How should I tell others when my sister died?

You should tell your intimate friend the news of your sister's death, and don't force it on others.

I've always been a person who can't hold back. I stayed at home for half a month and didn't go back to school. I told everyone who was worth talking to. At that time, I felt that I was a big burden full of negative emotions. I hope to get an answer that will cheer me up.

But now I understand that not everyone can understand my pain and have no ability to help me. At that time, it was like a black hole, because I was well protected by my parents and had no experience in life. When everything comes to me, my conversation is more like an escape.

As for how to tell others, I don't think it's necessary to exaggerate, because it will lead people around us to express their understanding, but only we know that this is not a problem that can be solved at once. It may be a kind of sadness that you will never forget, but it is necessary to say it.

Because at this age, we have not been able to resolve these sorrows well. When I found that my over-talk didn't work, I chose self-digestion. I was depressed for two months, drinking, smoking, clubbing and insomnia. I have experienced everything, even familiar schools. I can't live like before.

Finally, it eased, and I will never spend the day at night again. But in the dead of night, my roommate fell asleep. I still smoked in the toilet alone until the early morning, and then I looked at the stars alone and thought a lot.

Actually, you don't have to talk. Find something to do. I was reading like crazy at that time. Exercise goes to self-study every night. Go to the library if you have nothing to do during the day. Every day, I either play ball or run, and doing push-ups makes my hands useless. Then turn over and look at the sky. I'll do what I have to do and clear my mind.

I forgot to mention it. Call mom more often. This must be remembered. Friends around you, as long as they are true friends, will understand your unhappiness. And enlighten you. For example, my friends around me know that I am unhappy and don't ask me anything. But I am often invited to go to the movies, go shopping and play ball games. Have a drink occasionally or something.

If you really want to talk to someone, there are psychologists in the school. Yeah, good choice. Or strangers on the internet.