What does this sentence mean that men are afraid to touch their heads and women are afraid to touch their waists?

What does this sentence mean that men are afraid to touch their heads and women are afraid to touch their waists? What can I do if I touch it

We in China have a long history and profound culture and knowledge. Although people living in rural areas don't have much knowledge, they see, hear and experience a lot, which leads to many proverbs. Although these proverbs have no scientific basis, you will find that they do have some truth. As long as you can savor it carefully, you will certainly find the truth contained in it. The proverb that Bian Xiao wants to tell you today is: "Men dare not touch their heads, while women dare not touch their waists". What does this mean? What if I touch it?

In ancient times, the status of women was relatively low, while that of men was the opposite, especially in rural areas. First, Bian Xiao will tell you that "men are afraid to touch their heads". Friends who like to watch costume dramas should know better that in ancient times, the male head was not only the organ structure of the human body, but also represented identity and dignity. There are also elders who touch the child's head because in their eyes it is love for the child. Of course, no one else can touch it. If you touch it, it will make people lose face and cause friction. Therefore, in the eyes of ancient people, touching the head means disrespect and contempt. If a woman touches a man's head, it proves that this woman is frivolous and unruly. Although the feudal society has disappeared, there is still such a saying in the countryside.

Let's start with "women dare not touch their waists". Similarly, in ancient times, women were relatively conservative. If you touch women casually, you are disrespecting and violating them. In ordinary life, women only show their heads, and other places are wrapped tightly, otherwise they will be regarded as debauchery. Then the waist of a woman happens to be a sensitive part. If a man really touched it, it was harassment. Therefore, a woman's waist can't be touched, and only her husband has power. Of course, this is also the ancient saying of protecting women's chastity.

Even people who live in modern times want to cuddle when they see beautiful girls and take the opportunity to eat tofu. If you really do this, you won't make a good impression in front of others, and further communication will be very difficult. There are also male friends who don't know if they feel this way. When someone your age touches your head, there will be a feeling of disgust and even the idea of acting rashly. If you are your own elders, you won't feel this way. Therefore, in our life, we must not infringe on others, and we must not cause others' disgust.

Finally, Bian Xiao believes that there are many old sayings and proverbs circulating in rural areas, but we have to admire some truth in them, which are accumulated by the older generation through experience summary and knowledge accumulation. We should learn positive proverbs and vice versa. Do you hate people touching your head or waist in life?