How should parents provide for the aged in a family with two boys?

There are many sons who don't adopt a mother, which is really a bad phenomenon in the real society. It is the duty of the son to support his parents, and the daughter-in-law will not have any opinions. Some of them are hard to show even if they have ideas in their hearts, because they are unreasonable.

Our son, combined with the rural reality, has been in my pension planning. You can talk about my ideas and practices.

I think that all families, especially those with two sons, educate their children well and cultivate them into capable, responsible and responsible men, which is the greatest guarantee for their old-age care. If you raise a neet and a mother baby boy, I'm afraid you will be disappointed! I only invest in education and am only responsible for raising children. When they grow up, they make their own decisions. I take a back seat and can only play a supporting role.

Second, let go, let go gradually! There is helplessness because of ability, and there are also considerations about wisdom. When children grow up, they must have their own lives. Only when they can live independently in this society and support their wives and children easily can they have time to visit their parents comfortably and be filial.

Then lead by example, lead by example, leave yourself a good retreat, and don't bother those who don't drag you down when you are old. If you want your children to be filial to you when they are old, you must first honor your parents and let them have a sense of security, dependence and happiness! My mother is over eighty years old. She is in good health, but her eyes are not good. She suffers from congenital myopia, senile cataract and keratitis, and may eventually be completely blind. Last year, I built a house for the elderly at home, which was completely modern and made my mother's life more convenient. As soon as the tap is turned on, hot water comes, and the room is equipped with a large bathroom, which is more convenient to touch. Let mom enjoy it for a few years, and it will be more convenient for us to take care of her old man as children. In a few decades, no matter what, we will have a backward road.

Finally, buy yourself some old-age medical insurance. Although money is needed everywhere now, it must be done. At least it can reduce the burden and pressure of the people you were born with. Let my sons not be overwhelmed by all kinds of expenses for a long time. Like me, I used to be reluctant to buy anything except tuition and my mother's monthly living expenses, but I had a minor operation a few years ago and was deeply touched. Do you buy car insurance every year? Did the third party also buy1000000? Most money is spent on children every day, right? Prove to your wife that you have lost a lot of love, even if you have. The only risk of buying old-age insurance is that you won't live that long. How can people like us who love life live fast? In case things go wrong soon, we won't need to support the elderly, and it's nothing to contribute insurance premiums to the country!

One more thing to add is, while young, work hard, take precautions and provide for the elderly!