What are the precautions for wedding guests?

Question 1: 20 points about some experiences and processes of wedding guests. Six months before the wedding, you should do the following eight things:

(1) fix a wedding date.

(2) Decide the wedding form and budget.

(3) Draw up the guest list, and you'd better think clearly before screening.

(4) Choose the location and photographer of the wedding photos.

(5) Choose dresses or fabrics and listen to the opinions of designers.

(6) arrange honeymoon trips. If you need a passport, you should apply now.

(7) Check before marriage, choose a fitness plan for yourself, and make unremitting efforts to exercise for the good feeling at the wedding.

(8) Start decorating the new house, which is the place you should pay the most attention to.

B. Three months before marriage, you should do five things:

Buy wedding rings and jewelry

(2) Try on the wedding dress and change it if it doesn't fit.

(3) Choose veil, shoes, bags, wedding cars and other accessories.

(4) Do a whole body beauty care and consult what daily maintenance should be done within three months.

(5) handle honeymoon tickets or tourist tickets.

C. Two months before marriage, you should do four things:

(1) Choose a makeup artist and a hair stylist for fitting.

(2) take wedding photos.

(3) Determine the best man and bridesmaid, and pay attention to unmarried men and women.

(4) Carefully choose several sets of underwear for yourself.

D. 1 month ago, you had to do four things:

(1) Send an invitation to the officiating party.

(2) Determine the details of the wedding and think about whether there are any omissions.

(3) Determine the on-site photographer and cameraman, and fully communicate with them. They will create memories of your life.

(4) Buy items needed for honeymoon.

E. two weeks ago, you had to do two things:

(1) Do all the confirmation work, including: banquet, number of people, on-site photographer, makeup artist and wedding car.

(2) Send an invitation letter to inform the guests to confirm whether to attend.

F. A week ago, you had to do three things:

(1) Prepare for honeymoon.

(2) Make sure that a person handles the return of things or check-out after the wedding, and gradually get rid of the role of project manager.

(3) Relax yourself as much as possible.

G. The day before the wedding, you need to do three things:

(1) Do a hand beauty treatment, and a pair of beautiful hands can bring you unexpected happiness.

(2) Take out all the clothes to be worn tomorrow and spread them on the back of the chair.

(3) Eat well and sleep well.

H. On the wedding day, you only need to do one thing, and that is to enjoy every moment!

The wording of the wedding invitation

Formal invitations follow a set of fixed wording formats. The more formal the wedding, the more formal the invitation should be;

1. full name: nicknames or initials cannot be used.

2. Write the order of family members clearly.

3. The word harmony should appear.

4. Write the date, week and time clearly.

5. The year doesn't have to appear on the invitation.

6. Attach the location and time sequence of the wedding banquet to the corner of the invitation or attach another page to the card.

Did you hear me clearly? Don't make a mistake!

Bride beauty notes

The wedding is the most important day. The bride must be beautiful and moving, but don't whitewash it too much. So here we talk about what the bride's beauty needs to pay attention to.

First of all, one month before your wedding, you should go to a beautician, ask them to help you choose the cosmetics you need, and ask them to make up for you in advance, so as not to feel that the cosmetics and the effect are not good on the wedding day, and also ask the hairdresser to do your hair first and see the effect.

Then, one week before the wedding, you should take good care of your hands, trim your nails, apply some hand cream every day, apply more before going to bed at night, and wear cotton gloves to sleep, because many people will see your wedding ring on the wedding day, and rough hands will not look good. During this time, you should trim your eyebrows and clean your teeth. If you don't wear high heels often, try them on at home for half an hour every day from now on, otherwise the new shoes will hurt your feet on the wedding day.

On the day before your wedding, you should get a manicure and then apply nail polish. Pay attention to the color of nail polish to match your lipstick, try on clothes and shoes of the same color again, and modify the inappropriate places.

On the wedding day, before you go to make up, remember to drop a few drops of eye drops into your eyes, which can make your eyes bright all day. Pay attention to the fact that the oil in the food will melt the lipstick when eating.

As long as you are fully prepared in these places, you can do it ... >>

Question 2: What is the wedding treat? In this matter of marriage, the leaders have to treat people to receive red envelopes. You don't have to worry about this kind of thing, because you have to attend the wedding of leading colleagues. Since ancient times, gifts have come and gone, and they will be returned one day. So, you can accept it without hesitation.

