Have you ever encountered an unscrupulous landlord?

Where I live, I have never met the landlord, only the management office.

When the epidemic broke out in April this year, it was a relatively serious lockdown and there was a shortage of food.

There are even people selling particularly rotten vegetables and fruits.

Then suddenly the management office notified everyone to go to the management office to pick up vegetables, fresh large white radish or cabbage.

I received two huge cabbages, and soon after the lockdown ended, I still had one left to eat.

Once I injured my foot, every time the people in the management office saw it, they would ask how my recovery was going, what kind of medicine I was using, and what kind of medicine worked.

Another time I lost something and went to the management office. They said they couldn’t see it under surveillance, but asked me to first ask the neighbors across the street if they had taken it by mistake or seen it. As a result, I asked the neighbor across the street and found out that it was thrown away by mistake. I was very angry and asked the management office to handle the matter, and they handled it the way I did.

In my opinion, the above behavior of the landlord has made me feel warm and grateful, and can be remembered for a long time.

But suddenly I remembered that there are many people in life who treat me better, and their behavior is better than the behavior I described above, but I didn’t remember it for a long time. Obviously I should feel more Heartwarming and grateful. For example, family members who often buy me various things, family members who care about me and buy me medicine when I am injured, friends who actively provide me with solutions after I encounter problems, what they have done for me is more than The "so-called landlord" did much more and better in the above incident.

In Li Shanglong’s book "You Just Look Hard," it is mentioned that "the people closest to you are the most likely to ignore their feelings": "The epitome of this story can be found everywhere. It is a psychological Knowledge. When someone is nice to you constantly and unconditionally, you tend to think that this is what you should do and naturally ignore their existence and feelings. However, the sudden warmth given by some strangers will make you remember it. For a long time. It's like a light that's always on. You don't think it's bright. You subconsciously think it should be on. But when a broken light suddenly turns on, you feel it. The light was extraordinarily bright. "

So, when I think of the landlord's heart-warming behavior, I can't help but think of the more heart-warming behavior of those who treat me better.