Connotative classic saying: When you identify a person, you must have experienced it

1. It is often said that true friends do not need to be maintained. Wrong, the better friends you have, the more you should treat them with more care. After getting along for a long time, we know each other's every pain point and concern, and we should pay more attention to avoiding these minefields. Some jokes are even more forbidden to make, and some things are even more forbidden to do. The harm caused by the closer the person is often greater and more irreversible. Any love that lacks respect and destroys trust cannot continue.

2. Cats like to eat fish, but cats can’t swim; fish like to eat earthworms, but fish can’t go ashore. God has given you a lot of temptations, but he won’t let you get them easily. But you can’t cry out in pain when you bleed, turn on the light when you are afraid of the dark, and contact you when you miss me. At best, we are just people with stories, so life is like a dandelion, seemingly free, but unable to control it.

3. To understand a person, you must have cared about it; to see a person clearly, you must have been in trouble; to see through a person, you must have struggled; to see through a person, you must have sacrificed. ; If you see through a person, you must have been cheated; if you look down on someone, you must have cherished it; if you are optimistic about someone, you must have been touched; if you look down on someone, you must have been hurt; if you look down on someone, it must be you Experienced.

4. I have met some people who work nine to five and sometimes have to work overtime, but they can live a very interesting life. They have their own hobbies and are not afraid of being alone. They have their own persistence, even if no one cares. I admire everyone who can live a fun life in peace. There is no idle life in this world, only an idle attitude towards life.

5. Real forgetting requires no effort. One day, you came out of the bathroom and turned on the record player to listen to your favorite music. You suddenly remembered that you once loved someone. Yes, it turned out that you loved this person. It seemed like a very distant thing. , you have no feeling at all. This is forgetting.

6. If you want to become famous quickly, then get up early; if you want to grow wise quickly, then be proud slowly; if you want to age slowly, then learn quickly; If you want to be eliminated slowly, then you have to move faster. If you are not afraid of a long road, you are afraid of short ambition; if you are not afraid of slowness, you are afraid of standing still; if you are not afraid of poverty, you are afraid of laziness; if you are not afraid of opponents, you are afraid of your own trembling. The hardest thing is actually yourself.

7. Really beautiful people rarely post selfies. Really rich people rarely show off their wealth. Really loving couples don’t need to show off their affection. They don’t have much time to really have fun. People who post photos and really have a wonderful life don't need to deliberately show off their life to others.

8. Life is a journey, and life is the process. Whether you go over mountains and ridges, or travel through mountains and rivers, everything depends on you. When walking on the road of life, you don't have to carry too much burden on yourself. Only by listening to the wind will you walk more easily. Some gains may not last long; some losses may not be available again. The important thing is: let the heart learn to dance in the sunshine; let the soul learn to smile in pain.

9. There are only two kinds of people in the world. For example, if a bunch of grapes are given, one kind of person will pick the best ones and eat them first, while the other kind of person will save the best ones for last. As usual, the first kind of person should be an optimist, because every grape he eats is the best of the leftover grapes; the second kind of person should be a pessimist, because every time he eats a grape he is eating the worst of the leftover grapes. But the reality is just the opposite. The reason is that the second type of people still have hope, while the first type of people only have memories.

10. Dubai women only spend money, German women only work, Japanese women only take care of children, and Chinese women are supermen and tomboys. You have to work, start a business, wash clothes, cook and take care of the children, clean and tidy up the house, educate your children, and maintain harmonious social relations externally and harmonious family relations internally. Who said women are made of water? Chinese women are made of cement.

Classic quotation: To see a person clearly, you must have been in trouble

1. Memory is neither a short-lived and easily dispersed cloud nor a dry and transparent one, but a scab formed by charred creatures on the surface of the city. , is a sponge soaked in the liquid of life that no longer flows, a jam mixed with the past, present and future, calcifying and sealing the existence in motion: this is what you find at the end of your journey.

2. All persistence in the world is because of love. Thank you for your imperfections. It allows you to see clearly who is the person who is really good to you. If you don't know how to choose in life, you will often lose more. In the journey of life, there are always people coming and going. When the new name becomes the old name, when the old name gradually becomes blurred, it is the end of one story and the beginning of another.

3. When the evening bell rang, the accumulated snowflakes also began to fall. Rendering a silent world. The snowflakes are also falling with a feeling, which is deposited in a certain depth of the soul, sitting at the end of the season, counting the years that have passed. A cup of tea is happiness; a sip of wine is sweetness; a flower is beautiful when it blooms; a breeze is cool when the wind blows; a step in autumn is harvest.

Fourth, the road must be walked by yourself. Never place all your hopes on others. Others can give you a push at critical times, but they cannot completely replace you. Learn to be a snail. Even if your steps are slow, you must try to crawl forward step by step.