After all of them are invited, please don't ask them to be witnesses and don't ask them to speak. I think there is something wrong with your way of thinking. You should consider everything from the other side's point of view. If you are a leader and a soldier is married, it is good to eat high. Many people are too busy to bring gifts. So from the perspective of the leader, the leader is not very happy to be your witness or spokesperson. General leaders prefer to sit quietly, eat and drink, wait for you to come and propose a toast, and then leave. Because of the wedding, people who join in the fun are often sincere and helpful, and all activities are very tiring, including marriage witnesses and speeches. Therefore, marriage and speech must not force leaders, forcing people to see that you are going to have a wedding, and people are unwilling. Because generally speaking, the leader will marry you. If he wants to, he is the one who supports you, values you and is willing to contribute to your wonderful work. If it doesn't matter to a certain extent, no one will want to do this job. Therefore, you must consider whether you are valued by the leaders. If you are not taken seriously, you'd better keep your mouth shut, lest you bring yourself to ruin. As for the speech, it is generally the woman's elders who speak mostly, and the leadership speech is actually dispensable. After all, marriage is a family matter, not a business matter. I think the leaders will arrange the most distinguished table, choose the upper position, then trouble a related colleague to see him off, find some relatives with status to accompany him to have a good drink, and respect them as much as possible when the newcomers toast, and the leaders will be very happy! There is absolutely no need to do anything beyond the relationship!

Question 3: What should we pay attention to when getting married? Is there any special etiquette, or how to say that more friends will come? What should I say in case I can't come? 15 1, you don't need to buy too much sugar and wine. Basically, many people don't drink too much beer at noon, and a bottle of white wine is usually enough. Coke and sprite can be more, because you can drink them at home. I bought six cases of beer at the 13 table, but I pulled back five and a half cases (it seems that no one drinks beer when they get married now, most of them are a bottle of white wine, a bottle of red wine and two large bottles of drinks).

2. Generally, you should go to see the venue with people from the wedding company in advance, and then communicate your thoughts with them. But because they are more experienced, they will also give you some good advice. Usually they will go to the hotel to decorate the venue the night before. If you are at ease, you can ask a friend to watch it for you, because it may be late, but the couple should have a good rest the day before. I just went with lg myself and didn't finish until after 1 1 in the afternoon. It was 12 o'clock when I got home. I packed my things and didn't go to bed until about 1 o'clock.

Generally, sugar, tobacco and alcohol should be brought to the hotel one day in advance, because they will set the table the night before, and a box of cigarettes is enough for each table. If you open it with a small dish, so does sugar. I will take a small plate at home and count them one by one. It won't be too wasteful. Remember to prepare wedding candy and cigarettes for the hotel staff, and a small bag of candy and a box of cigarettes for the float master Xiao. (This is out of date, too. Two boxes of cigarettes per table for the float master and so on. )

Remember to bring an extra pair of stockings and sewing kit that day.

Drink less water the night before the wedding to avoid swollen eyes the next day. Go to bed early and have a good rest. This makeup artist will remind you.

6. I just forgot to arrange someone to take photos on my side that day, so I don't have any photos in my hand now, so I have to wait for the wedding company. I guess they're going to give me more money.

7. Calculate the travel time of the float on the same day, so as to avoid the groom wasting time by staying in the new house for too long. You'd better take the route ahead of time. And ask if there are any other weddings in the hotel that day, and be sure to get there before them. This is called winning the lottery.

8. I use double happiness for cigarettes. The wine belongs to Jinliufu Samsung. It's best to leave the fake wine for the couple at the wedding until the day before, because the water in it should go bad if it is kept for a long time. Just pour out all the wine and go straight to the water. You don't need to exchange some wine for some water. Water tastes worse and more disgusting. (Double Happiness ... Jinliufu ... is really low-grade. I can use Zhonghua, Maotai and Wuliangye. )

9. prepare a Zippo if you have one, haha, to avoid them always blowing out matches when lighting a cigarette at a wedding. (But in the end, it is inevitable. )

10, if you need flowers for your hairstyle, you must buy them in advance (but not too early), lest, like me, I think it's almost midnight, the flower shop is closed, or my maid of honor takes a taxi to Laitai to buy flowers, so I'm very nervous. I bought it the day before, wrapped it in newspaper (be sure to use newspaper) (flowers are wrapped) and put it in the refrigerator. If there is zero degree preservation, put it there, and if there is, put it in the cold room (it is not frozen anyway)

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Second,

1, the hotel lobby manager had better give him a red envelope separately, which will be handy.

Ask the hotel waiter to make tea for both parents in advance, otherwise it will burn people.

3. It is suggested to set up a wedding banquet director in the hotel, who will coordinate when the groom receives the bride and handle all the details in the hotel, including the placement of cigarettes, wine and sugar at each table, the time when the bride and groom arrive at the hotel and so on. The groom will be very busy that day, so someone else must take care of these things.

4. Wedding candy per package 12 to 18. If the candy bag is too big, put a jelly (children like it very much, others will think the bride is very careful).

