What have you learned about children's education?

Some people say that "there are no children who can't be taught, only parents who can't be taught". I quite agree with this view. So how can we better educate children? First, pay attention to the cultivation of children's patriotism, love for others, love for themselves and sense of responsibility. From the first grade, I told my children that a good personality is a person's best business card. First of all, we should love our motherland. No matter when and where, the motherland will always be our strong backing. We should be proud of being born in such a great motherland, be determined to be a useful person to the motherland and the people since childhood, and contribute our own strength to the great rejuvenation of the Chinese nation when we grow up. Secondly, love others, let children learn to respect their elders at home, respect the teachers at school, unite their classmates and give help to those in need. Third, love yourself. As parents, we should let our children know that life is precious only once for everyone. No matter what we do, we should put safety first, and we should cherish our lives at any time. Finally, we must have a sense of responsibility and responsibility. When children encounter problems, don't rush to help them solve them, communicate with them more, give them more time, confidence and patience, and let them know from an early age that some problems in life must be solved by themselves, be brave in facing them, have a sense of responsibility, and believe that they have the ability to solve things well. Second, pay attention to the cultivation of children's good study habits. When my children are in the first grade, I pay more attention to the cultivation of their good study habits. First of all, we must find a learning method suitable for children. After the children come home from school, I will ask them to add some rice and relax before doing their homework. With you in the first semester, some minor problems in the process of doing homework will be corrected in time. In the second semester, I discussed with my children to let them finish their homework independently, set a good time and finished my homework. At first, it was ok. Slowly, I found that my child was careless when doing his homework. For example, they are in a hurry to do Chinese problems before they understand them, and some have forgotten them. I forgot to write a horizontal answer when I was doing a math problem, and I asked for it if I didn't feel at ease. This situation lasted for some time. Although I emphasize every homework assignment, I find that the effect is not great, so I list common mistakes on paper with my children, so that they can pay more attention to them when doing problems. Check it carefully after you finish the problem, and show it to me if there is no problem. My child and I summed up a method. No matter which course, the first step is to read the topic carefully, the second step is to read the topic before doing it, the third step is to carefully examine the topic, and the fourth step is to hand it in if there is no problem. Through the joint efforts of my children and me, the improvement of carefulness is still obvious. Secondly, encourage children to keep reading. Suhomlinski, an educator in the former Soviet Union, said: "The way to make children smart is not to make up lessons or increase homework, but to read and read again." If there are no special circumstances in the evening, I will insist on reading books, mainly books, novels, Tang and Song poems, Chairman Mao's poems and so on. Which child is interested. Whether my parents accompany me to study or my children study by themselves, I have to tell my children that reading can't be swallowed. In the process of reading, I should not only learn relevant knowledge, but also learn to think through reading and ask why. After reading it, I will ask what I have learned from reading. Third, pay attention to the exchange and communication of knowledge. Children like to exchange some questions with us. When they encounter some questions that they can't answer, I won't tell them the answer directly. Either let the children think for themselves and check the information by themselves, or the children and parents can check the information together and finally solve the problem. So as to cultivate children's ability to think and solve problems independently. For example, after we took our children to watch the movie Watergate Bridge, he asked a lot of questions about the War to Resist US Aggression and Aid Korea, so we went to the history books and looked up the causes, process and far-reaching influence of the War to Resist US Aggression and Aid Korea on the Internet. Third, pay attention to the cultivation of children's good living habits. Good living habits are the key to the healthy growth of children. I remember that when I was in the first grade, my living habits had not changed since kindergarten. As a parent, I didn't adapt, and neither did my children. Sleep late at night and can't get up in the morning. I either forgot to bring this or that. We will set a time to get up every day, check our schoolbags and tidy up our belongings before going to school, and finish our homework in time after school. After a period of persistence, the children gradually adapted to primary school life and everything was on the right track. Fourth, pay attention to the cultivation of hobbies. In the past three years, influenced by the COVID-19 epidemic, as parents, our thinking has also changed. Without good health, whatever we do is empty talk. My child is a child with wide interests. I enrolled my children in extra-long classes according to their interests, which not only exercised their bodies but also increased their talents, and the children became more and more confident. For example, in Taekwondo and Badminton classes, the physical fitness is obviously enhanced, in eloquence classes, the expression ability is obviously improved, and in programming classes, the logical thinking ability is well exercised. If possible, try to take the children out for a walk and have a look, which is more conducive to the expansion of children's horizons and the cultivation of hobbies. I hope all children can turn self-confidence into powerful wings, study happily and grow up healthily.