My girlfriend doesn't stick to me, and I don't care if I can't meet her.

If you want her to stick to you, learn to let her be "free"

Recently, many friends asked me how to understand this sentence. Let me talk about it in detail below.

In fact, every word I say is summed up by my own many successful or failed experiences, and I won't scribble every word. I've been chatting with an 18-year-old girl about our experiences. She said, "She doesn't like her boyfriend to be in charge of her, which makes her feel uneasy. If her boyfriend makes her feel uneasy together, she will feel uncomfortable and don't want to be with him."

Although this girl's words are very emotional because she is young, it is because she has not digested too much rationally that what she said is closer to the truth. What she said is the level that her consciousness can reach, but what her subconscious mind actually wants to say is: If a man likes to take care of her and control her all day, then this man is an insecure man, and he is extremely insecure. An insecure man can't attract women, and he spends too much energy on control, so he has no more energy to do what he should do as a male animal, such as "hunting" and "turf" If you don't do what you should do, you will "starve to death" and "freeze to death" sooner or later with you. Therefore, being with such a man cannot guarantee that the instinct of female animals to reproduce and raise their offspring will be carried out in a safe and sustainable environment.

So, if you have more experiences with girls, you will find that girls who are indifferent to us all day are more likely to fall in love with us. And what we care about very much often ends up screwing up or even losing it. This also confirms what I said before, "If you don't even have the courage to lose her, how can you get her?" Dare to lose, is a man's self-confidence, firm performance, real men will lead women, rather than control women. Girls will have a very keen radar to detect your inner state, and a man with a weak heart can't escape this radar. So if you want her to really fall in love with you and stick to you from now on, first of all, you should not stick to her, try not to control her and let her be "free", but you should also have your own bottom line and principles. Your lack of control will gradually make her feel that you are a man with a strong heart, and a woman is easily attracted by this.

Many of my women like to cling to me. I feel that they are controlling me all day. I have to not go out with other women, I have to love her, and I have to say good night to her every day. Why is this happening? Do you understand now?

So learn to feel the flow, learn to pick up girls, and first learn to let her be "free".