Heart is more important than appearance, and understanding is more important than love. What's the next sentence?

Heart is more important than appearance, and understanding is more important than love. The next sentence is, if the heart is for you, the appearance can be thrown away; If the heart understands you, it is most important.

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Definition of love

Before the birth of psychology, western philosophy had begun to explore love. According to the myths and legends recorded by Plato in Drinking, people's hope and pursuit of finding the other half and restoring integrity is the so-called love. Hegel inherited and developed this view that love is a kind of fusion, that is, everything contained in an individual penetrates into another person's consciousness and becomes the object of his pursuit and possession.

Since 1930s, psychologists have also begun to explain love from different angles. ErichFromm, a German-American psychoanalyst, believes that love is to enthusiastically affirm the essence of others, actively establish relationships with others, and combine with each other on the basis of maintaining their independence and integrity.

The essence of love is giving, not receiving, and the purpose of love is to make the object happy, develop and free. Fromm pointed out that all forms of love contain the same basic elements: care, responsibility, respect and understanding. William Josiah Goode, an American family sociologist, believes that the family characteristics in the industrialized era contributed to the popularity of romantic love, which is a strong emotional pouring between two adult opposite sexes, including sexual desire and tenderness.

Stanton Peele, an American psychologist, believes that love is a kind of extensive experience, which can provide individuals with more opportunities to get in touch with the world and help the outside world, making people more lively, brave and open. Love is a beneficial relationship. The two sides trust each other, can accept and criticize, and don't worry about affecting the relationship. Love can improve a person's ability, achieve external growth, enhance the happiness of life, and is the continuation of friendship and attraction.