One more thing, if your ceremony starts at 1 1 and the floats arrive at the hotel at 10: 30, make sure that everyone (not necessarily everyone) arrives at the hotel before 10: 30, so that it won't be too cold when the newcomers get off. How embarrassing it is to think that no one will pick you up at the door. We just ignored this point that day, so we stopped for 10 minutes, but fortunately, there were quite a lot of people in front of the hotel. Otherwise, it would be boring.

Generally, the wedding company will help you make floats, but the charge will be more expensive than outside. You can also find your own flower shop outside. I am a friend ... >>

Question 4: What are the arrangements for the wedding reception? Do n't worry about the menu If you go to the hotel and tell him the price of a table, he will arrange it. Then he will show you how many dishes there are at that price. If you are at home, you don't have to worry. Your parents will handle it.

Question 5: What is the wedding treat? If you get married and invite people to dinner, be sure to send invitations. What is formal and what is informal? If there is a master of ceremonies, it is called formal. No, please master of ceremonies. This is just a comparison of people now. The manager treats 15 table, because his social group is different from yours, so there is no need to compare it. If it's for five or six tables, you can get a box-style one, and it doesn't matter without a master of ceremonies. If you sit in a room with you, you will have a very close friend. Ordinary colleagues and friends, sitting in the next box. Please invite colleagues to attend. There is generally not much overlap. If the relationship is weak, you don't need an invitation and ask others for gifts. Others have ideas in their hearts. People from one department should also invite people from other departments related to iron. Department managers, supervisors and the like should be invited. (purely personal opinion) and you and your wife should also pay attention to the clothes that day. It is necessary to wear your suit, your wife's dress or cheongsam, otherwise it will be too casual. If you like cigarettes and sweets, you must be prepared. Hotels should also pay attention to the collocation of meat and vegetables when ordering food, and choose hotels with good dishes.

Question 6: What should we pay attention to when getting married? Is there any special etiquette, or how to say that more friends will come? What should I say in case I can't come? If it's a formal or sincere treat, make an appointment one or two days or a week in advance and make a good meal. For ordinary friends to eat, it is enough to make an appointment for half a day. Pay the bill. You can pay the bill when you order. Pretend to go to the toilet without paying, and pay at the front desk after eating. But don't ask the waiter to pay the bill before the guests have finished eating. It's impolite. If everyone has finished eating and hasn't paid yet, they can grab the road and pay. If there are a few people crowded in front, you have to rely on your mouth. You can say to the cashier: I am the host, they are the guests, and so on. I hope I can help you.

Question 7: When is the wedding reception usually held? I think Friday night is better! Because many people don't go to work on Saturday and weekend, and generally don't work overtime on Friday, they can enjoy themselves, regardless of the "rumors" about their second marriage. Now people don't care, the important thing is to have fun! Yes, during the Dragon Boat Festival, friends will definitely visit relatives and friends, travel and so on, and stick to their own ideas! May you live happily all your lives!

