In front of my parents and friends, should I still say correct nonsense?

Two days ago, Qi Pa Shuo Season 6 debated a question:

Should I still say correct nonsense?

Pro: Say it

Con: Don’t say it

Throughout the whole debate, Yang Qihan, who held the pro side, was pressed to the ground and rubbed by Xu Jiru, the contra side. The votes were disparate and the scene was tragic.

I don’t know if it’s because I’m afraid of hearing nonsense, but this time the audience took the opposite side:

It’s nonsense. What’s said is the same as what’s not said, so you’d better not say it.

There is so much noise in this era, listen less nonsense, keep your body and mind healthy, talk less nonsense, it will benefit the country and the people.

Everyone thought that Yang Qihan would definitely lose.

But during the closing argument, Yang Qihan staged a desperate counterattack with some words:

Actually, I was thinking after listening to it just now

My parents listened It’s over

Will they not dare to talk to us in the future?

If they talk to us

The first reaction is silence

I think they don’t dare to tell me to stop staying up late

?Sometimes we can’t speak,

It’s because we really don’t know how to speak, and we don’t dare to speak

I can only say one thing

Please work harder and drink more hot water

And I think love

Just find someone to say it to Talking nonsense

Because beautiful love is hidden in nonsense

After listening, many people shed tears, and the ending suddenly reversed. In the end, Yang Qihan narrowly won by one vote.

No one wants to hear nonsense, but if you think about it, most of the things we say in our lives are nonsense: nonsense about commonplace talk, nonsense about asking for help, nonsense about worrying...

Telling people you are not close to will not help, it will waste time, and you will get beaten if you are not careful.

But when the relationship is close enough, it is nonsense that fills up the time we spend together and sustains our relationship.

Have you noticed? Our parents have really been talking nonsense all their lives:

"You're back."

"Study hard."

"Don't play with your phone."

"Have you brought everything?"

"Eat more."

"What time is it, I haven't gotten up yet."

"Are you wearing long johns?"

"Take care of yourself."

"Go to bed early and stay up less late."

Day after day , year after year, from childhood to starting a family, from the reminders in the ears to the instructions on WeChat, just a few words over and over again.

Your ears will tingle when you hear it, but if you ask them to stop talking, they may become speechless in an instant. Their concern is no longer sent to you.

Most of what friends say is nonsense.

If your best friend advises you: "Don't go to that scumbag again," you will probably not listen. Next time, you will go to your best friend to cry.

I exchange hundreds of WeChat messages with them every day, all of which are from petty parents:

“I didn’t wear long johns yesterday and I was freezing to death.”

"What you said is bullshit.

”

“What’s for dinner?” "

"I'm telling you, our boss is too crazy..."

What are they? Nutritious nonsense.

But if not These nonsense words make the best friend stop kissing her.

Most of what the lover says is nonsense. The listener is covered in goosebumps, and the speaker is sweet and forgetful. Every sentence is "I love you." You".

When the British Prince Charles and Princess Kemilla were passionately in love, the phone call recording was once exposed. Good night, it will last forever.

Warning ahead, the couple is high-energy and sour

Singles please avoid

Please swipe down

And count how many times they said "good night"

Regardless of whether Charles The love triangle between the prince, Keillah, and Princess Diana is so bloody. Just this phone call, no one can deny that the two of them really loved each other.

Love has this magical power. Even a taciturn person can turn into a talkative person in an instant.

Only people who are close enough can talk openly and calmly.

Time is definitely not our highlight moment, nor is it our passionate time.

It is like a slow and long daily life, it is our leisure time and the spread of security.

It is. It’s the drop of oil in the honey that is the glue between us.

The first sign of falling out of love is that you don’t have the patience to listen to the other person, no matter what you are saying.

In the famous chatty love movie "Love is Here" trilogy, the hero and heroine Jin Feng Yulu start chatting endlessly once they meet.

They talk about everything from poetry to philosophy of life. After the passion collapsed, both of them were no longer willing to listen to each other.

The chatter between lovers turned into quarrels, and then into silence.

Love disappeared in silence. .

Meng Chuan, a talk show actor, also made a joke about the way old couples get along:

“A man’s strategy is to pretend not to hear, and a woman’s strategy is to say it again. ”

A mosquito bit me

My wife complained for an hour and a half

Then she asked me

Why didn’t you Listen to me?

?I started to envy the mosquito that was swatted to death

It's funny, but behind the laughter, there is a chill, we don't want to hear you say it. Love is no longer thick.

Therefore, I have always felt that meaningless nonsense is the touchstone of love.

Talking nonsense countless times every day is a secret signal to the person you love. ——I miss you, I love you, I pay attention to you, and I am waiting for your response.

We also rely on these meaningless and even boring signals to express our concern to each other again and again. Confirmation: Are you still there? Do you still love me?

If I get even one um or ah from you, I will feel less lonely.

Love is not "hold back your words and kiss me." ”

True love is to find someone who is willing to listen to your nonsense for the rest of your life.

It was only after I became an author that I discovered that the power of language is unfathomable.

It is a powerful tool that can help us manage relationships, obtain resources, and express our best selves.

Therefore, we force ourselves to say nice things, to say correct things, to say useful things, to speak people's words when meeting people, and to win the world by speaking nonsense.

But in the end, we need someone who listens to our nonsense to comfort our hearts.

Therefore, a philosopher said: "The most important thing is not to listen to what he says, but what is he saying?"

The important thing is not to listen to nonsense, but to hear what is behind the nonsense. meaning.

"The moonlight is so beautiful tonight" means "I love you".

"You eat more" means "I love you".

"Come and eat" means "I'm sorry."

"What are you doing" means "I miss you".

Chinese people’s love is always conveyed secretly and implicitly. If you understand, this love will be complete.

Sometimes, without this out-of-nowhere, irrelevant, insignificant nonsense, love cannot be conveyed.

So, the next time you hear someone around you talking nonsense, don’t be impatient.

You have to listen to what he is saying behind his back?

You don’t want to hear this, but you want this love.

If you like intimate words (fei) and language (hua), then I wish you will always be listened to and always loved.

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