I didn't regret marrying Sichuan from Chaoshan, Guangdong, because my husband did it.

As a Chaoshan girl in Guangdong, I married a man from Sichuan. For my parents, it's very far away.

What is a distant relative? Where electric cars can't be ridden, my parents may think it's a distant marriage.

The Chaoshan parents of the older generation are very opposed to their daughters marrying away from home, mainly because of the long geographical distance and inconvenient transportation, and they are also worried that their children will not adapt to living in other places.

My parents' original intention is to let me marry to a nearby village, so that it is convenient to go home during the Chinese New Year holiday. Even if I don't get married well, I can always go back to my parents' house.

My husband is from Sichuan. When I first met him, I didn't think he was outside the province at all.

We met while working in Shenzhen. When I was a teenager, I came out to work hard and was very practical.

Shenzhen is an inclusive city with many foreigners and rich language expressions.

After being with my husband for so long, I found that if I don't tell others that he is from Sichuan, others will not see that he is from Sichuan.

We don't have much difference in taste, but I like spicy food. He eats very little.

After a year together, I took him back to his hometown to meet his parents, grandparents and all the elders, and showed him around. I hope his family can recognize him.

Through his efforts, my elders really recognized him, perhaps because we bought a house here in Guangdong and settled down, which reduced my parents' worries.

It's quick to take the high-speed train or drive home. I will go home to see my parents from time to time.

When we first got together, we discussed going to Sichuan during the Spring Festival and returning to my home during the Lantern Festival.

Because the Lantern Festival is not very popular in Sichuan, and there will be activities to worship the gods in my hometown, it is quite lively. This is what we have been doing for several years.

We have never had a conflict because of which home we went back to for the New Year, so I am quite satisfied with my husband at this point.

Let's talk about the problem of in-laws getting along first. I'm not used to Sichuan food. I like bacon and sausages.

My in-laws will also cook my favorite dishes according to my taste, and they won't be very spicy.

My in-laws and I have different living habits. We can respect each other, understand each other, and don't insist.

I don't spend much time with my in-laws, so there is no dispute or unhappiness.

Counting the four years we have gone hand in hand, we have also been upgraded to be parents this year, especially understanding our parents' worries.

It's not a bad thing to marry far away, but to choose the right person. It is that person who decides whether there is a problem with distant marriage.

Thanks to my husband's love and tolerance, I think it is a decision that I don't regret to marry in a distant place.

Girls often ask me: I like my boyfriend, but once we get married, I will stay away from him. What should I do?

Marriage still has a long way to go, and it should be done well from the beginning, especially for young men and women who are emotionally stable and have plans to enter marriage. We should always ask ourselves: Are you really ready?

The "preparation" here does not simply refer to the wedding preparation. Relatively speaking, material preparation is much simpler, and many problems will be solved when the money is in place.

What we should pay more attention to is "psychological preparation", whether we are ready to accept each other completely, including the advantages and disadvantages of each other, small temper and great truth.

Life is long, and you may encounter accidents. Ask yourself in your heart, no matter what happens, can you help each other and face various problems after marriage.

In other words, are the two sides really fully prepared to enter the marriage role-willing to sacrifice some habits when they are single for the sake of human feelings, motherhood, husbands, and husbands, make some concessions for the family, and assume the responsibilities and obligations that are consistent with their marriage roles from the overall situation of the family?

After entering the marriage, how to manage the marriage will directly determine the success or failure of the marriage.

A woman who can manage marriage meets a loving man, and when they are together, life will naturally be icing on the cake.

I also want to remind all female friends that women must have a rational mind in running a marriage, that is, don't lose yourself at any time.

Secondly, we must constantly enrich ourselves and improve ourselves, so that we can bravely face uncertain things in the long river of years.

Whether you marry a rich housewife or become a housewife, the feelings that you can grow up with your husband often go further.

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