What does a person who can control minds look like?

In today's society, bad people are not scary. What is most scary is that bad people are educated. More and more insidious villains are not only bad, but they are often secretly there. What's even more frightening is that some people understand people's hearts.

For example, the recently popular PUA and mind control, they will continue to destroy your will in order to achieve their goals. Even after you are finally deceived, not only do you not think there is a problem with the other party, but you doubt yourself.

These people look like good people from the outside, with no flaws visible, but they are really hard to guard against when they do evil.

So is there any way to see through this? I will summarize 3 characteristics for you today. It is better to be careful after discovering them and remember to keep a distance from these people.

Like moral kidnapping

When some people want you to do something they don’t want to do, they always add “I’m doing this for your own good” to whitewash themselves. Want to control your purpose.

They will impose many "obligations that you should complete" on the other party, forcing the "controlled person" to obey out of a sense of responsibility.

For example, when your parents force you to do something you don’t like, they always like to add "You are still young, I am doing this for your own good." If you resist, they will scold you for being unfilial and unfilial. Be obedient and use morality to suppress you.

In fact, sometimes parents just satisfy their desire for control.

But you must know that sometimes these people do not really do this for your own good. You must know that the world is not that "should" and what you should really do is to be better to yourself.

They are good at using "mind controllers" to induce "guilt", usually putting themselves in a weak position or a moral commanding position,

and posing a A pitiful look,

The subtext is:

I am the one who is full of morality and humanity, and I am weak,

If you still don’t obey me , it’s really so inhumane.

So stay away from these people who hold moral banners and suppress you with various "shoulds" as soon as possible.

Continuously belittle you and make you feel inferior

People who are used to mental control are also used to using force, threats, and commands to create fear in our hearts. Feel, and then obey.

Continuously belittling you and making you feel inferior is one of their common methods.

Because they understand that only a destroyed personality is more likely to accept "reconstruction", which is brainwashing.

In fact, it is most common in relationships. In order to make the other half obedient, some people will improve themselves by constantly belittling the other half, consciously or unconsciously. For example, these people will say: "You are not good-looking, you are not beautiful, You are not virtuous, you are too fat, you have a bad personality, everyone does not like you, etc.” In fact, the real purpose of these people is to make you feel that only being with them is the most correct thing, and leaving them will be useless.

During this process, the "mind controller" will occasionally adopt a soft policy to make the other person feel that only "I" can accept such a bad and despicable "you".

This makes the "controlled person" more dependent on himself.

But you must know that this is all an illusion and not what it really is.

So if you encounter this situation, it is very likely that you are also being controlled by the mind, so it is best to stay away as soon as possible.

Keep repeating

You will find that some people will repeat certain ideas endlessly in order to brainwash you.

Psychological research has found that repeating a point of view over and over again can put the brain into a state of numbness; and the human brain cannot complete two things: "analysis" and "repetition" at the same time. This means: when When our brains receive certain information over and over again, they will gradually lose the ability to analyze this information. Repeatedly emphasizing a belief can prevent the victim from doubting that belief.

There have been two mind-controlled suicide cases in the United States. The victims both used the strategy of "intensive message bombing". Tens of thousands of messages were sent out at once, which shows that repeated repetition can induce "hypnosis" in people. "The effect is more conducive to the perpetrator's purpose.

Finally, I want to say that the reason why mind control is scary is that it is still in the "gray area" of the law. Even if the police arrest someone, the court does not know what to use as the basis for punishment.