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Dream is not just talk, is it for others or for yourself?
At first glance, Bai Jingting, the leading actor, gave me a feeling a bit like Kai Ko in those years, while the pure modeling of the leading actress was a bit like Fang Fen in Hurriedly. Although it doesn't give people a stunning feeling, it looks very eye-catching, and I think this is enough.
Different from several popular mainland youth films in recent years, the main line of Qingmang is not love, but friendship, affection and dreams. Looking at the whole film, it completely subverts the routine of similar films. The hero and heroine in the film don't hug or kiss, and the whole story takes a small and fresh route, so I prefer to label Lin Tianjiao and Gao Xiang as friendship rather than love.
There are two scenes in the film that moved me to tears. One is that Gao Xiang recalled that his life changed after his father was taken away by the police for helping people make false accounts when he was a child. He was bullied by his peers and hated his father, but he finally forgave him. The other is that Lin Tianjiao found his parents' divorce certificate in his mother's bedroom, which is why Lin Tianjiao later said, "I don't want to live a hypocritical life like you" when her mother interfered with her dream.
In real life, children from other families like Lin Tianjiao may be rare, but there are certainly many people like her who dream of being kidnapped by their parents and teachers. Probably at a very young age, dating back to kindergarten and primary school, many teachers will ask you, what is your dream? The child's mind is wild. Some people want to be policemen, some people want to be doctors, some people want to be scientists, some people want to be stars ... At that time, they were still young, everyone didn't think too much, and teachers didn't kill children's dreams. Everyone just thinks that dreams are beautiful and enjoyable.
In middle school, when others ask about their dreams again, most people choose silence. At this time, dreams have become a heavy topic. Just like when Lu was asked by the teacher what her dream was in Qing Mang, the girl chose to keep it a secret. Why didn't she want to talk? Because her dream is to be a housewife, the girl thinks this dream is the same as going to college. The reason why I didn't say it was probably because such a dream was a joke to others.
17, 8 years old, our dreams are not necessarily real dreams. Some people's dreams, like Lin Tianjiao's dreams, are not decided by themselves, nor can they be done if they want to. Our dreams may be subject to the expectations of parents and teachers. Most people choose to roll with the punches, and it takes courage and cost to disobey. But the choice of dreams largely determines what our future is like.
Many people's dreams are dominated by their parents. You chose the major your parents wanted you to study, you got the job your parents expected, and your life is smooth and beautiful in others' eyes, but are you happy? Is this really the life you want? I'm sure you will say no.
If you succeed, you are still not really happy, it is only because your current income deviates from your original intention. At the end of the film, Lin Tianjiao became an ideal astronomer, not the finance that her mother wanted her to study. I know, many people will say that this is just a movie, and the movie is an idealized life.
It is true that in reality, most people don't become the kind of person they want to be in the end, just as we don't catch up with the people we like very much and get into the school we want to take the exam most. Our life, there is no hardship, no poetry and distance. Our life can be summed up in four words: plain as water.
But people are called people because people are independent individuals and their thoughts exist independently. Everyone has their own ideas. What kind of person do you want to be, what kind of life do you want to live and what kind of life do you want to live? These three problems are not difficult to figure out, but it will take a long time to implement them according to your own ideas.
In our life, we will meet many people who give advice to life, whether it is true or false. Just listen to what others have to say. You are the one who really makes the decision, and what others say can only be used as a reference.
Others can't eat, sleep and walk instead of you, only you are on your own.
You are carrying other people's dreams, and you are carrying your own dreams, but they are different. The former is passive and the latter is active. One is that I want to realize my dream, and the other is that I want to realize my dream. The meaning of the two is different, and the life gained is also different.
In Whose Youth Is Not Confused, Gao Xiang told Lin Tianjiao that the heavier he was, the more he wanted to fly. If you are still young and have the motivation to struggle for your dreams, please don't give up your dreams easily, dream, chase and fly. Even if one day you are hit by reality, you can say to yourself, at least I have tried, and even if I fail, I am not so sorry.
Our youth should not be wasted, and our dreams should not be given up easily. I hope everyone can meet the most beautiful self at the most beautiful time. Lonely people crowded together. Wechat official account Josie Qiao ID: Josie Story
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