from others. When other parents find your home because of the contradiction between their children, don't criticize their children because of what others said, but trust their children. If it's the child's fault, apologize to the child. If it is the fault of the other child, comfort your child.

Third, don't criticize every mistake. When a child makes a mistake, study the problem of overcoming with him and tell the child that although you made a mistake, mom and dad still love you and will always stand with you, analyze the reasons and overcome the problem together. When children's things are maliciously robbed by other children, they must get their toys back, and tell them that voluntary sharing is a virtue, but they must not let others maliciously infringe their rights. When a teacher criticizes a child, don't exaggerate the child's shortcomings, obliterate the advantages, blindly echo the teacher, give the child a chance to express himself when he gets home, educate him in a low voice when there are mistakes, and never continue to criticize the child like a teacher. Do you know that?/You know what?