Is the husband's behavior an emotional affair?

There are no ifs and ifs in this world. Love is easier than marriage. This is a different life and concept in itself. Just as childhood can be simple and happy, people will inevitably face all kinds of things and troubles in the process of growing up. The things and commitments you undertake when you are in love can only exist if your marriage is good and stable. This is the foundation. Once there are problems in your marriage life, two people will not get along harmoniously or even be depressed and isolated, and there will be no understanding and trust between them. Without understanding and tacit communication, these commitments have no basis for growth and existence.

The sign of your lover is not emotional infidelity, but the germination of desire, which is a kind of heart that wants to get freshness and excitement. Because he was tired and bored in your marriage and lost his normal motivation and enthusiasm, he began to desperately seek a kind of excitement and freshness from the outside world. Once these desires get out of control, it's nothing unusual to have an emotional derailment and a physical derailment. Your worry is unnecessary.

At the same time, your worry is unnecessary, because you are right, but your worry will not bring any solvable effect to your problems. He is still in an uncertain relationship, and you still have a chance to give him a hand. Once he really finds people and feelings that strongly attract him and even resist your marriage, he may be completely inclined and extremely deteriorated.

At the same time, these also prove that you don't have to stay in the beauty of past love as you always think. Those who have passed, you now live together realistically, form a family, and completely become an emotional world different from the past. In the new feelings, getting along and communicating are brand-new feelings, and your feelings have lost motivation, fatigue and depression.

These are the roots of the problem. If the guarantee you want has no effect at all, because these are empty, can't bring any effect and feeling, and can't help solve any problems, the only thing you can guarantee now is yourself.

Only when you can examine and recognize the missing problems in your marriage, re-examine and adjust, and replenish and infect your relationship, can your marital status change.

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