Pregnant, my boyfriend and I fight, what should I do?

As an experienced person, I want to tell you whether you and your man can survive, not just whether he pushed you down at once. But you have a bad temper, just like me. My husband and I have also experienced a long-distance love run for more than n years, and finally we have made a positive result. We have a good relationship, but we also quarrel-are we lovers in fairy tales who are never out of touch and have never blushed? I haven't seen them anyway. Sometimes it can be noisy. I have a bad temper and often hit people first. He usually holds me down to keep me from getting angry, or he can hide. I can't hit it. But the more I miss, the angrier I get. The more I miss, the angrier I get. Once, maybe he slapped me because he couldn't stand it. I was honest as soon as he hit me. My head is numb and I don't know what to do. I didn't want to fight back, just burying my face in tears and repeating in my heart, "You hit me, but you hit me. . "On the other hand, if he hadn't hit me at that time, I might have chopped him up impulsively with a knife. Just because it's a few words of discord. Then there is no following. . . At that time, like you, I felt that the sky was falling and I cried my eyes out, but after crying, the days went on. We slapped and didn't say goodbye immediately. Later, he kept coaxing me, self-examining, and told me not to fight with me again. Next time I get angry, he will run out the door. Stay away from me and come back when I get cold. Then I calmed down and thought about myself. I also feel that I am too grumpy to hit people just because I am angry. I was desperate and jumped over the wall. When a woman keeps thinking "You hit me, but you hit me", she no longer puts herself on an equal footing with men. Have you ever wondered if when you hit a person, he will repeat in his mind, "You hit me, but you hit me." Sometimes it's just instinctive self-defense If he just gave you a push and helped you, but stopped immediately, it might be impulsive. But if he not only pushes you below, but also rides on you and punches and kicks you black and blue, I will scold him for you!

Thinking of all the things we had together before, I decided to give him another chance, give myself another chance, and change my bad temper a little. If I don't hit him and he hits me, then I'll leave him at once, now! Fortunately, after several years, I didn't do it, and neither did he. Later, later, we got married. Of course, there will be less friction now, but we will all remember the lessons of that year. Years have precipitated me a lot, and I'm not stupid enough to fight men again. Because you really did it. You're no match for him. Women are good at flexibility. Ashamed, I haven't done it completely yet, just on paper. Generally speaking, love needs to be managed.

I'm not here to persuade you to divide and make peace, because I can't. This is all your heart. Because, depending on the person, the shoes are not suitable, only oneself know. It is not so easy to identify a person, such as whether his job is enough to support your future home, whether you are willing to live that life with him, and whether his family accepts you.

Finally, whatever decision you make, don't be impulsive. Think about the possible consequences of various decisions in advance. No matter what the result is, you can make your own decision without regret. Look back at the road you have traveled and don't regret it. I hope I can help you. I wish you happiness.