Never carve a boat for a sword in love.

The autumn wind is bleak, and the fallen leaves fall half the city. Autumn rain is continuous, and a city is boundless.

Furong, Xiaoyue and I are sitting in the bookstore Starbucks, and there are little daisies in the fence next to the table. Fine rain threads sneak in quietly, but they are isolated from the glass window, merge into rain lines and slide silently along the floor-to-ceiling windows.

Lotus also has faint tears on her face. She just cried and didn't respond to her for six days. I expected this result early in the morning. I was just silent, and Abortion comforted her in a low voice from time to time.

Furong looked up at me and asked bitterly, "He used to love me so much. How did it become like this?"

I feel an indescribable sadness in my heart: how much has the past changed? We always stay where we are, hoping that person will turn around. Isn't it naive to find the old love in situ and carve a boat for a sword?

I gave "Carving a Boat for a Sword" to Furong to show her.

She read it quickly, closed her eyes, and her long eyelashes swept out a shallow shadow on her face. When I opened my eyes, it was clear, and I knew she understood.

When we broke up ten years ago, that love had fallen into the long river of years like the sword of the Chu people. She desperately salvaged it in her sweet heart, but that love of that person had already crossed Chung Shan Man in a canoe. She thought that what she saved was just a flower in the mirror, and things were wrong and people were wrong.

02

Xiangyuan, Furong and Xiaoyue are my college classmates. The four of us are neighbors and often talk and laugh together. Furong and Xiangyuan have always been closer than us. On Valentine's Day, the first day of my sophomore year, Xiangyuan made the classroom very romantic with balloons, and in full view, she confessed to Furong with 99 roses.

The hibiscus was very beautiful that day. She excitedly told us about her and Didi in the distance, saying that she was surprised and excited when she was confessed. The radiant happiness of the whole person surprised us all. So this is how you get love! It turns out that hibiscus loves to travel so much.

Xiangyuan is a 24-year-old filial boyfriend. His love for hibiscus is obvious to all. When shopping, I carry a bag, a holiday gift, and a snack that Furong likes to eat on weekdays. When I am sick, I am really meticulous. Furong always looks like a proud little princess. "My family is dead set on me and definitely can't live without me."

We always criticize her for being shameless and leaving my house one by one. However, such a distance suddenly alienated Furong in his junior year. Finally, when he faced Furong, he only replied two words, "Tired."

Don't say that Furong can't accept such a change, even we all feel a little puzzled. We repeatedly asked Furong if there was any misunderstanding, but Furong saidno. During that time, Furong was driven crazy, and things kept going wrong: she lost her mobile phone and her wallet, and we felt that she had lost herself.

Because she always follows him silently after school, no matter where he goes, she follows him silently, just silently behind him. We looked at him lovingly, but far from being moved. He only said to Furong who followed him all the way: "I don't like you anymore, and it's no use going to the ends of the earth with you."

That day, Furong drank half a bottle of white wine alone and cried and laughed in the dormitory. We looked at her haggard appearance and remembered her radiant face when she confessed a year ago. We all cried. Love always flows, and people who see such a beautiful beginning will never expect it to end so unprepared.

With our company and persuasion, Furong gradually calmed down. She began to study and slowly made up all the subjects that failed because of falling in love. Far away, he dropped out of school at the beginning of the first year of high school and never appeared again. I heard that his family arranged a job for him.

On the day she left, Lotus, who had been as if nothing had happened, was drunk again, and we realized that she had never let go of this relationship. In our eyes, the beginning of chaos and the end of abandonment are far away. For Furong, it is the person who gave her the best love.

03

After the National Day reunion, I noticed that Furong was a little strange, and she mentioned it more and more times. I watched her smile and couldn't help reminding her: "You must pay attention to your discretion. Don't get too close to him. After all, he has a family. "

Furong's face darkened for a while, and soon she smiled again. "He said that he and his wife have no feelings, and it has not been easy for him over the years. Moreover, he broke up because he was afraid of delaying my future. " I looked at her as if to talk about distant marriage, and my heart gradually became worried.

I gently advised her that it was his own choice whether Xiangyuan's marriage was happy or not, and most importantly, he chose to stay in that marriage. What's the point of being intimate with such an old love?

After listening to my words, Furong was only silent for a while, then shook my arm and replied to me coquetry. She knows. I know she won't listen.

After all, she has always loved Yuanyuan deeply, even if she turned around first, even if she was separated for ten years, she still married each other. What's more, today's hibiscus has just come out of a painful marriage. To her, this is a dead tree.

Abortion and I watched the two people rekindle their old love quickly, and watched Furong become red day by day. We all have some bad feelings. After more than ten years of ups and downs, we will never believe that Xiangyuan broke up for the future of Furong, and we will never believe that Xiangyuan has always been unforgettable.

We took turns drumming for Furong, reminding her like dragonflies that diving once again was deep enough. Perhaps our usual reminders have also played some role. When Xiangyuan offered to borrow money from her to turn over the business, she called me falteringly.

I am still a little unwilling to listen to her tone, and I can't help but feel a mass of anger: this stupid woman has been living in that princess dream! Love is so blind that it loses its usual judgment? Maybe she just wants to believe it herself.

I swallowed my anger and said to her slowly, "Do you think this will work? Explain the difficulty of being single first. Besides, although you are in Shenzhen, you actually have no savings, and you have to pay the living expenses of your children. See how he responds, or at least how much he loves you. "

Furong used my method, and I don't know how far she talked, so she slowly stopped answering the news. Today, it has been six days, and there is no response.

04

This time, hibiscus should really understand. She looked at me and gave a wry smile. "You know what? When I was a child, when I was studying the article "Carving a Boat for a Sword", I thought to myself: The man marked the boat that dropped the sword, and when the boat stopped to look for the sword, it was obvious that the boat had already left. How can there be such a stupid person in this world? "

She paused and looked out of the window, her voice floating gently. "Unexpectedly, we lived in childhood, lived and became fools."

Sober, vague and sober are the three stages of philosophy. Every time I understand, youth will be one inch shorter and autumn will be one point thicker.

The skill of carving insects is about people who stick to dogma, law and stubbornness. The article is easy to understand and the truth is not profound. Life is full of people who carve boats and seek swords in love.

The truth that a leopard cannot change his spots is naturally clear. However, in the face of colorful love, people can't help but have a glimmer of hope, thinking that their affection can change these eternal truths.

Don't trust your own goodwill, or even the other person's goodwill. You know, time is watching all the love in the world coldly.

The love in your heart is unforgettable. If you can't pick it up in the same place and go to the long road of life, please remember: never carve a boat for a sword again. Giving up and enriching is another kind of scenery.

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