Find someone who is willing to listen to my nonsense

In the first issue of Qipa Shuo in the sixth season, the topic of the first debate is: "Do you want to say the correct nonsense?"

Tsinghua's fellow disciples, Yang Qixin and Xu Jiru, argued that this world is all about snow, and each has its own obscurity and brilliance.

"correct nonsense, do you want to say it?" Yang Qixin's 3-second argument poked my tears.

He said that if parents talk to us, their first reaction is silence, and they may no longer dare to send WeChat saying "stay up late less". Many times I can't speak, really because I don't know how to speak, and I don't dare to speak. I can only say "You work harder and drink more hot water".

He also said that beautiful love is to find someone to talk nonsense, and a lot of "I love you" are hidden in nonsense.

In an interview with Art Life, the host asked Wang Zhiwen, an actor who has always been single, "Why don't you get married when you are 4?"

Wang Zhiwen said, "I haven't met the right one."

The host asked, "What kind of girl are you looking for?"

Wang Zhiwen thought about it and said seriously, "I just want to find someone who can chat anytime and anywhere."

"isn't it easy?" The host laughed.

"It's not easy," Wang Zhiwen said.

For example, if you think of something in the middle of the night, if you call her, she will say, "What time is it, how sleepy it is, let's talk about it tomorrow", and you will lose interest immediately. Some words, sometimes, for some people, you don't want to say it if you think about it. It's not easy to find someone you want to talk to and can talk to.

What Wang Zhiwen said is not easy, but it is actually a "time difference". When I want to immerse myself in the grand symphony and feel sad and lonely, let me be quiet.

When we need to find a tree hole to talk about the hardships and disappointments of life, we can find a carrier to lean on and find a soothing echo.

People are really getting lonelier and lonelier as they grow up. It is no longer easy to speak as they please, and it is even more extravagant to say "nonsense".

working during the day, paying attention to efficiency first, not talking nonsense, is conscientious; When dealing with people, it is self-cultivation to pay attention to moderation and talk less nonsense.

Although parents can listen to us, they only dare to report good news, but dare not report worries. Between friends, each has his own troubles, and many words are silently swallowed back.

To find someone who can talk nonsense at any time, a tacit understanding between souls is rare. Without the company and persistence day and night, dribs and drabs of running-in, compromise and even sacrifice, it is impossible.

More people, who have their own world in their hearts, are delicate and sensitive, and have a clear idea of right and wrong, and often cannot balance their relationship with others.

When I am alone, I think it's good to be accompanied, but when I blend in with the crowd, I feel that being alone is wonderful, and I am in a dilemma.

I have read a psychological study, and if more than 9% of what a person says is nonsense, it is easy for him to feel happy. If the nonsense is less than 5%, this person will not easily experience the feeling of happiness.

It's not that nonsense makes people happier, but that people who talk too much are more likely to heal the wounds in life.

Yang Jiang once wrote in Invisibility Cloak, and she and Qian Zhongshu often talk nonsense to kill boring time.

"I'll give you a fairy magic weapon. What do you want?"

"We all want invisibility cloaks, one for each, and travel together. We just want to get rid of the shackles and experience everywhere, and we don't want to do evil. However, if you have a good time, you can't help being naughty, so you disturb people and can't hide. You have to run away quickly. "

"Oh, we have to shrink the land."

"there is also a protective method!"

to know a person, it begins with his face value, and he is immersed in talent and loyal to his character. For the rest of my life, it's actually quite happy to find someone who is willing to talk nonsense with you.

I used to think that the best love should be diamond cut diamond, but now I think that diamond cut diamond's love is good, but it is not interesting enough.

the most interesting thing is that you go into the forest to steal corn, and she watches the wind; You climb over the wall to pick pomegranates, she looks at people; You dig the sweet potato in the field, and she makes a fire to bake it. You are both petty criminals. You both know what the other person is, but you are willing to do something harmless.

It's true that it is diamond cut diamond who is evenly matched to love each other, but it's only fun if we have to harm each other.

you and I, two people * * * share the same life. We are in cahoots in broad daylight, and when it's dark and windy, we can cover each other.

Life has been so hard, you have to have someone to keep you company, talk nonsense, gather together for dinner and finish your real life.

This fast-paced era forces us to race against time, work hard and get ahead. Life seems to have only an end point and a goal, but we forget to look at the scenery that flashed outside the window.

Nonsense can make people speak freely and increase the fun of life, just like the funny bridge in film and television dramas, which is not the main line, but essential.

Girls talk about gossip and boys talk about NBA, which can not have any influence on the protagonists in gossip and the stars in NBA, but can quickly pull people apart.

Sometimes, I miss my childhood. I can lie on the ground and watch the ants move, play house with a few tiles, watch the stars all night and talk nonsense to myself.

I really want to go back to college. There was a sleeping party after lights out in the dormitory. A few people were talking nonsense at random in the dark. There was no need to guard against it and no scruples.

I keep those people who have had a pink snow in my life in my heart. The bullet was loaded in my heart, and the pub burned me, which I will never forget.

I'm looking forward to the company, not someone to stare at me and recite poems, but someone to accompany me with nonsense and make dumplings and cook noodles. Even if the mountain is closed by heavy snow, you can snuggle together.

I was once lost in a heavy snow, and I woke up from it. I was the cold in the snow for years, doomed to be half old and half naive.