Question 8: Notes for witnesses 1. The obligation of witness and how to choose witness. As the name implies, his or her duty is to witness the wedding ... at the wedding, he or she announces and proves the voluntariness and legality of the new marriage. Therefore, in a general wedding ceremony, his or her duties include the work of a priest in a western-style wedding. (to ensure the solemnity of the wedding ceremony) has the color of * * * which is common in Chinese weddings (to declare the legitimacy of the wedding), and he (she) has the characteristics of a priest and * * *. Generally speaking, as long as the dignity and legitimacy can be guaranteed, anyone among the guests can become a new witness as long as they meet this role. In addition, according to the characteristics of witnesses, the age and gender of witnesses are different. No special requirements. There are all kinds of witnesses to choose from. It can be the classmates, colleagues, friends, relatives, parents, colleagues and friends of the newlyweds, or the leaders of both units of the newlyweds. Second, the responsibilities of the host and how to choose the host vary from place to place, and the requirements are different (for example, the host in Tianjin is the parents of the newlyweds). Take Beijing as an example, the officiating person at the wedding. He (she) is an important representative of the guests. His (her) duty is to make a polite congratulatory speech to the newlyweds on behalf of all the guests. The host can choose his or her status to be higher, older and higher than that of the witness. Preferably one of the VIPs in the wedding crowd. 3. Speaking time of witnesses and moderators. Be sure to limit their speaking time. Because from the wedding experience, it takes a lot of time for all kinds of characters to speak. In a general wedding, there may be many people talking, such as the witness, the officiant, both parents, the newlyweds and so on. If one person speaks for 3 minutes at most (3 minutes should include the time to go on and off the stage), the above 5 people will speak for 15 minutes, accounting for one third of the wedding ceremony time. It will also affect the mood of newcomers and guests. Therefore, it is required that if the witness and the officiating party are established at the same time, the witness does not need to send a congratulatory message. Because he (she) will talk to the host, express the same meaning, and repeat the speech, which is meaningless. At this time, the witness's job is only to prove the voluntariness and legality of the marriage between husband and wife, that is, to read the marriage certificate or make a short testimony. Parents and newlyweds should also be as brief as possible. ) 4. Newcomers must set up witnesses and officiators according to their own specific conditions. When choosing a witness and officiating person, we must decide the candidate according to the actual situation of our wedding and the attendance of the guests. For example, the leaders of both units are present at the wedding of the newlyweds. The newlyweds want to introduce their leaders at the wedding and arrange for them to speak in public. Then they can be set as witnesses and hosts respectively. When determining the leadership arrangement, which leader has high qualifications and which leader is older, you can arrange which leader as the host. On the other hand, as the main ceremony, you should limit his/her speaking time after the main ceremony is confirmed, because if the main ceremony is good at talking and talks endlessly, it will delay the end of the wedding. After determining your own witness and officiating person, don't forget to tell them that when they arrive at the wedding scene on the wedding day, they should communicate with the officiating person in advance to find out how the officiating person arranges their speech sessions and when they will take the stage. Of course, if the couple themselves are leaders, they can arrange their classmates and friends as their own witnesses and officiating parties. If there are new people, only the relatives of both parties are invited to the wedding, and they don't want to invite colleagues, and they are not prepared to treat them alone. You can also arrange for your relatives to be the witness and host of the wedding. At present, many couples' weddings are attended by only the leaders of the husband and wife, or for various reasons, there can be only witnesses without officiating. Without a moderator, the duties of the moderator can be borne by the witness. That requires the witness to deliver a congratulatory speech on behalf of the guests before and after reading the wedding speech. In this way, all guests can congratulate each other.

Question 9: What is appropriate for the bride to wear when entertaining colleagues and friends? Let her colleagues wear ordinary clothes. Didn't they have red clothes when they got married? Just wear this.

Question 10: What do you need to bring to the newly-married house for the first time? I found some precautions for you:

It is a gratifying thing to live in a new house.

When moving, it is suggested to pick an auspicious day to move.

Also put an apple in each room, meaning peace.

When the furniture and everything are packed

I invited my relatives, friends and colleagues to my home to play.

It's best to eat at home.

This is called a greenhouse, which means it can ward off evil spirits.

As for cooking and making a fire for the first time in the new house, there is nothing particular about it.

Before you buy a new house, you must know the customs and rules. If you want to live better, you must respect the following customs. 1. Don't come into the house empty-handed. On that day, when you walk in for the first time, you must take something valuable in your hand. Holding a git, a passbook, or a 138 yuan (for life) red envelope, that is, walking into a new house for the first time, you can't walk in empty-handed. It means that this family will be rich in the future and have more and more wealth. 2. If pregnant women don't have to move, they can go back to their parents' home for a while and then move into a new home. Pregnant women should try not to participate in the whole process of moving. 3. No more construction after entering the house. Before moving, you can try to go to the cubicle, knock and knock, and do whatever you want. Once you move in, try not to build any more. It's okay to move things. If you want to do it again, you must choose another day. 4. Choose the auspicious day of the ecliptic. Be sure to choose the auspicious day and the auspicious day of the ecliptic before noon to see when it is appropriate to move into the house in the lunar calendar. Be careful not to rush to the position. This is the zodiac day of the family. Try to be active before noon, because it is called Yang before noon and Yin in the afternoon. Try to be active on sunny days. It would be even more icing on the cake if the specific time can be determined by combining the divinatory symbols. Three days before the new house moves in, all the lights in the house should be turned on for three days and three nights until the third day. It's called the Temple of Fire. Three nights means that as soon as the fire is lit. On the one hand, it was prosperous, and after three days, the family began to prosper. On the one hand, the air begins to circulate and then goes down. If not, please ask him to go away. The temple of fire originally refers to a similar ritual of burning land before building a house. If you buy a house in a construction company, I don't know how the other party made the temple of fire at that time. That's why I do it myself in the above way. 6. entertain guests on or after the day. Treat on the same day If you are too busy that day, you can choose another day. Or, after moving to a new home, you can often invite good friends to make tea together. Make families more popular. 7. Be present in person when moving. Don't just entrust people to help move. If you move yourself, you will know nothing, so you won't lose it. 8. Cook sweet dumplings and tea on fire that day.

On the day of moving

The stove must be hot, not cold. You can cook something sweet, such as glutinous rice balls or sweet tea, and eat something sweet.

If you don't understand anything, you can ask me.