A woman's mind is mature.

There is an old saying that a woman's mind is mature: a woman's heart is like a needle in the sea I believe many people have heard of this sentence and understand its meaning. Girls tend to mature early and have many ideas in their hearts. Today I want to talk to you about women's mental maturity.

Women's mental maturity is 1 1, which is particularly independent.

Naive women are often very clingy and always cannot live without others. She can't settle down to do her own thing, so she always depends on others. Mature women have their own independent thoughts. She has her own plan in mind, so she can pursue her life with goals and directions.

In fact, in love, men prefer independent women, because naive women are cute and spoiled, but in many men's hearts, life is meaningful only if they spend their lives with an independent and capable woman.

Step 2 know how to listen

Sometimes, learning to listen is wisdom. When listening to others, if you hear what others say is wrong or contrary to your own point of view, don't refute it immediately, and try to win or lose, but let others finish before discussing it; Or hear what others say is good, just write it down silently and learn from it.

Mature women usually know how to listen. She listens to her feelings with her ears, not with her mouth. I believe that in this relationship, every man prefers a woman who knows how to listen.

Step 3 do things perfectly

The more mature, richer and more experienced a woman is, the more she knows how to treat things and people. After many failures, she learned experience, faced many things and gained her own experience and experience. Therefore, she is very steady when she speaks and does things, and fully considers the problem. She will clearly consider all aspects of the matter before she begins to prepare. Only in this way can women complete their work well.

A mature woman will do things perfectly. If a woman treats things for a period of time with the most serious attitude, she will be cautious in front of her feelings.

4. Not afraid of failure

When a woman's mind is mature, she is no longer afraid of failure. She will go all out in career and emotion, but she can also accept the result of failure. She is not afraid of making mistakes at work, and she is not afraid that the person she loves will eventually leave, because she knows that failure is only an experience in her life, not the end of her life.

If you have the courage to face failure, you won't be afraid to fail again. Such women are often mature. In love, if you love someone, you will not hesitate to love, regardless of gains and losses, regardless of consequences, because she loves, she will not regret it.

5, like reading.

"There is a golden house in the book, as beautiful as jade." Reading a good book can improve yourself quickly. The knowledge in the book can be sublimated. If a woman is no longer impetuous and young, but sits down quietly to charge, I believe this woman can be respected and loved by others, whether at work, in life or emotionally.

Female mental maturity is an advantage. Unconsciously, she realized her unique charm and let more people appreciate her. Therefore, it is what women should do at this stage to strive to improve themselves and make continuous progress. As the saying goes, "If you are in full bloom, butterflies will come." When you are good enough and have someone who loves you, you will find you.

The performance of women's mental maturity 2 The six performances of women's mental maturity meet the four requirements. Congratulations on entering the ranks of "senior girls"!

1, the personality is gradually calm and calm. The passage of time has kept her away from "success as a teenager" and "newborn calves are not afraid of tigers". She is no longer like the "girl" who dared to say and do reckless things before. She is determined and calm, knowing that impatience, excitement and tears can't solve any problems. When she encounters difficulties, she will not panic, but accept it calmly, clear her mind, find out the crux of the problem, and seek the best solution to the problem, instead of crying, waiting and leaning.

2. The social circle is gradually shrinking. When I was a girl, I liked to call my friends. I think "the more friends, the easier it is", and I pay more attention to the number of friends than the quality of friends. Now, we can distinguish between "plastic friendship" and "life's best friend". We will gradually see people and things clearly in interpersonal communication, filter out those unnecessary things that bring negative energy to ourselves, and narrow our circle of friends. Friends are few but good. Although few, they are all true friends who can lend a helping hand when they are in need, and have the same three views and soul mates.

3. The desire to buy material has decreased. Buying things in buy buy was my little wish, and shopping was one of my hobbies. Whenever the season changes, I see that there is no one suitable for me, so it is time to "take a concubine". Clothes are everywhere at home. I miss them so much that I regret buying them and waste a lot of money and things. Now, the hobby of shopping is declining or disappearing gradually, and the desire buy buy material is decreasing. I only buy when I really need it, and I only buy the right ones. I didn't buy it on a whim, but I really used the money on the cutting edge.