5. Be a calm person and a kind person. If people understand each other, there is no need to talk too much. If people can abandon their paranoia and unnecessary worries, even a leaf, a You can find its beauty in every little flower. As long as you pay attention, the beauty and joy in life will come uninvited.

6. Time is sometimes a kind of forgiveness. What cannot be let go, exile to time is an experience; what cannot be changed, leave it to time, and it becomes a normal state; what is difficult to let go, leave to time, it is a long-lasting love; what cannot be retained, give time, it is a sigh.

7. The meaning of possession is to make oneself richer. If you become more narrow-minded and embarrassed for a relationship, a job, a house or a value, then even though these things themselves may not be bad things, they are not good things for you. Usually, people who know how to let go are wiser than people who are good at possessing.

8. Life is a hurried journey, and those who are careless are doomed to live a hard life because they are too easily swayed by the emotions of others. Overthinking people always think wildly, and end up trapped in a mess of thoughts, unable to move. Sometimes, it is better to have less energy than to worry too much.

9. How to move forward in life requires wisdom and courage, resignation and simplicity. Fate will never stop shaping everyone. This is the connotation of life itself. Resignation is not simply giving way to troubles. It is the wisdom of consciousness that turns hostility into friendship.

10. No matter how beautiful the past is, it has all been dusty. No matter how lively it is, it cannot last for one day: one day. People are like this; when life is dull, they sometimes feel boring; when life is passionate, passion is also a kind of tiredness; when life is romantic, romance feels empty; like a mirage, there is no sense of security.

11. When you are walking in the world, how can you be afraid of this misty rain? What is right and wrong, wrong and right, money and profit, gains and losses, just treat it normally, don’t care, don’t care deeply If we think about calming down, letting go of bad grievances, and letting everything take its course, we will be one step closer to the Tao.

12. What could be more insulting than finding out that the person you love is not worthy of your love? When a duckling opens its eyes, it will attach itself to whatever it sees first, whether it is a duck or not. You need a kind of blind attachment, before the absurd reality awakens the passionate dream.

13. The so-called forever, the so-called once, what cannot be reached is forever, what cannot be forgotten is the past.

To understand a person, it must be that you have cared; to see someone clearly, it must be that you have been down; to see through a person, it must be that you have tried; to see through a person, it must be that you have sacrificed; to see through a person, it must be that you have been deceived If you look down on someone, you must have cherished it; if you look down on someone, you must have given up.

14. Don’t give up your love for life, don’t deviate from your firmness in your ideals. The most valuable thing in life is not in other people’s comments, but in the failure of one hope after another, one after another. When you return to your determination, the hardships of life may make you cry for a long night, and the next task is to welcome the dawn.

15. The most cruel thing in life is to experience a misplaced love. The most painful thing in life is that the person you love doesn't love you back. The most regretful thing in life is that we love each other deeply but cannot be together. The most confusing thing in life is being unable to find the person you like in a huge crowd of people. The most confusing thing in life is watching the one you love drift away.

16. How bad a person can be can be seen when he is arrogant; similarly, how good a person can be can be known when he is in trouble. Look at what he does when he is proud, and look at what he doesn't do when he is down. What is revealed from indulgence and perseverance is often the truest character.

17. We are always blinded by the verbal descriptions of most people, forgetting that we still have senses to explore the unknown, so in the end we can only see the scenery that everyone can see. But it is difficult to walk into the unique picture and find the unique scenery.

18. It is difficult to state principles, and it is even more difficult to grasp principles. Because principles will be disturbed by emotions and changed by interests. Distraction is kind-hearted stupidity, and change is the continuation of selfishness. Can you please be flexible in small matters, but be principled in big matters? If this is the case, everything in the world will tend to be simple and humane with a human touch. Not necessarily a good thing.

19. The starting point that is not the starting point cuts off all nostalgia; the end point that is not the end throws away all thoughts. The regret that doesn't want to end, just drifts away like this, unable to save it, leaving only empty space full of regrets. Suddenly I remembered that there is a word called: let nature take its course!

20. If you live your life as if nothing has happened, one day you will find that it is difficult for you to take even half a step forward. No matter what happens, be kind to yourself first. There are many situations in life where the goal you intend to achieve with resentment may be achieved with forgiveness. If you cherish someone, you must have been touched.

If you cherish someone, you must have been touched. If you give up someone, you must have been disappointed. Don't look at people by their superficial appearance, as time will reveal their true colors; don't follow your character in character, only in times of adversity will you see true love. Only when people are down can they see clearly who is pouring cold water on someone and who is just worrying.

A true friend is someone who waits for the dawn with you in the darkest time; a true relationship is someone who is willing to hold an umbrella for you when it rains. In this world, the person who can save you till the end is the least and the best. Only in the deepest despair can people see the most beautiful scenery.

