202 1 classic guide: most of the things you have waited for too long are not what you want.

1. Most of the things you have waited for too long are not what you originally wanted.

2. Every detour you take is actually the only way. What you have to remember is that you can never fly to your own sky with other people's wings.

It is more regrettable to get a score of 59 than a score of 0. What is more painful is not that you didn't have it, but that you almost had it.

As an adult, you should know how to distinguish the relationship between life and love. Life is not for love, love is based on life dependence. You can have a bad love, but you can't indulge in a decadent life.

Dreams are just a pot of cold water. You must add enough firewood if you want it to boil.

6. What is the reality? Lawyers want you to be sued, doctors want you to get sick, mechanics want your car to break down, and only thieves want you to prosper forever.

7. I learned to disguise because I didn't want to be seen through; I learned to hide because I didn't want to be hurt.

8. Many relationships are neither old nor new, but after experiencing something together, you really feel that the other person is quite good. This is the relationship that deserves your serious attention and heartfelt.

9. Loss is an instant. Yesterday, there were many more. Today, I got nothing.

10. When I was young, I never understood why my parents could get up so early. I didn't know until I grew up that it was not the alarm clock that woke them up, but life and responsibility.

1 1. Don't always compromise yourself by accommodating others. There are few people worthy of bending over in this world.

12. You should know that everyone's growth is also flesh and blood and painful. No, you are the only one. Only by taking what you think you can't take can you take the unknown.

13. No one can live a relaxed life without compromise. Pain is always on the verge.

14. Now people, you tell him the truth, he thinks you are lying; When you lie to him, he thinks you are telling a joke. You told him a joke and he actually took it seriously.

15. When you are not strong enough, you can't hurt others, you can only destroy yourself.

16. What makes you sad now, in retrospect for a long time, will feel nothing. The reason why you take pain so seriously is because you haven't experienced enough.

What you've been waiting for too long is probably not what you wanted.

First, some roads are far away, and it will be very tiring to go on. However, if you don't leave, you will regret it.

Second, it seems that there will always be explosive growth, explosive understanding and explosive understanding of a certain truth in a certain year, which makes the originally meaningless time scale become a dividing line.

Third, this society has kidnapped everyone's values, and everyone must become rich. It's on TV, in videos and in books. It's like all animals, whether chickens, sheep, cows, horses or rabbits, demand to be lions. In fact, only lions become lions, and other animals are driven crazy. I think it's good enough to find a job that I like, have fun from it and support my family. Why do you always want to be that lion?

Four, two people together, more is not to change each other, but to accept each other, this is tolerance. If you just want to change each other, it is not life, it is war.

When we were young, life was a shield and we were spears. We think we are hard, so we always like to beat it with corners to see what is hidden behind us. But at that time, life forgave our youth, so it didn't care about us. When we grow up, we walk out of campus and adolescence, only to find that the true face of life is a spear, which constantly impacts us, hard and cold, so we can only turn ourselves into a shield and smooth the edges and corners, no matter how painful.

6. True love, in the final analysis, has nothing to do with romantic feelings, but is obsessed with the dull fleeting time, staying together in time, holding hands in difficulties, and facing each other in old age. Although the road of love is far away, walking around it still feels very tormented. When you look back on the past, all the past events are just a light cloud, and the journey of love is just a flick of a finger. The essence of love is trouble and hardship, even if it is full of dust and danger, it needs sincere and silent protection.

Seven, I am just an ordinary person, my heart will hurt, I will cry, I will be happy, I will be moved, I will be stubborn and I will give up; I am a man, not a god, and I can't bear anything.

8. A truly powerful person will not spend too much time pleasing and attaching to others. The so-called circles and resources are just derivatives. The most important thing is to improve your internal strength. Only when you practice by yourself will others kiss you. I am a buttonwood, and the phoenix will come to live; I am the sea, and all rivers run into it. Only at that level will there be a corresponding circle, not the other way around!

Nine, a person is always looking up and admiring the happiness of others, only to find that he is also being looked up and envied by others. In fact, everyone is happy. However, your happiness is often seen by others. The mountain of happiness has no top and no head. You should learn to stop and go, see Shan Lan, appreciate the rainbow and blow the breeze, so that your mind can be satisfied with life when you relax.

One day I will make a wish, and when I wake up, I will be in a place where there is no trouble.

Eleven, you should know that a new love is an old love that you hate and love others.

Twelve, wait too long to get things, most of them are not what you want.

