Do men really like their sons better?

Only when you have a son can you feel it! Not only men like sons, but also most women like sons. It is a fact that every man wants a son. It is also true that men also want to have a daughter. The way a father looks at his daughter is like looking at a little lover. Yes, his eyes are full of love and kindness. But what is a son? To put it bluntly, a son is a replica of a man. A man will treat his son as another new self, and it is good to beat and scold and hate iron. When I was a child, I hated my eyes. My son is my son. When I grow up, my son is my support, my backbone and my blood …

A man's love for his daughter is "precious" and his love for his son is "real"!

Give birth to a son and you will know the answer!

But when you have a daughter, I will also congratulate you on having a small cotton-padded jacket, which is quite good!

Not necessarily. Take my home for example.

Before marriage, my husband tried his best to instill in me the concept of chaozhou people's preference for sons. Like giving me a vaccination, he informed me in advance that if he could not have a son after marriage, he would continue to have children.

The first child after marriage is my daughter, and her husband's pain is in his bones. But I still say that I have to have a son in the future. Two years later, I was pregnant unexpectedly, conceived in October, and gave birth at one time. The son he missed so much was born! It turns out that he didn't like his son that much, but at the moment I was pushed out of the delivery room, I was very happy to learn that the second child was a son. Since then, my son has been kept as a stray dog, and he doesn't care whether his son's needs are warm or clean. Daughter, he has everything he wants. In the middle of the night, when his daughter turns over, he will get up and have a look. Bath her daughter, cut her hair, cut her nails, pluck out her ears, carefully cook various complementary foods, feed her, buy her clothes and toys, take her around parks and amusement places, accompany her to watch her favorite TV programs and so on. Daughter, every minute is sweet with the little cotton-padded jacket in his arms! But my son has never been treated like this. I don't even hug him. I don't like him either. I really doubt that my son has found a fake father!

From the analysis of my family, I think men want sons in the following situations.

First, their local preference for sons is deeply rooted, and the concept of having sons has been formed.

Second, having a son is purely for carrying on the family line and continuing the so-called blood line.

Third, a man only wants his son to be old, and his son can help him support his family.

Fourth, the wind of comparing with each other in men's circles is at work. Men are famous for caring about their face. Even if they have sons, especially when they brag after drinking, they are inferior to others in other aspects, but it is a great honor to have more sons than others. At least there is something to show off!

Therefore, in front of his daughter, men may not like their sons better. He only wants a son to satisfy his psychological needs. His son is a fake baby in the eyes of men!

Men say that boys and girls are all the same, and most of them are lies. Men really prefer their sons, and sons are their own replicas, which is true love; Daughter is a little lover. Although I am full of joy, I can only "cherish" and eventually I will get married. In fact, women are the same, and they prefer their sons.

I didn't think so at first, but then several things happened on the day my son was born, which made me understand that every man has a narcissistic complex. Without a son, it seems that no matter how much money you earn, you have to give it to others. No successor is a pain in a man's heart. Needless to say, the traditional concept of parents is very strong, and the reputation of having a son is dominant.

My husband is two brothers. When I was pregnant, my in-laws always stressed that they liked girls. It is much easier to have a daughter. I believe it. On the day when the baby was born, my mother felt a little guilty and took a vaccination with her in-laws: "Girls are more popular in this era. If Tingting gives birth to a girl, don't be unhappy. " The same is true of having a boy. As long as the children are healthy, we are all happy as elders. "

In-laws immediately said, "Don't worry about your mother. It doesn't matter if we have a boy. If there is a girl, we will be happier. Just relax. "

I gave birth naturally, and when I heard the doctor say it was a son, I was a little lost and a little relieved. Sadly, I really wanted a little girl at first. Fortunately, he won't have to go through the painful thing of giving birth again. I had mixed feelings at that time.

It is no exaggeration to say that when the nurse took the child out to show it to her family, my mother was relieved to know that it was a boy. She said that I gave birth to a boy. From now on, she has no pressure whether my brother gives birth to a boy or a girl. It's hard to say if all brothers and sisters have girls.

