Why does my mother talk so badly? I really can't stand her.

Uh-huh, hello, in fact, many mothers are like this. When their life is not satisfactory, they place their hopes on their children. They take it out on their children when they can't satisfy her wishes. I'm almost 30, and my mother still says so. I've been like you since I was a child. She always felt that she was good, that others were bad, and that they didn't fit her heart at all, so she began to get angry with others. My dad just endured her all the year round and defended her a little, and the consequences were unimaginable. Throw things, hit people, and say what hurts the most.

I was depressed and thought about suicide. I thought I was dead, so you don't have to scold me and let her regret it for life. But every time I can't do it, another voice says, "So-and-so, you just left willingly? Don't you have a lot to do? " I've thought a lot, so I won't think about it for the time being. When I'm older, I'll find her pathetic, pathetic and hateful. Sadly, she has never lived a good life for herself all her life, pinning her hopes on me, controlling me and taking care of me all day. What is hateful is that she can't control her emotions, get angry with others and speak ill of others all day, but she doesn't realize her own bad.

I sometimes lose my temper. When I say husband, it's very similar to what my mother said when I was a child. I realized that I didn't want to be like her. She has lived half her life, so I still have a good time. We can't punish ourselves with the mistakes of others. I want to change myself, make myself excellent, find some books to adjust my emotions, study this course, and learn to control my emotions first, because besides my mother, I will also learn to control my emotions in my life. I am also learning slowly, and this learning process will be repeated, but as long as you realize that you are emotional, you must change for the better. I can't change her in my life anyway. I will also educate my children and get along with my husband in the future, so start from myself. Let's cheer together. I hope you can find a way that suits you. I wish you happiness and health forever.