But I, no way back, say something.

1. Tears after coquetry make people feel very melodramatic.

When we grow up, we leave our parents and enter a strange society, just like a chicken with full wings will fly high and fly alone in the vast sky.

Newborn calves are not afraid of tigers

We rush to the society with great expectations, as if dreams are waving to us and success is inviting us. We look forward to a prosperous future and go home in clothes.

However, after entering the society, we find that we have no education, skills and specialties. The only jobs that can accept us are dirty work, hard work and hard work. The boss is harsh, the master is strict, the price is high, the salary is very low, and the choice is small.

The first lesson in social class is that you are past the age of coquetry, so stop being melodramatic. No one will pay for your meanness and smallness.

Steamed bread and pickles are chewed together, and tears are accompanied by grievances. Many people suddenly understand that this is growth, this is life, and this is how parents worry about us.

No matter how old we are, we all seem like children in front of our parents. They have endless nagging and endless concern. In front of them, we can take off the disguise of life, speak our hearts in front of our parents and act coquettish. Where our parents are, they are our refuge.

2. The world of adults is not qualified to be tired.

There is a saying like this: "the world of adults doesn't believe in tears." Yes, many people in this society are very tired. The pressure of work, economic pressure, the pressure of raising children and providing for the aged, the burden of life and emotional problems have pushed many people to a "dead end". We are very tired at work, but we never dare to quit, working overtime crazily and staying up late desperately, just for those two silver dollars to soothe our inner worries.

This year is another special year. An epidemic has left many people without income for two or three months, so many potential family problems have erupted. In the marriage of adults, it is mainly daily necessities, the essence of life. It's just a fairy tale that people can drink enough water. It is too extravagant to talk about feelings when the real society is down and out.

I don't know if everyone feels the same way. When a man doesn't have enough ability to earn money to support his family, even gentleness is extremely cheap. So many people understand that as an adult, laziness will be abandoned by reality, and weakness will not bring sympathy. You will be tired, but you are not qualified to say tired, because this is called responsibility, responsibility and life.

Be strong for a long time and get used to it.

Do you ever cry quietly?

When the pressure is too great or even a little breathless and no one understands you, you are most likely to collapse. Those who are seemingly strong often bear the most things in their hearts.

In fact, we all hope to have a shoulder to lean on, shed all the camouflage and precautions in life, have a solid sleep, and feel the beauty of the morning sunshine and the afterglow of the sunset without any worries.

But the reality is always cruel. A strong and accustomed person will make everyone think that you are Altman. The more you look at invincible people, the more tired you get. No matter how optimistic you are, you will gradually become silent. The most helpless thing is that you really want someone to rely on, but when you look back, there is no one behind you.

In fact, everyone has a blx, but we have to bear more things. Later, we became silent. After a long time, you will especially want someone who can see through all your hardships at a glance, even if he just sticks to you silently, making you feel a little safe.

4。 We have no choice but to be strong.

Unloading the fatigue of the day, I stopped my busy steps, and now I am very quiet. Listening to the suppressed emotions in the daytime, I suddenly found that many emotions could not be expressed, and finally they could only turn into a sigh, echoing in the boundless night sky.

Kazuo inamori said: "Young man, if the money is gone, you can earn it back;" If you have no friends, you can make new ones. Love is gone, you can find it again;

Remember, you don't lack anything; What you lack is the courage to start again; Who can give you the life you want except your own efforts? "

Now that we are 30 years old, we have passed the age of willfulness. We have not reported the kindness of our parents in the world, nor have we reported the responsibility of raising children in the next life. You and I are both on the road, and there is no way out. Although it is bitter, you can't back down. Although tired, you can't be tired.

Maybe the giants of life will crush the weak, but we are the strong ones who stand up again after falling. We still firmly believe that as long as the dream does not fall, the future must be beautiful.

Pay tribute to everyone who falls in the hardships of life, get up and move forward with a smile. The way you try your best deserves everyone's respect.

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