Should people with different views still be together?

People with different views can't really be together.

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Life is long, and whether your partner can accompany you is not the most important factor. The key to growing old together is the combination of the three views. People with different views can't really be together.

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Linlin fell in love like lightning. Not long ago, she claimed to be a single aristocrat. Recently, her mantra has become "How is my family?" Her circle of friends is full of dog food and spicy eyes.

Yesterday, we ate together. Linlin mysteriously told us that her boyfriend fell in love with her at first sight and would never marry her in his life. She exhausted all kinds of romance and confessed to the company downstairs. Everybody knows, everybody knows. Linlin felt that his little heart was about to jump out, so he promised at once. They entered a period of sweet love and planned to spend their holidays and travel together.

Linlin said: "It is said that travel is the killer weapon to test feelings. If I come back with him, I will bring it to you. "

Looking at Linlin's smiling face, we are both happy and worried about her. Falling in love is not playing house. There are too many things to pay behind love at first sight.

Sure enough, on the second day of their trip, Linlin began to pour me bitter water.

Linlin thinks it's better for two people to join a group when they go out to play for the first time, but the other party feels that they have better arrangements and are limited by joining a group, so their attitude is tough. They must be free. Linlin compromised and thought that you should go with him and try to leave without caring about anything.

But when Linlin saw the SMS notification of the train ticket, he was helpless. One day and one night's hard seat on the train embarrassed and annoyed Linlin, who had originally planned to relax comfortably. He asked the other party why he didn't buy a ticket, even if it was a soft berth. The other party replied that they were all at the same destination anyway, and they had to endure it on the road.

Two days later, there were numerous differences:

The weather is too hot. Linlin, who doesn't want to go out to play at noon, wants to find a coffee shop to sit down or go shopping, but the other party thinks that since he is out to play, he will of course go to the scenic spots and some distinctive places, saying that Linlin is dressed in literature and art;

Linlin thought that two people had just been together, drinking was not very good, and they wanted to eat western food. The other party said that they would eat barbecue in summer, which revealed the meaning of Linlin's action.

Even going to Linlin for half an hour to put on light makeup was rejected. The other party said, "You are with me. Who do you want to show makeup to?"? It's not necessary. Let's go. You have been dawdling for so long. "

Linlin's temper and patience have been honed. She gave me a tearless expression and the following sentence: "I finally know the meaning of the word Narita!" " I feel that she is out of control through the screen, which is funny and distressed.

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There is a saying on the promised day:

True love is not a fairy tale of love at first sight, nor is it happiness arranged by people. This is an adventure that requires courage and cost.

Love the right person, the three views fit, and everything is very comfortable. If you love the wrong person, you have to pay the corresponding price. Fortunately, Linlin hasn't been with each other for a long time, so it's not too late to get out as soon as possible.

I sent Linlin a touching expression in the past, and suddenly thought of a story about Luo Zijun and Laojin in the recent hit drama My First Half of Life, which was a typical disagreement and could not get together.

Many people say that Luo Zijun is divorced and has children. It's good enough to find someone who works as hard as Lao Jin and treats him well. Although he looks a little old and the conditions are not particularly good, he passed the exam with Luo Zijun's picky mother.

Laojin likes an elegant and beautiful woman like Luo Zijun, but she doesn't want to take her well-dressed Zijun to meet friends for fear of being gossiped by others.

Luo Zijun said: "If you think I have a problem, today may be a skirt, and tomorrow will be a sentence and a meal, right?" With a man like Lao Jin, he will lower you to his own three-dimensional level and subtly make you become the same person as him. How terrible.

If you are inconsistent in love, the three views must be compatible.

Just like I said I like the sea, but you said it would drown people. Not on the same channel at all. How can we get along for a long time? At the beginning of a relationship, you may be attracted by the other person's appearance or some advantages, but it must be three views that determine how far two people can go.

Before my friend Yun Yun resolutely broke up, my ex-boyfriend got down on his knees and got together with flowers. Many colleagues don't understand and say that he is very kind to you. Why did he insist on breaking up? Yun Yun didn't respond, but his attitude remained firm, and then the matter went away.

Once we went shopping together and talked about this endless relationship, Yun Yun said, "I never felt anything wrong with investing in myself. As a woman, I just want to be beautiful and earn money to support my family. What's wrong with buying yourself skin care products and cosmetics with your own money? I think this is a respect for my life.

But he, except during office hours, is sloppy and thinks I don't need to be nice to myself. I went to get my nails done, saying that I wouldn't be embarrassed if my nails split. I will go to the beauty salon and say that I am here no matter how boastful I am. Who do you think I'm provoking? Although he may be joking, I can't spend my life with such a person. It's terrible to think about it. "

This spat made me thrilling. The life of two people is not as free and easy as that of one person.

The pictures in this article are all from the Internet.

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In fact, some people are not wrong. If you like others, find a man who faces life with you and is full of ritual, and he will fall in love with others. If you find a woman who feels messy but warm, both sides will be happy, but two people with different views are not suitable for each other. Being together is a kind of bondage.

Life is long, and trivial things make up a long life. If you choose, there are two, and then your life will become more and more tired. Your life will be more comfortable and moist with people who have a harmonious outlook on life.

The three views are consistent, not all hobbies are the same. The best love should be mutual understanding and tolerance, mutual warmth and dependence.

You like playing games, but you are also willing to discuss the ideas in the book with me;

I like western food, but I also want to walk arm in arm with you and have a drink at the food stall.

You like to stay at home, but occasionally you are willing to accompany me to road trip.

I like traveling around the world, and I am willing to wash my hands and make bride soup for you.

The most important thing is, I know your choice, you know my contribution, I understand your emotions, you know my joys and sorrows, I am your backing, and you are my support, so that we can grow old together.

People with different views will never get your points, but you with the same views are your life destination and soul mate.

I hope we are all lucky enough to meet such a just right person in a crowded crowd.

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