What effect does the stock have on the mentality? What influence does the stock have on our life?

Although there is an old leek in my family, my father is the guide of the stock market, which has saved me a lot of detours. But many things can't be really felt without entering the market, and theory is always just theory. Even if I am prepared psychologically, I, like most investors, have experienced the pleasure of being a novice, the hesitation of being confused, greed, fear and other desires to the fullest.

Until the summary again and again, I gradually explored my own trading principles and trading models. The mentality has also experienced ups and downs, ups and downs, and then gradually matured. I have to admit that money is a good thing, and it is really hard for people who don't have much money to resist this temptation.

The joy when making money is beyond words, and the confusion and loss when losing money are also written on the face. I have told myself countless times that I should treat the numbers in my account as numbers, but it is really difficult to do so. I can only sharpen through time and slowly look down on money.

When you grow up for the first time, you dare to face the loss when you fall.

I think everyone should be like this. Once there is a loss, I feel very uncomfortable and dare not open my account. Especially when the stock loses 20%, 30%, or even 50%, they are unwilling to look at the account.

The defensive psychology of avoiding loss is normal, and it needs to be faced bravely and made a decision. The apple is rotten, so you must cut it off or throw it away. It is impossible to let it rot there without looking.

If the stock loses money, you must decide whether to go or stay, and try to control the loss within an acceptable range. If you don't use the money in the stock market and live a life without money, please treat this money as a number and face it bravely. If you can't bear the loss, don't enter the market. Since you want to stock, you can rest assured.

The second mental growth is to know that haste makes waste, and slow is fast.

Short-term money comes quickly, and if it is done well, it can be doubled in one month. K-line technology is good, and all forms are in my mind. It's not like I didn't make money. I did have the experience of doubling in three months, but when the market style changed, I earned it by luck and lost it by strength. Let me calm down and learn how to make money slowly. After entering a private equity company and getting to know the person in charge of the company. At that time, it was 20 16, and he asked me to look at the investment style of the awesome fund manager, and then think more about the essence of the stock rise.

You think private placement is speculation. In fact, private placement and public offering are very similar in style, and many of them advocate value investment. The essence of stock rising is the development of listed companies. The so-called overshoot overshoot is just a change in funds to make money quickly. As for the hype of those themes, it is essentially the future performance expectation of the enterprise, which has been amplified by funds, forming a short-term fluctuation and money-making effect.

In the long run, whether it is the whole market or individual stocks, the final rise and enterprise development are relatively synchronous. The so-called slow money means slowly waiting for the growth of the enterprise, rather than fluctuating with the funds.

20 17 and 2020, the return on value investment will be fully demonstrated. After each round of decline, the value will return, and after the value rises, it will face the squeeze of the bubble. Slow is fast. There are not many fund managers who have been annualized for more than 20% for a long time, but many of them have doubled in one year. Stocks are long-distance running, haste makes waste.

The third mental growth is to know how to let go and miss, and to have peace of mind.

Once upon a time, I always wanted to buy a big bull stock, hoping that after buying it, the stock price would skyrocket, preferably the daily limit. After a long time, you will find that excellent stocks are not rising every day, but tend to rise, not only slowly, but also full of twists and turns. When holding shares, don't expect too much from the stock, and don't read some research reports all day. Once the stock meets psychological expectations, it can be safely put in the bag.

The same is true in life. Don't always think that all good things will happen to you, stepping on the air again and again. Human nature is greedy. When we finally catch the daily limit, we hope to have a daily limit, and once the daily limit, it is extremely terrible.

Stock is a trading market. After repeated baptism, I began to become quiet, lower my expectations, accept the loss and step on the air. You should know that you can only earn money within your cognitive range, and you can't earn the excess income brought by those fund games unless you rely on luck like gambling.

The money earned by luck will eventually pass away, so I chose to let go of the gambler's psychology, the short line of drifting, the theme and concept, and the empty space again and again to find the value I can really understand.

Finally, talk about the impact of stock trading on my life.

It is said that I am nearly 40 years old, but I live a retired life, which is enviable. In fact, only I can understand the sadness of stock trading. When I first came into contact with the stock market, I thought about making some money through stock trading and improving my life. At that time, making money was a very happy thing.

After I went to a brokerage firm, it became my job to look at stocks. I not only need to study and judge myself, but also need to give some advice to my clients. I'm under a lot of pressure, sometimes the market doesn't cooperate, and it's a little miserable.

Sometimes, it is not a very pleasant thing to turn a hobby into a job. Putting pressure on yourself will push you forward, but after a long time, you will be tired. Later, when I left private placement and became a professional investor, I was relieved that I could finally take my hobby as a career. I just need to be responsible for myself.

In my life, I will reserve some funds for other financial investments to ensure my healthy cash flow, which will not be particularly affected by market fluctuations, and I will also spend some of my energy on my favorite things, such as fitness, writing, traveling and so on.

Many people dream of having the freedom of life and time. In fact, it is ok to stock up, but only if they can find ways and means to make money. The investment market is very cruel, and those who survive have a good life, but more often, they are cut off.

I'm glad I survived after stumbling for more than ten years. Although I am not as rich as those stock gods, I also share some dividends brought by the growth of listed companies. In the past two years, the concept-based investment method is slowly shifting to the value investment with actual performance as the king. And my life, from the beginning to the end, has become colorful.

Thanks to the impact of the stock market, thanks to all the twists and turns, bumps and pressures that have brought me growth. It doesn't matter if you lose money in the stock market, because the stock market is open every day and there will always be opportunities. More importantly, in the stock market, we should know how to learn and grow ourselves, and know how to enrich our experience and cognition.

Finally, give some suggestions to those who are still on the road to stock trading.

1, don't let stock trading affect the quality of life, use spare money to stock trading.

2. Don't think of the stock as a bunch of numbers because of its ups and downs.

If you can't control your hand and quit the stock market as soon as possible, gambling will be addictive and investment will not.

4. repeatedly fall into the same pit, do not sum up experience, do not know how to extrapolate, and leave the market as soon as possible.

5. If you think that reading the research reports of listed companies is invalid, it is useless to read the macro 14th Five-Year Plan. Leave as soon as possible, and you will never make money if the general direction is wrong.

6. Never borrow money for stock trading, and don't always think that you can make big money by playing poker.

7. If you lose money, you should either accept the loss, sum up your experience and start over, or leave as soon as possible to avoid greater losses.

8. Always remember that only 10% people can really make money, and less than 1% people can survive on the stock market.

9. Don't think that if you miss the market, you miss the money. There is a market every day. You can come back tomorrow. The important thing is to find the right stock.

10, when you have time, you can write notes like me, not for others, but for yourself, so that you can see your childish past and witness your growth bit by bit.