My parents-in-law exaggerated even more, and immediately burst out laughing. She asked the nurse several times, and it was true. My father-in-law suddenly patted his thigh and said to himself, "It's a boy. Boys are the best. I have a grandson. " My mother didn't know until she looked at her father-in-law and wanted a boy.

What's even more funny is that at that time, it was more than 3 o'clock in the morning, and my in-laws called their relatives one by one, completely ignoring that everyone else was sleeping at this time. My father-in-law first called her husband's grandmother: "Mom, Tingting gave birth to a boy. A hundred years later, your great-grandson will burn paper money for you. Are you happy? " Oh, my God, most people would faint on the spot if this phone call was not from mother and son.

My mother-in-law was also the first to call her husband's grandmother: "Tingting gave birth to a great-grandson for you, and I am entangled again." You see, the two daughters of the second family are born girls, and this child is the fourth generation 1 boy of the Wu family. This is a good sign. It will be great to add another boy and brothers to Yang Yang (brother-in-law) in the future. " I didn't expect that since my mother-in-law still has such an idea, there are really many boys.

Husband keeps saying that he wants a girl, but he is very happy to see his son, especially when his father-in-law says that he is exactly the same as when he was a child, with big eyes and a flat head, and he will be very smart in the future. The father and son really look like replicas, even their hobbies are the same. They play at home, assemble electric building blocks and buy all kinds of car molds. ...

My husband said that everything he lost in his childhood was found in his son, and he completely forgot that he only liked his daughter before. Now that I think about it, it was probably to comfort me. It is a very happy thing to have a replica with similar looks and hobbies in my heart.

Whenever I want a second child, my husband always says forget it. Everything will be fine with a son. Instead of wasting money and energy to have another child, it is better to cultivate a son, focusing on quality and light weight. He has no idea to win another daughter.

So is my cousin's house. My eldest daughter is in junior high school. She got pregnant on 20 14. Upon examination, she is a girl. My cousin decided not to answer it on the spot. She and others said: 20 15 is the year of the sheep, and the girl who belongs to the sheep is miserable. In fact, everyone knows that at the age of 40, she just wants to have a son.

A few years ago, my brother-in-law always had the idea of divorce because he had no son. What's the point of making so much money? Brother-in-law is a contractor and obsessed with his son. If my cousin had no son later, their marriage would have come to an end. Otherwise, how could my cousin have miscarried many times in order to have a boy, regardless of her health, and finally got her wish?

Now the little boy is spoiled. You know, when their eldest daughter was stuck in her throat with peanuts, which damaged her vocal cords and hearing, her brother-in-law thought she was giving up. Anyway, it was a girl, and finally my cousin's parents paid for the treatment of my eldest daughter. As children, the treatment is very different.

My great-uncle has two children, so he would rather be fined than have another son. Unfortunately, two cousins gave birth to four girls, which made my uncle very angry and often caused some pain. At that time, the two sons were insured, saying that they didn't expect their grandson to die. Now they are persuading their two sisters-in-law to fight for three more children, and they will not stop until they have a boy.

Of course, in most people's minds, having two children is the happiest thing. However, it is a pity to have no daughter. Envy others to have a caring little cotton-padded jacket is a kind of pain, and it is a kind of pain to have no son, especially in rural areas, Fujian and Chaoshan areas. In fact, people still like to defend their sons during the Spring Festival or when they are sweeping graves. Sons represent inheritance and strength. Having children can't be said to be as good as having girls, but they are all good. Is your boutique like this?

I can say that 99% of men like sons, while women prefer sons. Of course, in a man's heart, his daughter also likes it, but in his heart, he can't live without his son. It's the truth. I don't want to lie.

In today's society, raising a daughter is not easier than raising a son, and it costs no less than raising a son. But my daughter got married as soon as she grew up, just like you planted a flower carefully and finally enjoyed it. As a result, people even took the flowerpot. Girls go to other people's homes as soon as they can make money, and the children born are also others'. It's better to have a son for the same money.