4, often do not brush the WeChat circle of friends. In the past, I used to brush my circle of friends when I was eating, shopping and dripping, for fear that my relatives and friends around me would not know, just to brush my sense of existence and care. Now I often don't refresh my circle of friends, and set my circle of friends to "allow friends to view my circle of friends in the last three days". I don't want others to know my words and deeds, my smiles and details of my life, but I don't care much about what others think of me, I care more about my own approval.

5. Focus on family. Once upon a time, I was a strong woman with "career first" and a "desperate Saburo", and I was in a hurry at work, walking on thin ice for fear of making any mistakes. Now, I know that I am a grass at work, at best, a sky at home, a pillar and spiritual pillar. So while doing a good job, I miss my family more and love my family more. I am willing to contribute selflessly to this family, asking for nothing in return, and paying more time and energy to enjoy family happiness.

6. Pay attention to diet and health. Before, I was a person who didn't love myself. Stay up late at night to catch the play. I couldn't get up in the morning and didn't have breakfast. Lu chuan and mala Tang are my favorites, and every meal is almost out of a state of coping. Now, I have developed good living habits, going to bed early and getting up early, learning to cook well, eating as little as possible from roadside stalls, and living up to my delicate mouth and stomach. Exercise regularly and pay attention to the number of runs every day. In my spare time, there is always one on my way to study and travel, so that my soul is no longer lonely and ignorant.

The mature performance of women 3. Look at the world gently.

Tenderness is the most powerful force in the world.

Is the world won by strength?

Not exactly.

Without the power of maternal love, human society would cease to exist.

The strength of combining soft and hard is the most energy-saving and environmentally friendly.

In fact, gentleness is a trait that needs the support of inner strength most.

A fragile person often only uses brute force against the world.

Only a person with a strong heart can have a gentle and soft perspective.

If the world had developed by playing hardball, the earth would have been destroyed long ago.

Gentleness is a kind of growing energy, which promotes the existence and development of all things.

Have a decision

Dare to leave and say goodbye to the wrong person.

Now there is a very common but outrageous phenomenon, that is, some girls who are obviously in good condition fall into the hands of love rat, and even "Stan Golmore Syndrome" appears, which finally brings serious harm to themselves.

The flattering personality we often say is more common among girls.

In our education system, girls are more inclined to serve, while their independence is ignored.

Therefore, independence is more precious now.

Dare to think independently, be able to act alone and dare to give up. For many girls, it is an important ability to get happy and avoid being hurt.

Self-centered security

I am very happy with you, and I can live well alone.

We often say to give ourselves a sense of security.

This sentence is true, but people are always an animal that needs to socialize, and the perception of the external environment will definitely affect a person's state.

Indeed, many times, others can give us a sense of security, but if we don't establish an inner sense of security, it is easy to rely on the outside world to judge ourselves.

Some people say that they know that "security is for themselves", but this sentence makes every boyfriend feel pain because she isolates herself with the concept of security.

Don't deny that external things such as intimacy can bring us a sense of security. A sense of security gives us the courage to explore the world instead of isolating ourselves.

the hunger for knowledge

Always curious about the world, always feeling and exploring.

Self-growth is a very important thing for both men and women.

We should always keep ourselves fresh and curious about the world.

Standing still seems to be able to stay in a safe area forever, but in fact, stagnation is one of the biggest dangers.

Always keep yourself in a state of knowledge and constantly improve and perfect yourself.

A stagnant person means that he has lost his sense of self-worth, and at the same time, he will have some obstacles in interpersonal relationships.

Maturity is a relative state.

In fact, that is to say, we should always keep a growing heart.

The times have been changing, and the strength of girls has been continuously injected with new values.

In the future society, manual labor can't create more value, what is needed is more emotion and value creation.

Femininity is also likely to become the biggest productivity in the future.