Thirteen, young people always have a lot of things that we can't stay, such as walking away, such as withered emotions; There are always many things that are hard to give up, such as chasing dreams, such as love in my heart; Facing the unknown factors on the road ahead, when the road is impassable, don't cling to the scenery ahead, and don't look back at the journey when you come; Simply be yourself, and there will always be a door open for your dreams.

Sometimes silence is not unhappy, but just trying to sort out your heart.

Fifteen, that year, we felt that the world was very small. Now, we don't know until we go our separate ways. Maybe a farewell is a lifetime.

Sixteen, the younger a person is, the more reasons to break up. Sometimes it's just because of an angry word, a rumor, an negligence, a little pride, a little ignorance, or just because your complicated little head thinks too much.

Seventeen, don't be hard on yourself. No matter how good others are, they are others. No matter how miserable you are, you are yourself, your unique self. Try to be yourself, and you will definitely give yourself the biggest surprise. The price of admiring others is to lose yourself. What others have, you may not have it, and what you have, others may not have it. Appreciate yourself, be kind to yourself and manage yourself well, and one day you will shine brilliantly. Life does not seek to compare with others, but to surpass ourselves.

No matter how vague dreams are, they always lurk in our hearts, so that our mood will never be peaceful until these dreams come true. Just like seeds in the field, they must sprout and grow, stick out of the ground and look for sunshine.

Nineteen, the clouds cover the fog, the water is boundless, and the road to recruiting people is long. Acacia words are not censored, so why bother to write them on letters? It takes a thousand lines of tears.

20. The form and weight of love have never been set in our hearts. What kind of love will you have when you meet a man?

Accustomed to loneliness, a person is the world.

Twenty-two, time is not to forget pain, but to get used to it.

Twenty-three, the most wasted days are days without laughter.

Twenty-four, to be such a woman: face like a peach blossom, heart like the sea, self-knowledge, sincerity and kindness, keen sense of touch, rich emotions, perseverance, independence and determination. Insist on reading, writing, listening to music, traveling, surfing the Internet, taking photos, sometimes singing, dancing, cleaning, cooking, dating and partying.

Most things that wait too long are not what they originally wanted.

First, the person who makes you cry is the one you love the most; Those who know your tears are the ones who love you the most; The person who dries your tears is the last person with you. How I wish these three people were you.

Second, don't love me in a hurry. If you like, try my strange temper and selfishness first. After duplicity, if you still love me, then my world is only you.

Third, the biggest liar in the world is if. If there are so many ifs, then there are so many right and wrong.

Fourth, in fact, understanding a person does not mean anything, and people will change. Today he likes pineapples, and tomorrow he can like other things.

Most things that wait too long are not what they originally wanted.

Good luck. If not, I wish you learn compassion in misfortune. May you be loved by many people, if not, may you learn to be tolerant in loneliness. May you wake up naturally every day of your life.

Seven, you can't just meet this person all your life. If there is, cherish it. If you miss it, change direction. Live a good life, maybe fate is shuffling cards for you. Take your time. Who doesn't want to love each other across the mountains and rivers?

Life is like a piano: the white keys are happiness and the black keys are sadness. However, remember that only black and white keys's ensemble can produce wonderful music.

Nine, waste your life on beautiful things, no matter whether these things look beautiful in the eyes of others. While young. May you and I remember when we are old, and there is a youth with a rising mouth.

Ten, the so-called education, perhaps this is the case, love and patience, plus the way children can understand. The world is neither so good nor so bad, but many things in this world can't be described only as good or bad.

Life is like a piano: the white keys are happiness and the black keys are sadness.

12. Don't think of things that you can't come, and don't be wishful thinking for people who don't belong to you. It is enough to live in the present and cherish what you have in front of you.

Thirteen, to be a man, the most important thing is to always maintain the essence of kindness. If you are kind, the world will be broad and others will be tolerant.

Fourteen, people are happy when they are simple, but few people are happy; Complex times are painful, but painful people are bustling.

Fifteen, no matter how long the road is, you can walk it step by step; No matter how short the road is, you can't walk without taking your feet. Don't let too many yesterdays occupy your today.

Sixteen, love is really a personal matter. When you fall in love with someone, you feel that the ocean is deep, the other person is on pins and needles, and others fall in love with you, but you feel helpless and funny. Perhaps the most rare happiness in this world is that the person you love happens to love you, because it is rare and short-lived, and those days are pearls, which should be used to illuminate the lonely road of life.

17. Don't use tomorrow as an excuse for not working hard. It is difficult for people who can't grasp the time to plan the future.