So it's no use having five or ten daughters. In the end, they all belong to others, and none of them has anything to do with you, so you need at least one son. Most people who spray their sons have never given birth to sons. If you can't eat grapes, say sour grapes. If they have a son, they will be too proud to walk and be motivated to do things. I don't expect my son to support the elderly, but at least he can carry on the family line. Now the injured are all women. How many people were injured? So men like sons.

I gave birth to a daughter and a son. My daughter is very old. From small to large, the husband gave his daughter everything she wanted, and the son turned his back on her. However, I can still feel in my bones that he wants his son to be more promising than his daughter. My daughter was admitted to Cornell University, which ranked first in undergraduate architecture in the United States. For the blessings of people around him, he always said, "What's the use of girls learning architecture?" Some time ago, my daughter wanted to apply for a postgraduate degree at Harvard University. She got 337 points in GRE (American Graduate Entrance Examination, out of 340). I told my husband, and he just said, "I got in!" " I can't see his joy at all. If my son is admitted, I think he will publicize it. On the contrary, he usually doesn't like his son's face, but when it comes to his son's good study, he is as excited as chicken blood, and when he doesn't study well, he looks depressed. Do you think he likes his daughter on the surface, but he likes his son better in his bones?

I am a woman, I like boys, and I don't want to tell lies. I know someone will spray me, and my husband likes boys. Many people on the Internet say that my son is unfilial and my uncles give everything to his parents. My husband is a dutiful son. Of course, I don't expect my son to be a dutiful son. I just hope he lives happily! Being good to yourself is the greatest filial piety to us!

This problem involves tradition. Some people think that sons are born to carry on the family line, and only sons and daughters can inherit their own family business. In many rural areas, not only men like sons, but also women will talk about them in the crowd and win people's attention with more sons. It seems that people really like their son's feudal thoughts, which are deeply rooted.

In my opinion, having children is the greatest pleasure in life. But, to be fair, is this the child you want? Whether to have children depends on the nature of both husband and wife. Some want to have a son, but it happened that a thousand pounds came. This is the fate of two mouths! After giving birth to a "thousand pounds", do you still dislike it? What a fool. "Forward" is "Industrial and Commercial Bank of China" and "little cotton-padded jacket" for parents; My son is from Minsheng Bank, and my parents are worried and tired for their livelihood.

In all fairness, only men and women can human beings reproduce normally. People who only really miss their sons are a kind of prejudice and a manifestation of narrow-mindedness. As far as the current ratio of male to female is concerned, as long as the boys and girls born after zero zero are compared, there are more 1 18 people than 1 10 people. This is still the proportion that people get with an open mind. Under the influence of old ideas, how worrying the ratio of men to women is!

Today, there are more than 30 million bachelors. Think about it. How will these more than 30 million bachelors get married and thrive in the future? Aren't parents worried about their son's future? Just to really like my son blindly, it has brought endless confusion and sorrow to society and family.

A couple gave birth to a son and two daughters. Parents treat their son as a pet since childhood, holding him for fear of pain and letting him fly. If you don't graduate from primary school, you will mix in the society, and your parents will not care. As a result, my son 17 years old robbed people with a knife, sold heroin at the age of 23, and still stays in his cell.

Life often plays jokes on yourself, and there are things like "inadvertently inserting willows into the shadows". The two daughters that the couple usually don't like, when they grow up, one works in a hospital and the other becomes a teacher. Seeing this, some officials may wonder: does it not affect his daughter's work if someone commits a crime at home? The answer is yes-it doesn't affect! Because nowadays, it is no longer a society to destroy the nine ethnic groups.

Well, that's beside the point. We have to bring back the topic. The couple really loved their son, but in the end they became social sinners and family sorrow. Fortunately, the couple still have two daughters. Under the careful care of "splashing water", the lives of the two old people can be "seen again".

Therefore, it is not necessarily a good thing that men (including women) really love their sons. Here, people should first get rid of the old concept of son preference and maintain a good attitude. The same is true of having children. Do not show off each other, do not trample on each other; Being able to raise and educate children is the real love of men and women for children!