Friends are not valuable in many ways, but in being together through thick and thin. No matter how long a relationship lasts, the most important thing is to respond to requests. The so-called Yizhen: As long as you want it, as long as I have it; as long as you need it, as long as I can. The so-called deep love is not the rhetoric when you are proud, but the hand holding your hand at the critical moment.

On weekdays, he may be the most arrogant, but he will never back down and help others in times of trouble. Those who come enthusiastically may not wait sincerely, only those who are consistent can accompany you until the end. Good luck will not be lost to time. Once a good friend comes, he will never leave again.

When you are worried, there is no one who always comforts and distresses you; when you throw away your armor, there is no one who stays by your side. People who understand you are the reason for your peace of mind, your port of comfort, and the source of your no longer being alone.

If I understand you, there is no need to explain, and there is no need to explain, because everything resonates perfectly; if I understand you, there is no reason, but it is all a reason, because the souls attract each other. Everyone can be completely defenseless in front of the person they trust the most. I only want to say my heart-felt words to people who know my heart; only those who know my heart can understand the pain in my heart.

The window of the heart is opened, and the emotions are released; the lingering feelings are placed in place. The greatest comfort is to be with us; the most real touch is to hold hands with our hearts.

There are many fates in life, which can be met but cannot be sought. How many people gradually become strangers from familiarity; how many take the initiative, and too many are regarded as being sentimental. The reason why love is forced is because the person you care about doesn't care about you; the reason why the heart is forced is because the love you value doesn't get what it wants. It can be said that we are destined to meet each other thousands of miles away, but if we are not destined to meet in the opposite direction, we will not meet each other.

If you are destined, don’t invite yourself in; if you are not destined, asking is useless. In fact, it is best to let fate take its course. Those who don’t cherish you will leave if they say they cherish you; those who cherish you will always be there even if they say they cherish you.

The true feelings in this world are always: being stubborn and smiling, being willing to go through all the trouble. Trust is like a mirror, it doesn't depend on whether you smile in front of you, but whether you are willing to cry in front of you; feelings are like a tree, it doesn't matter how tall it grows, but how deep its roots are.

The person who accompanies you is inseparable because of the warmth and friendship exchanged; the person who understands you is irreplaceable because of love and affection, so he will not leave. In fact, happy people do not get the best things in the world, but cherish what they already have. Walk alone and talk

1. When you love someone, you can be tolerant even if there is a long distance. This is love.

2. No matter when, a pre-arranged separation is always more difficult than a sudden separation.

3. Don’t leave me alone, at any time.

4. Don’t always hide behind someone when you love him. He will walk too fast, even if you speed up your pace and run as hard as you can, you won’t be able to catch up.

5. It was probably because I owed Shi Guang a favor in my previous life that I kept waiting for you.

6. Buy a laptop and watch some bubble dramas online alone, or learn something useful...

7. Everyone who forwards Weibo has I want to convey a certain mood to someone, but unfortunately someone doesn't understand it.

8. Do you like someone and you haven’t given up yet?

9. You have planted a forest in my heart, and every tree has your flavor.

10. In fact, I really like the feeling that you are only chatting with me.

11. If God lets you meet someone, will he definitely let you leave that person~

12. The person lying next to you and the person you are thinking about are often not the same person.

13. I am alone for the rest of the day. Although it is only a few days, I feel free and happy.

14. The outside world is too bleak, especially walking alone on the road.

15. I will buy a p3, listen to music and go to the beach alone.

16. The only two people I care about are the people I like, and the second is the people I like.

17. I want to wait for someone for seven years, but if I am a stranger for seven years, who knows what it feels like.

18. I want you to know that there is always someone waiting for you in this world. No matter when or where you are, you know that there is always such a person.

19. Like moths rushing to the flame, regardless of life or death.

20. To truly gaze, one must walk alone. Walking alone is a private meeting between you and the scenery.

21. No one will catch up with one’s pace, and there will be no burden.

22. One person's insomnia, one person's space, one person's longing, the picture of two people, whose tears, whose haggardness, the heartbreak scattered on the ground.

23. A person’s world, a person’s life, so comfortable, no one even nags me when I am sad.

24. There is always a moment when I feel that I am alone, and I feel a little lonely.

25. A person's night, a person's life, a person blaspheming loneliness, a person sad alone. There is only one me in my world, the protagonist is me, and the supporting roles remain the same.

26. One person can make you completely change, or he can make you completely fall...

27. A city, a road, a person, a team Smoke, a pair of tearful eyes.

28. Is there a person whose name makes you tearful?

29. For the rest of your life, you will either remain proudly single, or you will be devoted to only one person wholeheartedly.

30. Don’t forget what you once had. What you can’t get, you should cherish even more. What's yours, don't give up. What has been lost is kept as a memory.