What is the expression of a wife's contempt for her husband?

What is the expression of a wife's contempt for her husband?

A wife despises her husband's performance. In a happy marriage, husband and wife will appreciate each other. This kind of marital status is something we envy, but there are also many wives who criticize their husbands' situation, and share with you what their wives look down on their husbands.

What is the expression of a wife's contempt for her husband? First, she seldom talks.

If a wife looks down on her husband, it will inevitably lead to an unbalanced and mutually beneficial relationship in this marriage.

Then, the wife always looks superior. If she really hates her husband, she can't help but despise and despise her, and even think that talking to her husband will undermine her identity.

In other words, she just showed her true feelings and rebelled against her husband in her deepest heart.

In Kan Kan, I can talk to anyone at will, but in front of my husband, I keep silent. I don't want to share my experiences, nor to express my feelings, nor to listen to my husband's worries.

Not only do you seldom talk, but you can't talk well with your husband in general, either in an impatient tone or in a reprimanding attitude.

Naturally, there is no concern and understanding for her husband, showing indifference.

Second, there is no quotient.

Emotional mentor Tu Lei said:

"Husband and wife is a profound fate, which begins with two people falling in love and ends with one person's death. To maintain this fate, the most important thing is respect, business and quantity.

Because a lover is a true partner in his life. "

When a wife doesn't realize this, she loses respect for her husband, which is the beginning of contempt. Once so, she will become strong and overbearing, and everything will be self-centered.

For the husband, it seems that he can only give orders and not listen to his suggestions.

In this case, everything the husband says is wrong, and everything he says will be denied, or he likes to make decisions without authorization and never says hello to his husband in advance.

I don't care about my husband at all. In my heart, my husband is a complete waste and exists in vain.

Third, easily deny it.

Don't expect a person who looks down on you to recognize you. Obviously, this is also impossible and unrealistic.

When a husband is in trouble, he will only be degraded and scolded by his wife. She has been denying her husband's ability. When the husband shows his skills passionately and accurately, the wife will be the first to pour a pot of cold water.

In addition to belittling and criticizing, there are accusations.

Even if the husband is in a bad mood and frustrated at work, the wife will not comfort him, but will mercilessly dig at him with some sharp words.

Husbands are like this, and so are in-laws. They don't want to associate with their husband's family, because they look down on a person and look down on his family.

At the same time, it will be taken out of context and directly interfere with male communication. Those friends who think that their husbands are outside are worthless and are birds of a feather.

Fourth, be choosy.

With such a wife, men will only become more and more inferior, weaker and less confident.

Because he never found confidence at home, no matter what he did, he was not recognized, and all his efforts were in vain, so he was devastated.

Not only at home, but also outside.

If you say you are angry with your husband, you will lose your temper with him. You often hold your child's face and accuse your husband of doing nothing and doing nothing well, but you will take all the credit to yourself.

Yes, it is to find fault with her husband and all kinds of eggs.

When a wife only finds fault with her husband, then her husband's efforts and changes are naturally invisible. It's not that you're not doing well enough, but that your wife has been demanding you with perfect standards.

It all depends on her feelings for you, just like you can never touch someone who doesn't love you.

Fifth, eliminate intimate relationships.

A wife looks down on her husband, especially in the matter of husband and wife life.

"Get out of here and don't touch me!" It should be what she always said, without any feelings, whether it is eyes or expressions, it is full of disgust, which makes people stay away from it.

To tell the truth, a long-term and harmonious relationship between husband and wife depends on the wife's worship of her husband.

When a wife no longer admires her husband, her body will instinctively resist and stay away, and a woman will not make out with a man she despises.

For a while, I dislike my husband's sweat, and for a while, I dislike my husband's smelly mouth.

I can't even sit together and watch TV at ordinary times. When my husband approaches his wife, she will move to the other side in disgust. Unwilling to go out with her husband, occasionally going out together will deliberately pull a long distance.

Separate things between two people, for example, you can't use my towel.

What is the expression of a wife's contempt for her husband? 2. Be irritable, despise you, and despise your family.

Even if an outsider is present, she won't care about "your" face and self-esteem, and she will yell at you at every turn.

There are verbal attacks and behavioral attacks!

Your repeated patience only aggravated her violent behavior.

Occasionally you will correct her mistakes, but her "what's wrong with me" look really makes you angry.

But what can you do? You have no choice!

You love her!

She never reflects on her own problems, so you have to comfort yourself again and again and try to convince yourself to forgive her violent and unreasonable behavior.

Because you love him!

So she has nothing to hide, so she is unscrupulous, so in front of outsiders, even in front of your parents, she still yells at you and bosses you around.

Speaking of parents, you are even more angry!

The more patient you are, the more responsible she will be; The weaker you are, the more she pushes her luck. Even for your parents, she has a bad face.

Actually, I can't blame her! People's psychology is "love me, love my dog".

A woman who looks down on you will naturally not have a good face towards your relatives. They are either poor or "dirty"

Really can't find a reason, then dislike them as "country people".

You find more and more that no matter how flattering you are, you can't seem to get into her heart!

Actually, I can't blame you!

It's never that you don't do well, but that you do too well.

Your love for her only condones her unreasonable behavior; Your concern for her makes her used to it and makes her unwilling to take you seriously.

