A n experienced person said that the longer you live together, the less you want to get married.

Indeed, the longer we live together, the less we want to give each other a legal identity.

In fact, many times getting married is an impulse. When feelings are strongest, you will want to belong to each other in a legal sense. After the initial impulsive period, feelings will gradually become dull, and many subtle contradictions will be found between them, not to mention not breaking up after marriage.

Let me give you an example:

I know a man and a woman who began to fall in love in the second year of high school, then graduated and lived together until they were 28 years old, but broke up.

After nine years of love, their most impulsive thing is to get married right after graduation. At that time, both of them were looking forward to their married life, thinking of getting married as soon as they graduated, and then living a happy world of their own.

Two people graduated, facing employment pressure, and no one cares about getting married. But at that time, the relationship was still quite good, so I thought about waiting for the other party's job to be stable before getting married.

As a result, due to the different working environment and social scope, there are fewer and fewer * * * topics between two people. Although we still live together, there is basically no communication except sleeping in a bed at midnight every day. After that, both of them got tired of it. They thought the original choice was naive and finally separated completely.

It's a pity that these two people are separated from the people around them. After all, after so many years of affection, both parents are very satisfied with each other. Unfortunately, no, the relationship between the two people has long been worn out in ordinary life day after day, and what everyone sees is only shortcomings. Those advantages that are displayed in front of outsiders cannot be found in front of the closest people.

To continue is to torture each other. Both of them are rational and break up peacefully.

In retrospect, they really loved each other and even had the idea of spending their lives together. But this idea is really a hormonal impulse, and it can't stay high forever. In the back, this impulse gradually faded, and there was no such idea between two people.

Living together is best to see each other's shortcomings. Without that beautiful veil, love will soon be disillusioned.

For lovers, the best time to get married should be about a year of love. If it is too short, it is not easy to get to know each other thoroughly. If it takes too long, their feelings will easily fade away. Especially for men and women who have lived together, it is best not to live together unless marriage is on the agenda. When you find that the other person has many habits that you can't accept, your relationship will be in crisis.