What is the experience of her mother-in-law being too stingy?

It is a patient thing to have a stingy mother-in-law. It's hard to say, not to scold, and sometimes to laugh and cry.

Thrift has always been a traditional virtue in China, but sometimes being too stingy is really not a good thing! The older generation doesn't like the extravagance and waste of young people, but they always like preaching, but you should also save a little, don't save money blindly, or you will lose more than you gain in the end!

For such a stingy mother-in-law, it may become a habit. Therefore, you can't take her seriously and ignore her words. She says what she says, you do what you say, or you tell her to do what she says. Just don't confront each other. Sometimes, she may be that kind of habit, like nagging, too frugal. Of course, the formation of this character may be related to her growing environment. Generally speaking, it is difficult to change. So don't try to change her.

In the face of such a stingy mother-in-law, you have to adjust yourself and don't be influenced too much by her words, otherwise it will be really annoying. Because these trivial quarrels are not worth it, let alone affect the relationship between husband and wife. After all, we don't have much time together, so don't dispute with her.

In fact, the old people are not absent-minded, but unwilling to give up. They live a hard life and know that life is not easy. They always feel that they should save some money and are always afraid to spend it. When meeting such elders, what young people have to do is to communicate with the elderly more. Thrift is ok, but you can't go too far and make fun of your health!

I can let my husband brainwash my mother-in-law, make her realize that life is different now, don't need to be too frugal, spend whatever you need, or you will lose money if you are not comfortable enough, so that she can rest assured and enjoy her old age. I think it should be better. Give it a try.