A friend of mine once had two daughters. At that time, he ate a lot with his friends every day, spent a lot of money, and said his mantra: eat all the flowers and get drunk. There is not much money left at home, and his wife quarrels with him all day. A family of four rented a house and lived together for almost twenty years. A few years ago, I gave birth to a son, and people suddenly changed. Not only did I take care of my family, I cooked and took care of my children whenever I had time, but I also got a job decorating beautiful seams. I work from 6 a.m. to 8 p.m. every day. When I am in a hurry, I stay up all night and have no time to eat and chat with my friends. Once when he was with us, he said: I used to think that life had no goal and I was not interested in doing anything. It's different now. After having a son, I feel that life has meaning, goals and motivation. In just a few years, he saved the down payment and bought a house of 1 10,000. Live each day to the fullest and work towards your goal. Give people a different optimism.

This is my father with a son. He also loves his daughter very much, but the love for his son is more of a responsibility!

The night I gave birth to my second child, according to my husband, eight out of nine were boys and one was a girl. When the doctor came out to report the good news, the family waiting for the girl to give birth outside changed from disbelief at first to pacing back and forth in anger and disappointment, and then slowly accepted it at the back. I think this is their mental journey and true portrayal.

My uncle (my husband's brother) is a high school teacher. He should be a highly educated person, and there is no preference for boys. The first child is a daughter, but she is not easy to spoil. But before the second child was released, I told my husband from time to time that I wanted to quit my job and have a second child. Whenever I talk about this topic, I always regret that I have to give everything I have worked so hard to others, which is too unwilling. My husband still laughs at me. You are dead, why bother to wipe your sweat? But in any case, he never stopped thinking about his son.

When Xiao Yan was pregnant with a second child, she was an elderly woman with panda blood and gestational diabetes. Remember what medicine to take, you can't buy it in China. My husband also bought three needles from Hong Kong. Two are given before birth, and one is given if you want to have three children. Uncle said to keep it, if the second child is a daughter, fight for three children [tears] [tears]

Fortunately, Xiao Yan lived up to expectations, and the second child really gave birth to a son. On the night of delivery, we also went to the hospital to accompany the baby. When the doctor came out to report that it was a baby boy, uncle looked heroic [I want to be quiet] [I want to be quiet]. When family and friends called to care, his expression was absolutely amazing. Tone light, triumphant, gave birth to a Diao, still remember.

So, really, it is meaningless for a man to like his son. In-laws take it for granted to live in their son's house. No matter how good the daughter is, the mother-in-law will feel uncomfortable when she goes to her daughter's house.

Secondly, the wealth I have worked so hard to create, I don't want to fall into the hands of people with other surnames. I think this is also the reason why many people are obsessed with having boys.

Let me talk about myself. I am a man.

When the first child was not born, colleagues around me read various predictions and concluded that 80% was a daughter. I said my daughter was fine, but I thought it would be nice to be a son. The clothes for children are all pink for girls. After birth, the delivery room doctor told me that I had a son. After the special child came out, I saw the penis. At that time, I felt that the clouds were floating and the earth could not let me go. All kinds of good news, I wish everyone knew that I had a son. That kind of mood is really restless for a long time. I'm not so excited about going to college or graduate school. Even in retrospect, I think that moment was the happiest moment in my life.

When I gave birth to a second child, my colleagues around me predicted it again, and this time it was even more outrageous. 90% gave birth to girls. I told my daughter-in-law to let them guess that two children have a daughter. Later, I made a video with my mother. My mother looked at her belly and said that she should be a prostitute. I heard my mother predict the people around me before, and I didn't miss it. I thought the old man's experience could not be wrong. I started to prepare children's clothes, but I still hope to have another son in my heart. All the clothes I bought are yellow. After I was born, I was another son. I can't believe I found two sons at the scene. After repeatedly confirming with the doctor, I am happy to sigh that God is so kind to me and feel amazing!