I'm lonely. I'm always alone. I don't like talking Even if someone cares about me, I just look at him with my eyes.

People are social animals, so people are social. Once people leave the group alone, they will feel lonely, irritable and depressed. If this goes on, you may get depression and poor social skills, and your future life will be very difficult. I am also an introverted person. My loneliness and introversion are caused by the lack of fatherly love and maternal love. How old are you now?

If your family gives you warmth and care, what causes you to be withdrawn and introverted? You must first find out the reason why you have become such a character, and then solve the problem from the root.

Let me talk about myself, which may help you. I was raised as a left-behind child by my grandparents, who loved me very much. I was a picky eater since I was a child, and my grandmother cooked it four or five times a day. I like to eat whatever I want, and I can't wait to cut off my flesh for me to eat. My family is rich, and my parents are doing big business outside, but I have been unhappy. I'm depressed all day, I have no partner, and I stay at home all day. At that time, I understand now, that's because I miss my parents. When I reached adolescence, I felt more inferior because of my self-esteem. I don't even dare to walk, and I'm afraid of meeting people. Because I have never been in contact with people since I was a child, I can't even talk to people. I won't answer when people say hello to me. I don't know how to answer. I thought about suicide at that time, but I like reading. I don't go out to play without my partner, so I stay at home and read. I have read many books about A Dream of Red Mansions, Thirty-six Strategies, Sun Tzu's Art of War, human weakness, Jin Yong's novels, the history of world philosophy, the history of China's philosophy, many famous novels and essays in modern times, and psychology, so I will think about why I am like this. I began to learn to change. /kloc-when I was 0/7 years old, I began to learn to associate with people. I learned to be with those naughty people, imitate how they talk, laugh at irony, greet people and make friends. Imitation is the process of learning. Later, I entered the university. By the time I was 20, I had learned almost everything. Communicating with people is no longer a problem, but I am still too honest and upright, and my social skills have been improved. A person's personality is formed in childhood and adolescence, and your personality will be basically shaped in adulthood, so the environment in which you grow up at this age will determine your future and affect your destiny. Now that we have entered the society, the society is insidious, but the books we have read before are really used at this time. I have read books on psychology and learned thirty-six tricks. I can easily read other people's thoughts. I can analyze this person's personality, family environment, education and so on. From his words and actions, and I can manipulate him to play with him, with the help of other people's hands to achieve my goal. There used to be a guy in our dormitory with a bad personality, and I didn't like him.

In short, you have to change yourself, and no one can help you. Only you can change yourself, learn to communicate with others, and remember to "imitate" others, because you can't even communicate with people at the very least. This is my experience. With lively and cheerful people, you will be infected by them. Once you pass the age of 20 and become an adult, your personality will not change easily. You didn't say anything about your family environment, and neither did you. So I can't analyze why I am introverted. There are generally two reasons. One is your lack of care, love, or fatherly love, and the other is your parents' inheritance. If your parents are introverted, or most of your family members are introverted, such as your uncle, your grandfather's brothers and sisters, grandparents and uncles, then your personality is related to heredity. But it also has a lot to do with the growth environment and family environment. For example, your parents have a bad relationship and your family is not harmonious, or your parents don't love you and ignore you, or your parents often educate you in a critical way. Such an environment will make children become withdrawn, introverted, rebellious, inferior and depressed.