Without the conditions and resources of the rich second generation, we can only rely on ourselves.

Without the conditions and resources of the rich second generation, we can only rely on ourselves.

I talked to the students about the struggle life that day.

First of all, let's talk about Xiong Xuanang, the champion of liberal arts in Beijing College Entrance Examination on 20 17. Xiao Xiong said that his middle-class family gave me many advantages. My parents are intellectuals, born in Beijing, and have many unique resources. He said that many children in rural areas can't get into good universities.

Bear's experience and words may have brought more pressure and heaviness to my students.

Then, I told them the story of another student who was admitted to Peking University.

Pang Zhongwang, a 0/7-year-old boy from Wuqiao/Kloc, Hebei Province, was admitted to Tsinghua with 684 points. He was born in a very unusual peasant family in Pangzhuang village, wuqiao county. My father is a schizophrenic and my mother is paralyzed in bed all the year round.

I told them: we can't compare with Xiong Xuanang, the top scholar in Beijing, because we have no better conditions than him, but each of us is better than Pang Zhongwang. You have parents to take care of you, and he should also take care of you; You have better clothes, and his clothes are just to keep warm; You can concentrate on your studies. After studying, he will pick up waste and sell it for self-reliance. He needs those grants to make a living more than we do, but many of you use them to pay for mobile phones instead of tuition. ...

What do you have to complain about compared with Pang Zhongwang? How can you complain that your parents are uneducated, and how can you complain that your parents didn't give you resources? Your greatest gratitude is that your parents gave you life!

Family is important, but hard work is more important. There is no upward fighting spirit, no determination to draw strength to fly, no superior conditions are conditions, and no rich resources are idle.

There are many ordinary people in life who do not have superior conditions and rich resources. However, it does not mean that there is nothing without superior family education. Even if it's only one percent possible, you have to make 100 percent efforts.

I still remember the inspirational facts my teacher told me in middle school.

A boy from a poor family is not decadent before poverty and poverty. Parents do nothing but play cards and drink. No one took care of him, no one helped him, and no family helped him. However, he can concentrate on his studies, cook and wash clothes by himself, get excellent grades by himself and jump out of poverty.

As long as you work hard, nothing is impossible.

I have a brother whose parents are physically disabled and whose mother is an idiot. I don't know how he spent his childhood. I only remember that he was fourteen or fifteen when he became my brother. In addition to taking care of his parents and young sister, he also sells some seasonal vegetables in the yard in the morning and evening to make up for his family. During the daytime, he was crowded with heavy housework, but his grades were still among the best. Finally, I jumped on the Longmen by my own efforts.

As long as you are diligent and enterprising, your efforts will be rewarded.

There is also a classmate who earns a teacher's salary like me, and his living security is definitely no problem, but he is bent on challenging himself and must take the civil service exam. Everyone says that there is something fishy about the examination of civil servants. Putting aside the current stability is also asking for trouble. This classmate said, I don't expect others, and I don't go through the back door. No matter what's fishy, even if it's only 1% possible, I will make 100% efforts for it. Through his own efforts, he finally turned that one percent into reality.

As long as there is a goal, as long as you are willing to work hard, all evil forces will dissipate.

Therefore, don't say that it was too late to work hard before, and don't compare the so-called superior conditions with others. From the perspective of two individuals, there is no difference between people. When there is a gap in external conditions, we should fill it with internal efforts.

Don't take chances, and don't fantasize about the myth of pie falling from the sky. Even people from well-off families have to make a lot of efforts to achieve something. If you don't work hard, you will become a wan ku.

So, don't pester the poor or the rich, don't fight for your mother for your father, don't waste time on excuses, just work hard, because life can't live up to it!