Father-in-law likes smoking very much and often smokes in front of children. How to remind him is better?

Nowadays, as we pay more and more attention to our health, many people hate people who smoke in public places. Especially with children, second-hand smoke will do harm to children's health. But many times this kind of injury comes from family members; If we have a father-in-law who likes smoking very much and often smokes in front of the children, I think it is best to remind him in the following ways.

Let my husband remind me first that although the daughter-in-law and her parents-in-law are the closest relatives, they have never lived together since childhood and are not very familiar with each other. Under such circumstances, as a daughter-in-law, it is really inappropriate for us to remind my father-in-law directly if he smokes.

On the one hand, it may make my father-in-law uncomfortable. He will think that my son ignores me and I smoke in my own house. Not yet? On the other hand, such kind persuasion will also affect our harmonious relationship with our father-in-law.

If the same advice comes from your husband's mouth, maybe your father-in-law will not be so unhappy and will gladly accept her husband's advice to avoid being unhappy with him.

Second, tell her mother-in-law euphemistically that for the daughter-in-law at home, the relationship with her mother-in-law will be better in many cases. If my father-in-law often smokes in front of the children, we can communicate with my mother-in-law in private. Let the mother-in-law persuade the father-in-law to correct this behavior that will harm the child's health.

In the process of communicating with mother-in-law, the tone must be gentle and gentle; Moreover, I need to explain to my mother-in-law the harm my father-in-law has done to my family and children. I think my mother-in-law will understand our thoughts when she hears that it may harm the health of her grandchildren and advise her father-in-law not to smoke in front of her children in the future.

In the process of getting along with a family, there will inevitably be conceptual conflicts, but after the conflict. We should find ways to solve contradictions and conflicts, instead of keeping them in our hearts and letting them affect family relations.