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Nineteen, people are often the most hypocritical and fragile when they are idle and painful, and the most sober and strong when they are struggling in the abyss.

Sorrow, grief and hatred are only temporary feelings, while kindness, memory and love are permanent feelings.

Twenty-one, the past is over, what strength is there? The future hasn't come yet. What are you worried about?

Twenty-two, love cannot be forced. If you can't live in your heart, let him go. The world you can't walk into will turn first.

You may not be naive, but you must be kind. Be kind and tolerant like a child, and then make yourself better.

Twenty-four, people who have said goodbye can often meet again in the next second; And those who never say goodbye may walk out of each other's lives forever.

The saddest thing is not that others have offended you again, but that you are always giving yourself a hard time.

Twenty-six, don't rely on a person easily, it will become your habit. When parting comes, what you lose is not someone, but your spiritual pillar. No matter when and where, learning to walk independently will make you walk more calmly.

Twenty-seven, don't worry about yourself because of others' doubts; Don't hurt yourself because of the ignorance of others.

Twenty-eight, people should not be a still life inserted in a vase for people to watch, but should be the rhythm of dancing with the wind on the grassland. Life is not an arrangement, but a pursuit. The meaning of life may never have an answer, but we should also enjoy this life without an answer.

Twenty-nine, any love separation, there is only one reason, that is, not enough love.

Sadness is not cowardice, but that you have been strong for too long.

First, some people are very happy, but they look very upset; Some people look happy when they should be worried.

Second, true love is not that you never quarrel, get angry, lose your temper or fool around, but that you have quarreled, cried and scolded, and finally you love yourself the most.

A person's happiest moment is to find the right person, who gives in to your habits and loves everything about you.

4. Love is a colorful balloon, no matter how colorful it is, it can't stand the stinging of the needle tip.

Life is not a race, but a journey. You should know how to appreciate the scenery along the way.

6. Sadness is not cowardice, but that you have been strong for too long.

Seven, some people try to find a husband, only to see whether it is suitable, and ignore their inner feelings. Some people go to find a loving man, only to see if they have feelings, but ignore the conditions of being a husband. This is all wrong. You are looking for a husband and a love. So you should have a good man who can accompany you all your life, and at the same time you should be able to fall in love with this person. Love is also suitable for a lifetime.

If someone really loves you, no matter how he puts up with it, he won't be willing to part with you. That kind of love, for your own good, is actually a lie that is getting farther and farther away from you. He's just a passer-by. True love is the result. If there is no result, you can only call yourself loved. No matter who you love, there is only one result. The person who will accompany you to the end is true love. If you can't stay with him, let him leave.

Nine, people who missed, don't look back. Love can be temporary or lifelong. Everyone can fall in love with different people at different times.

You must do what others don't want to do today, so that you can have what others can't have tomorrow.

Smile, not because you are happy for too long, but because you forget your sadness for too long. Some people, some things, can only be more truly understood if they appreciate them with their hearts.

Twelve, money can not replace love, love can not replace money, love and bread, is the perfect life.

Thirteen, some people will not forget, because they are unwilling to give up; Some people have to forget because it's not worth it.

14. Life needs nothing more than air, sunshine, health, nutrition and reproduction, as old and ordinary as ever.

Fifteen, before you want to hug a person to keep warm, you must have a temperature. Who you meet depends on who you are to some extent.

Sixteen, the concept of love is actually a moral concept. If you fall in love with a single-minded person, it is possible not to be cheated. If you fall in love with a playboy, there is certainly the possibility of loyalty, but it will definitely be very tired. Therefore, loving people is more important than managing people.

Seventeen, no matter how good you do, there are still people pointing fingers; Even if you are in a mess, there are still people singing hymns. So you don't have to fall into the eyes of others. All you need to please is yourself.

18. When you are upset, think about why you are upset, and you will find that it is not a big deal. If you care, you will be upset.

Nineteen, two people in love can quarrel or be jealous. But the last thing you can do is not like it. Because the biggest performance of loving you is all the shortcomings, and you will feel very cute. I will never hate you when I am in love. If someone thinks you are wrong in everything, everything is a shortcoming, not because you didn't do well, but because he doesn't love you anymore. Rejection is the beginning of not loving.

Twenty, I have experienced some things and met some people. Don't rely on, don't pray, relying on will only make you weak, and praying is just a comfort.

21. No matter how long the road is, you can walk it step by step. No matter how short the road is, you can't walk without taking your feet. Don't let too many yesterdays occupy your today.