In her eyes, your caring behavior seems to be flattering, like weakness, like helplessness and helplessness. How can she respect you?

Anyone in her eyes is more attractive than you!

Second, turn a blind eye to your achievements, be arrogant and indifferent to you.

No matter what decision you make, no matter what idea you have, she will always be the first person to throw cold water on you!

For you, she has only scolded, doubted, denied, laughed at and mocked.

She has never supported you! Maybe once, but only once.

One or two of your mistakes and failures have become "great events" in her eyes, so that she denies you as a person, everything about you and everything about your future.

What do you hear most often? "What can you do?" ? What are you thinking about?

Yes! You can't do anything well. In her eyes, you are nothing

Are you really useless? Not necessarily!

Just didn't do what she expected, because her expectations were too divorced from reality!

Even, she never has any illusions about you, and she never wants you to participate in her plan and life. How can you be surprised and cheered at your idea?

A woman who doesn't care about you can't really feel your life! So whatever you do, you can't arouse her passion.

What she is doing is always thinking about how to dissuade you. She didn't want it!

It's probably an instinctive reaction. It can make her feel superior, and hitting you can get great satisfaction.

You can't remember how many times you felt sorry for her abuse and indifference.

You can't count how many times you plucked up your courage and tried to get her approval again and again.

You finally failed. She poured cold water on a basin, which made you dizzy and made you completely lose the courage to live.

You gave up!

You think to yourself: that's it!

So you broke the jar, and everything was settled. She continues to blame you more and more!

You think to yourself, whatever, that's it for me!

Finally, she began to plan to leave, indifferent to you; But she can't be really good, because she has no choice but you!

In fact, she is so overbearing only in front of you!

She also knows that without you, she can't do anything and can't do anything well.

So sometimes she is cold to you, and sometimes she is warm.

Maybe it's not enthusiasm, maybe it's just a simple fear that you will die and suddenly lose you, and she will be very unaccustomed!

But as long as you are good, she will definitely continue to hit you, because she really doesn't love you that much!

Third, any decision never needs your participation.

She really feels from the bottom of her heart that "you" are not worthy of her; She really disdains to say one more word to you from the bottom of her heart.

So anything, any decision, she will not refer to your suggestions and opinions.

So she always has a condescending attitude and will say a few words to you when she is in a good mood; Ignore you when you are in a bad mood.

So you always can't figure out her mind and live more carefully for fear of arousing her emotions.

Between you, you have lost the reciprocal relationship.

You have to bow and scrape, and only by catering to it well can you have such a position and a sense of existence in this family.

You don't even feel that this is your home. She completely deprived you of the initiative, the right to know, the right to decide and even the economic right.

She proved herself overbearing, selfish, powerful and arrogant.

You have proved yourself incompetent, helpless, weak and humble.

You seem to live in peace, but in fact you have never really lived in peace!

What is the expression of a wife's contempt for her husband? First, in language, it is vitriolic, sarcastic and contemptuous.

Thinking about his wife's wife. No matter what her husband says, she will hold objections and strongly take her views as facts. Even if her husband is right, she will still be cynical and wait for a joke. Language can't tolerate her husband's refutation, otherwise it will turn over the past one by one and blame everything on her husband's incorrect behavior. Often criticize her husband's self-confidence, and give verbal blows, contempt and satire to her own shortcomings and deficiencies.

Second, in behavior, it is characterized by non-cooperation, non-negotiation, arrogance and silence.

The wife looks down on her husband from the heart and unconsciously shows some behaviors. Separate things become personal things. Your business has nothing to do with me, and my business has nothing to do with you, just like passers-by

There are some things at home that my husband can do. After the husband comes home, he still can't get his wife's affirmation and five-star praise, and will continue to choose some hard bones unintentionally. When a husband solves a problem, he will look at each other, feeling that his husband is not as good as other men, does not help easily, and is indifferent to himself or looks on coldly.

A deliberately independent husband, even in front of strangers, will not show mercy to his husband, either scolding him or ignoring him. It is not easy to show the warmth of close contact between two people in front of the masses, and he is ashamed of having such a husband. A wife's long-term contempt for her husband will lead to mental illness and cast a shadow over the family. Since we are husband and wife and a family, if we want to be happy and easily complete the afterlife, your wife and husband need to reflect on themselves and gradually get rid of this shadow.

Third, more incentives.

A top student often hears the words that hit him, and he will slowly drown himself. Speech is a plastic art. A good word is warm in three winters, and a bad word is cold in June. Don't grasp your shortcomings, find out your strengths, and talk more every day, so that you will become more and more confident.

Fourth, more aid.

A man is not made of steel, he is a man, he is a man of flesh and blood, and there are gender differences like women. He has all kinds of joys and sorrows and has a sense of the outside world. Accusing indifference will break his heart. If as a wife, I can help myself instead of beating myself, my heart will be greatly relieved. As a husband, a wife must be clear about her dissatisfaction, and inner dissatisfaction is impossible. In the long run, she is really depressed, or simply ignore herself and be alone.

Really want to change the status quo. As a husband, you should be proactive, have the courage and courage of a man, have what a man should do, and win the trust and attention of people around you. Gradually, under the direct influence of others, respect yourself. Between husband and wife, to ensure the unity of ideas, mutual understanding, inclusive understanding, life will be dull and tasteful.