My husband has another woman outside, so I want to make room to talk about what to say.

Everyone says that it's a shame to wash your dirty linen in public, so when you know that your husband has another woman outside, don't spread it. You should send some insinuating language content in your circle of friends. Your behavior makes me sad, and I can't accept it myself, so my husband can understand and he can understand what you mean. For others, I just see that you two may be awkward, you may quarrel, and you won't have too many ideas.